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Marybeth Hicks (Author)
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July 1, 2008
A breakthrough parenting book that redefines the meaning of “geek”—and inspires parents to free themselves and their kids from the ‘culture of cool.’

In a world of superficial values, peer pressure, and out-of-control consumerism, the world needs more GEEKs: Genuine, Enthusiastic, Empowered Kids. Today’s ‘culture of cool’ has changed the way kids grow up. Rather than enjoying innocent childhoods while developing strong, authentic characters, today’s kids can become cynical—even jaded—as they absorb the dangerous messages and harmful influences of a dominant popular culture that encourages materialism, high-risk behaviors, and a state of pseudo-adulthood.

Author and mother of four Marybeth Hicks suggests an alternative: bringing up geeks. In this groundbreaking book, she shows parents how they can help their children gain the enthusiasm to pursue their passions, not just the latest fashions; the confidence to resist peer pressure and destructive behaviors; the love of learning that helps them excel at school and in life; and the maturity to value family as well as friends, as well as make good moral decisions.

With a foundation like that, kids will grow up to be the coolest adults.

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“Columnist, author and mother Hicks (The Perfect World Inside My Minivan) reminds us that raising children, difficult in itself, can become a Herculean task at odds with the world around us. Hicks explains how parents can protect their children’s innocence while teaching thoughtfulness, critical thinking skills, proper behavior and spirituality to better help them navigate childhood obstacles-peer pressure, pop culture and ubiquitous media input-and pave the road for healthy, engaged adulthood. Using stories and examples from her own life, Hicks sets out ten rules for parents to follow; in a curious turn of phrase, Hicks reclaims the childhood taunt "GEEK" by defining it as a "genuine, enthusiastic, empowered kid," and turns around several other concepts-"brainiac," "late bloomer," "sheltered," "homebody"-to find their true value. The ideal outcome is a child who’s socially connected but immune to the negative effects of peer pressure, advertising and media. Hicks’s helpful, strident guide is conversational and at times humorous, encouraging assertive parenting and independent thinking (saying "no," disregarding other parents’ ideas), with action plans to implement, further advice drawn from experts and a copious resource list.”
Publisher’s Weekly

"Marybeth Hicks reminds us that it is more important to be our children's parents than it is to be their friends. Her book is a go-to guide when it’s time to set limits on how much and what our children are exposed to in this world of celebrity, mass media and affluence."
--Chris Hansen, Dateline NBC Correspondent & Author, To Catch a Predator: Protecting your kids from online enemies already in your home

“Every so often a book comes along that I tell my friends they absolutely must read… Read this book, declare your status as a geek supporter or geek parent, and create a better life for your family… This is the time for us to take back our children’s childhoods, and in doing so to claim our role as strong, protective parents.”
--Dr. Kimberly M. Thompson, Associate Professor and Director of the Kids Risk Project, Harvard School of Public Health

“Today’s popular culture is robbing from an entire generation of children their most treasured possession – the sweet innocence of youth. Bringing up Geeks is a breath of fresh air, and we owe Marybeth Hicks a debt of gratitude. It’s required reading for any parent struggling to raise a child in a society that’s lost its moral compass.”
--L. Brent Bozell, President, Media Research Center, and founder of the Parents Television Council

"In an era when children are being systematically robbed of their childhood, Marybeth Hicks offers sound advice on how to let kids be kids and still grow up to be fulfilled, responsible, well-rounded adults. Bringing Up Geeks makes more sense than anything I’ve ever read on the subject of raising children."
--Pat Sajak, father, husband and host of “Wheel of Fortune”

"Marybeth Hicks writes with a keen eye and a mother's loving heart in this hilarious guide to raising a child you can actually take out in public without cringing. Brava to Marybeth and her original and comedic voice."
--Adriana Trigiani, New York Times Best-selling author

"Bringing up Geeks is the most reassuring and valuable thing I have read concerning my most important job...being a parent. I want to raise my kids to embrace the right values, and not to simply seek out the ‘cool’ route. I want them to have the confidence and conviction to follow their hearts and recognize what is truly important to them. Bringing up Geeks brings real clarity to a complicated process."
Jay Bilas, Husband, father, lawyer and ESPN basketball analyst

"Let's cut to the chase: Every parent in America should own and read this book. Parents who don't will be at a huge disadvantage, because it brilliantly helps them understand and deal effectively and wisely with raising a child in our culture today. That's the most important and difficult job there is -- and this book is simply an ENORMOUS help. It could have just been titled THE PARENT'S HANDBOOK. Do yourself and your kids a big favor: get this book and USE it! You'll be thanking the author for many years to come."
--Eric Metaxas, VeggieTales writer and author Amazing Grace: William Wilberforce and the Heroic Campaign to End Slavery and Everything You Always Wanted to Know About God (but were afraid to ask)

"Marybeth Hicks has provided readers of The Washington Times with years of parenting wisdom and her new book Bringing Up Geeks promises to add to that extraordinary body of sage advice for every family seeking to engage the hearts, souls and minds of their children in the midst of the current culture wars."
--John Solomon, Editor in Chief, The Washington Times

"Hooray for Marybeth Hicks! In her funny, original and engaging new book, she shows us everything good about parenting against the culture. Far from being a nerd, this mom inspires us to raise GEEK kids by helping us see how they will be so much more cool than their peers when it comes to finding real joy, in today's world -- and tomorrow's."
--Betsy Hart, Syndicated Columnist & Author, It Takes a Parent: How the Culture of Pushover Parenting is Hurting Our Kids -- And What to do About It

