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Janet Heimlich (Author)
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June 21, 2011
High-profile cases such as the child sexual abuse scandals in the Catholic Church and "faith healing" deaths in certain fundamentalist Christian congregations have made the public aware that religion can sometimes mask deviant and harmful behavior. But the extent of the problem is far greater than most people realize. In this revealing, disturbing, and thoroughly researched book, award-winning journalist Janet Heimlich exposes a dark side of faith that most Americans do not know exists or have ignored for a long time—religious child maltreatment.

After speaking with dozens of victims, perpetrators, and experts, and reviewing a myriad of court cases and studies, Heimlich explains how religious child maltreatment happens. She then takes an in-depth look at the many forms of child maltreatment found in religious contexts, including biblically-prescribed corporal punishment and beliefs about the necessity of "breaking the wills" of children; scaring kids into faith and other types of emotional maltreatment such as spurning, isolating, and exploiting; pedophilic abuse by religious authorities and the failure of religious organizations to support the victims and punish the perpetrators; and religiously-motivated medical neglect in cases of serious health problems.

In concluding chapters, Heimlich proposes changes in improved legislation and societal attitudes to protect children from harm and emphasizes the importance of respecting children's rights.

While fully acknowledging that religion can be a source of great comfort, strength, and inspiration to many young people, Heimlich makes a compelling case that, regardless of one's religious or secular orientation, maltreatment of children under the cloak of religion can never be justified and should not be tolerated.


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"Breaking Their Will is a powerful and deeply disturbing book, wide ranging in its exploration of religiously based physical and mental abuse of children past and present, and richly informed by both personal and scholarly reflections and insights. This book will have a profound impact upon the consciences and actions of readers from a wide range of religious perspectives who surely will be convinced, after finishing this book, that children deserve to be free from all forms of physical violence in the guise of discipline and the other forms of physical and mental abuse explored in Heimlich's book." --Philip Greven, author of Spare the Child: The Religious Roots of Punishment and the Psychological Impact of Physical Abuse

"Insightful, provocative, exposing, and well written, Janet Heimlich casts a bright light on the presence of child abuse in institutional religion, forcing it out of the dark corners of denial and into the arena of honesty and reality. I hope it is widely read." --Bishop John Shelby Spong, author, The Sins of Scripture: Exposing the Bible's Texts of Hate to Reveal the God of Love

"Child mistreatment, backed by religious tenets, is one of the most disturbing realities, especially when religions also have a unique capacity to cherish and protect children. With courage, compassion, and adept use of interviews and research on a wide range of violations, Janet Heimlich grapples with causes and constructive solutions. This is a book that all of us, but especially religious believers among us, should read as a first step to providing children the love and security they deserve. In my own teaching and research, I've looked for a book that focuses explicitly on how religion becomes entangled in harming children and am glad to have a book to recommend." --Bonnie J. Miller-McLemore, author of Let the Children Come: Reimagining Childhood from a Christian Perspective

"Breaking Their Will is both heartbreaking and motivating. After rightly noting that religion is most often not harmful to children, Janet Heimlich details the unique ability of religion in its worst manifestations to inflict lasting pain, humiliation, and terror on the most vulnerable members of our society. Perhaps the crowning achievement of the book is its call to action—a chapter devoted to specific ways in which officials, lawmakers, parents, and even faith communities can root out religious child abuse and remove its claims of immunity from challenge." --Dale McGowan, author/editor, Parenting Beyond Belief and Raising Freethinkers

About the Author

As a freelance reporter for National Public Radio, Janet Heimlich won nine journalism awards, including the prestigious Katie, given by the Press Club of Dallas; the Houston Press Club's Radio Journalist of the Year; and the Texas Bar Association's Gavel Award. In addition to her radio work, Ms. Heimlich has written non-fiction articles for such publications as Texas Monthly, the Austin American-Statesman, the Texas Observer, Tribeza, and Edible Austin. Her book Breaking Their Will: Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment is the first to take an in-depth look at child abuse and neglect caused by religious belief.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 397 pages
  • Publisher: Prometheus Books (June 21, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 161614405X
  • ISBN-13: 978-1616144050
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #287,907 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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As a freelance reporter for National Public Radio, Janet Heimlich won nine journalism awards, including the prestigious Katie, given by the Press Club of Dallas; the Houston Press Club's Radio Journalist of the Year; and the Texas Bar Association's Gavel Award. In addition to her radio work, Ms. Heimlich has written non-fiction articles for such publications as Texas Monthly, the Austin American-Statesman, the Texas Observer, Tribeza, and Edible Austin. Her book Breaking Their Will: Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment is the first to take an in-depth look at child abuse and neglect caused by religious belief.

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
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As soon as I began to read Janet's book, I knew I wouldn't be getting much else done in my life. I was taken in and blown away. If you are a fundamentalist, then I don't think you're going to like what she says. If you are open to learning about what it's like to be a child raised in an environment where your caregivers withhold medical treatment, inflict corporal punishment, or refuse to protect you against sexual abuse from those in authority, this book *is* for you.

