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A Valuable Recovery Read, October 17, 2006
This review is from: Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption (Hardcover)
Broken is outstanding! I am an alum of Hazelden, sober 22 years, and have worked as an adolescent chemical dependency counselor. This book is the best description of addiction, treatment, relapse and recovery that I have come across. It is well written and well documented from the author's journals and correspondence from his father.
I currently work with five sober high schools in Minnesota for chemically dependent kids in recovery. I have purchased a copy for each of the schools. Last night I was at a parent meeting at one of the schools and recommended it to the parents. I was asked if it was for the parents or the students. It is for both. It could be a wonderful opportunity for students and families to open new avenues of communication and understanding.
The descriptions of the cravings, urges and triggers for relapse are graphic. My only concern is that they might be difficult for a newcomer with fragile sobriety. For all others, this book is a must read. It is particularly valuable for its depiction of spiritual growth and coming to terms with a higher power.
I have never before reviewed a book but the author's call to action made it necessary for me to do so.
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32 of 34 people found the following review helpful:
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"I want to live.", December 28, 2006
This review is from: Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption (Hardcover)
Addiction scares and fascinates me. My family's battle with alcoholism was so traumatic that I never touched booze until I was 36. This dysfunction made me want to understand how addiction strikes and recovery works, especially within a familial context. Indeed, it was a major reason I entered seminary and earned an MA in Family Ministry. After a cursory glance through "Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption," I knew I'd found a memoir on the subject that had meat. Finishing it only confirmed my initial impression. This is one of the most honest, well-written, and informative accounts of addiction and recovery that I've ever read.
William Cope Moyers had everything. A loving family, wealth, talent - you name it. But these advantages paled before his crippling Achilles' heel: himself. Whether it was the pressure to live up to his father's name, some childhood trauma, a nagging sense of insignificance, or a hole inside his soul, William was unable to "cope" with reality. He began using alcohol, moved on to cocaine, and finally forged a twisted love affair with crack. His binges cost him lucrative and prestigious jobs, destroyed his first marriage, and in the end almost killed him. After a number of relapses he finally hit bottom, got sober, and is now working to help other addicts.
At times, reading "Broken" was like watching a slow-motion train wreck. It was heartbreaking to see Mr. Moyers climb out of the gutter, get things "together," and then throw it all away on a crack binge. He left a lot of destruction in his wake, since it took many devastating falls before he forsook pride and dishonesty for sobriety. If he hadn't had the treatment options that a wealthy and influential father could get him (along with his family's patience and tough love), he'd probably be dead by now. Of course, no story like this one is a done deal, because the possibility exists that Mr. Moyers could relapse. Other authors of similar memoirs ("Fortunate Son," by Lewis B. Puller Jr. comes to mind) have been subsequently consumed by their inner demons. With that in mind, I pray that Mr. Moyers will remain sober one day at a time for the rest of his life.
At any rate, the most powerful aspect of this book (aside from the author's honesty) is Mr. Moyers' call for a change of perspective towards addicts and addiction. The author states that addicts are often labeled as morally corrupt or mentally weak individuals, and are treated accordingly. Health plans don't fund the intense treatment that they need, employers fire them without mercy, and churches cast them out as unrepentant sinners. I agree with Mr. Moyers that it's time for everyone to stop ostracizing addicts and start helping them to heal. I hope that "Broken" will aid with this shift, and I commend Mr. Moyers for bravely forsaking anonymity to encourage other broken individuals and their loved ones with his story.
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Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption, October 11, 2006
This review is from: Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption (Hardcover)
Thank you so much, William, for sharing your story. It takes enormous courage to ascend out of the nightmare of addiction, and further courage to tell that story! You do an immense service to the many millions who struggle with this disease, both as addicts and alcoholics themselves, but also for the many others who love them and want to do the right thing.
It was very interesting to hear something of how Hazelden works. I've been ordering books from them for years, and often wondered what their treatment program is like. You give a fascinating insight into that, as well as into your own mindset as you struggled with the program and recovery.
Thank you for sharing the hope and strength to be had from knowing treatment works and recovery does happen! And that the stigma that often stifles people's efforts to get help is sometimes even worse than the disease itself. You are a tremendous beacon in the darkness here. You have turned your liabilities into assets and married them to the wonderful gift of communication and writing that you already had. We are all beneficiaries.
The honesty and hope that your book offers is so needed in these dark times!
Sincerely,
Shelagh Cosgrove, Columbus, Ohio
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