“Right on to raising happy, independent GEEKS! Rules and limits don’t stultify children any more than strict Iambic pentameter stultified Shakespeare. Marybeth Hicks encourages parents to stick to their guns and buck the sexy/cynical/smart alec kiddie culture that most parents actually hate, but feel powerless to fight. I just hope it’s not too late for me and my own kids!”
--Lenore Skenazy, Columnist, New York Sun

“Marybeth Hicks has raised the bar for families. Bringing Up Geeks boldly challenges adults to act like their children’s parents instead of their buddies. Geeks are the new cool.”
--Lori Borgman, Indianapolis Star columnist; Author, I Was a Better Mother Before I Had Kids

Bringing Up Geeks puts a positive spin on being a geek. Hicks offers insightful rationale for raising brainy, sheltered, and principled children, along with an arsenal of helpful anecdotes and sound advice. It’s cool to be uncool, and incorporating this paradigm shift will allow kids to enjoy the innocence of their childhoods, rather than be swept into our highly sexualized mainstream culture. “
--Rebecca Hagelin, Vice President, The Heritage Foundation; Author, Home Invasion: Protecting Your Family in a Culture That’s Gone Stark Raving Mad

“At last, someone is telling parents it’s better to raise a kid for success in life than to be cool in the 7th grade. If your family is teetering at the brink of today’s culture of cool (or even if you’ve been swallowed whole), pick up this book. Marybeth Hicks has emerged from the trenches to endorse common sense and courage in parenting.”
--Jen Singer, Founder, Mommasaid.net; Author, You’re a Good Mom (and Your Kids Aren’t So Bad Either)

"If you’re worried about your kids growing up too fast and struggle to keep your kids from the potentially harmful effects of MySpace, MTV and racy music lyrics, Bringing Up Geeks has the answers you've been looking for. Hicks' practical, reassuring and common sense advice is a Godsend for moms and dads, whether they're just starting a family or have already hit the teen years."
--Tim Bete, Director, Erma Bombeck Writers' Workshop & Author, Guide to Pirate Parenting

About the Author

Marybeth Hicks is the weekly family columnist for The Washington Times and is a frequent speaker on parenting in today’s culture. Her first book was The Perfect World Inside My Minivan: One Mom’s Journey Through the Streets of Suburbia. She lives in the Midwest with her husband and four children.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Berkley Trade; Berkley Trade Pbk. Ed edition (July 1, 2008)
  • ISBN-10: 0425221563
  • ASIN: B001RNI27C
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #210,665 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Marybeth Hicks is a weekly columnist for the The Washington Times and editor of Family Events, a weekly e-newsletter and blog site for women from the publishers of Human Events. She is the author of Don't Let the Kids Drink the Kool-Aid: Confronting the Left's Assault on Our Families, Faith, and Freedom (Regnery Publishers, 2011), Bringing up GEEKS: How to Protect Your Kid's Childhood in a Grow-up-too-fast World (Penguin/Berkley, 2008) and The Perfect World Inside My Minivan-One Mom's Journey Through the Streets of Suburbia (Faith Publishing, 2006).

Marybeth began her career as a writer in the Reagan White House, and later was a communications specialist in the educational, healthcare and corporate sectors. A Michigan resident, she served as a gubernatorial appointee to the board of the Michigan Children's Trust Fund. She currently serves on the national advisory boards of the Parents Television Council and Eduguide, a non-profit that promotes school success.

Marybeth Hicks is a graduate of Michigan State University. She and her husband Jim Hicks, a law professor, make their home in Michigan and are the parents of four children.

 

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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A helpful book!, August 13, 2008
This book successfully balances humor with concrete tips about how to raise children who do not succumb to the pressures of our media-driven, sex-saturated society. The author is a family columnist by trade, so she naturally draws heavily from her own experiences raising children. Even if your family or parenting experiences differ from hers, this book is still excellent food for thought. Bringing Up Geeks identifies unhealthy social influences noted by media and child development experts; points out the often counter-cultural traits exhibited by "genuine, enthusiastic, empowered kids;"and offers clear examples of how to help your children cultivate these traits. It's not an easy task to raise children who remain engaged with society but have the courage to resist its pressures. This book will help parents critically examine cultural norms for childhood and child rearing and then equip them with concrete techniques to use with their own families.
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47 of 57 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Good Topic, Poor Execution, August 6, 2008
While I believe that Ms. Hicks is passionate about the subject matter, this book is not the parenting guide I was expecting. Be prepared for story after story about how what she did made her kids perfect. There is little outside research (despite a lengthy bibliography to support one-off statistics), and essentially no examples outside her family. The book is poorly organized - each chapter explains why her parenting tip is important, and then goes into the actual tips - the flow is quite painful. I should have looked at the endorsements listed on Amazon before purchasing. (No offense to Pat Sajak, but I'm not sure he's an authority on parenting, sociology, etc.) She also lost my confidence when she mentioned that she thinks TV for preschoolers is ok. I believe her words were, "my kids turned out ok". My advice is to look at this book at a library or book store and read the last few pages of each chapter. I would have given this book one star, but at least Ms. Hicks is trying. If you want a serious book on the subject written by a child psychologist, I highly recommend The Blessing of a Skinned Knee, by Wendy Mogel.
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22 of 25 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I love this book!, July 20, 2008
I had often commented to my husband that what I really wanted for my son was for him to be a geek; I wanted for him to be different but confident. Consequently, this book naturally caught my eye. It has helped me focus on the big picture. (What character traits do I want to develop in my child? How do I raise a child in a materialistic society?) With humor and grace, Marybeth Hicks had me laughing out loud at the troubles of parenting today. I highly recommend it!
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