For far too long, religion has been something beyond approach. We hear of a parent beating a child to death, and we demand justice. We hear that that parent was following god's will, and then we step away because this is a religious matter.

Janet is not asking for a world free of religion. Janet is suggestion that religious leaders and law enforcement work together to create a safer world for children. Those on the outside of religion don't understand the resolve and passion of those inside religions. They don't understand that arguing with religious extremist does not help. If you don't believe me, go and read the comments on the book "To Train A Child" by Michael Pearl. Arguing in that context doesn't make the world safer for children. Instead, Janet is appealing to all who will listen that we need to work together.

My hope is that pastors, priests, and other religious leaders work with our justice system to better understand each other. That reporting abuse to the authorities does not diminish someone's faith or spiritual beliefs. Having a societal conversation about corporal punishment is not equal to whether or not there's a god. Take the taboo out of religion.

I know all to well how dangerous religion can be. I've paid a dear price for the religious devotion of my parents and church. Please give Janet a chance to open a powerful conversation. Please find the courage to speak up and be heard in that conversation. Put your fear and hatred aside and listen. Our children deserve a safe place to grow up. And, it is our responsibility to make this happen.
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16 of 18 people found the following review helpful
A "Must Read" June 18, 2011
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This is an important and timely book which takes head on a subject too long in the shadows. It's the first comprehensive, detailed and thoroughly researched look at the downside of religion as child abuse. And it's about time. Religion has for far too long had a pass when it comes to the harm that is done in its name - against children as well as other believers. The remedies Ms. Heimlich suggests in the last chapter of the book are a good start to eliminating the abuse as well as the cover-ups that appear to be so prevalent in organized religion. Bravo! This book should be read by everyone in America.
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This was really a fascinating book. It took me awhile to plow through it, mainly because - especially at first - it's a bit "research dense" but once it got more into telling some of the personal stories of the people interviewed by the author it moved quickly.

In addition to being fascinating, this book is also: shocking; maddening; eye-opening; incredibly sad; and just downright hard to believe. (I don't mean that the author's research is faulty; I mean that it's difficult to accept that the things she describes in this book happen on a regular basis.)

One thing that surprised me while reading this book was learning how much has been written on various aspects of this topic. This book is very well researched, and cites numerous sources. It kind of made me wonder how this kind of stuff can still be going on, given the fact that it's obviously not a secret that it's happening. Of course, there's also plenty written to support the views of the nut jobs who perform and/or condone these horrific acts against children, so I guess it balances out.

There was just one area where I thought the book was a bit deficient. The author describes many instances of children dying as a result of religious maltreatment (physical abuse, medical neglect, etc.) but there is very little mention made of how the parents felt after their children died (often due to their own abuse or neglect.) I would have liked a lot more information about whether any light bulbs went on after they saw their children actually dead, or whether it was just accepted as "God's will."

I have always believed that the most dangerous force operating in the modern world is religious fanaticism, and this book helped confirm that.

(FTC disclaimer: I reviewed a copy of this book that I won in the Goodreads Firstreads Giveaway contest.)
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
Excellent: recommended.
This book is well researched and well written, and frankly I wish there were more like it on this topic. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Anne Rice
Breaking Their Will, A Must Read for Parents with Young Children
Janet Heimlich's new book Breaking Their Will, Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment, is a cogent investigation into religious child abuse. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Bruce
What REALLY Happens Behind Closed Church Doors...
How does religion provide opportunity for child abuse? I was one of those helpless children. Spankings, indoctrination, fear, dictatorships, and authoritarianism prove prevalent in... Read more
Published 4 months ago by M.E. Anders
Dangerous anti-Christian book
This book is an excellent read for those looking for more excuses to have Christianity abolished.
Besides the blatant anti-Christian bias through out the book, Janet... Read more
Published 6 months ago by L. Koenig
Broad, shallow and unfocused
Janet Heimlich attempts to expose not only how child abuse can occur within a religious household, school or place of worship, but also how religion itself can, under certain... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Dienne
an eye opener!
It has taken me several weeks to read this book. There is so much information in it. It is like a handbook for believers of all faiths on how NOT to raise the children in their... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Helga Zeiner
Pulitzer Prize Winner Material
Ms. Heimlich presents the underside of religion and child maltreatment, neglect and abuse in a novel and courageous way. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Debbie Winegarten
Great Read and Incredibly Well Researched
Incredibly well researched (note the large bibliography and huge quantity of footnotes) and a very good read too. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Stilt Wiltafacation
incredible piece of writing on a topic few know about in depth
Janet is a skilled writer and has done her research on this. Everything you ever wanted to know about the subject and a feeling of enlightenment when you finish reading it. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Aralyn Hughes
For everyone and all religious leaders to read!
A definite must read from Ms Heimlich, written with courage & insight.
She quite rightly uses the word "maltreatment" to describe the wanton or
neglectful disrespect to... Read more
Published 11 months ago by Raffi Cavoukian (Salt Spring Island)
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