First impressions can be dazzling or they can be disastrous, but they last forever. Whether you are walking into a room for a job interview, meeting with a new client, or making a presentation, the image you portray is vital to how others perceive you. Believe it or not, people are sizing you up within the first three to four seconds of an encounter. They're making judgments about you at seven seconds and within thirty seconds they've made at least eleven assumptions about you. "Buff and Polish" is an abundant collection of successful communication applications and theories. As a veteran trainer and corporate communicator, Kathryn Volin has compiled and implemented these techniques for more than twenty years. The knowledge within this definitive handbook can be used (by anyone) to make a dramatic, positive difference in the ability to achieve excellence while interacting with others. Whether you are a college graduate, professional on the rise, entrepreneur, or a seasoned executive, achieving excellence in interpersonal communications will ensure your continued growth. "Buff and Polish" is a must read for virtually everyone in the business world.
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From introduction: Did you know that 55 percent of our believability and the way we are perceived is based on our body language, which includes posture, gestures, and eye contact? Did you know that 38 percent of our believability and the way we are perceived is based on our voice, which includes projection, inflection, and rate? Did you know that only 7 percent of our believability and the way we are perceived is based on our message or the actual information we are providing our listeners? Most of us don't realize it, but people are sizing us up within the first three to four seconds of an encounter. They are making judgments about us at seven seconds, and within thirty seconds they have made at least eleven assumptions about us. These assumptions include: social status, economic status, education, occupation, marital status, ancestry, trustworthiness, credibility, and likelihood to succeed.
Today, in a situation where three people with equal qualifications are interviewed for a job, the one with the best communication skills gets the job. The ability to communicate well is ranked the number-one key to success by leaders in business, politics, and the professions. For seven out of ten people who lose their jobs, the reason isn't lack of skill. According to executive recruiters, it's personality conflicts, ego, and poor communication style.
Think about the last time you drove your automobile to the car wash. Do you remember how it looked before it was buffed and polished and how remarkable it looked after the attendants spent time rubbing, scrubbing, buffing and polishing your vehicle? Visualize yourself buffed and polished, conveying a professional image and strong communication style. Buff and Polish is not like most books. It's not a book to read--it's a book to use. The simple yet sound techniques and suggestions presented can make a dramatic change in one's ability to achieve excellence while interacting with others.
This book was originally envisioned as a supplement to the Effective Communications Program offered at Communication Concepts International, Inc. Because retention of information has been proven to be approximately 5 percent, I felt it was crucial to provide training reinforcement to enhance the results of our programs. My goal was to furnish our clients with an overview of the information addressed during the program that could be referred to and easily carried in their briefcase or luggage. The result is an abundant collection of the most successful theories and techniques I have compiled and applied over the past twenty years. This knowledge can be used to enhance anyone's professional image and overall communication style. My basic philosophy is this: We all have the ability to generate positive and effective results in the way we communicate and in the way we are perceived. Sometimes, however, we just don't know how to go about it or where to begin.
Buff and Polish is a "must read" for virtually everyone in the business world. Whether you are a college graduate, a professional on the rise, or a seasoned executive, achieving excellence in interpersonal communications will ensure your continued personal and professional growth and success. Through the application of specific principles and methods, you will find the opportunities to utilize and maximize your potential are limitless.
Some of the subtle but critical success factors we will address throughout this exceptional book include:
--First impressions and their enormous impact: a personal inventory.
--Confident handshakes and introductions: get a good grip on every situation.
--Professional presence: improve your image, style, and how you are perceived.
--Movement and gestures: actions speak louder than words; gesturing for impact.
--Important elements: eye contact, facial expressions, and body language signals.
--The power of your voice: it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
--Effective listening techniques: increasing your rate of success.
--Handling challenging questions, difficult situations, and thinking on your feet.
--Business etiquette: dining, entertaining, and traveling.
--The art of self-promotion: "blowing your horn" without being obnoxious.
--Making great presentations: preparing, delivering, and holding an audience's interest.
If the person you want to be is someone who is trustworthy, friendly, likable, credible, memorable, impressive, and effective from the very first encounter, then you are reading the right book. I don't want you to think you have to become someone you're not; you don't. You simply must learn to be yourself, at your best, all the time. Practice and follow the proven strategies and advice presented in this book to polish your picture of success; you won't be disappointed with the results. Buff and Polish will help you realize that you have the ability within you to become a powerful, believable, and successful communicator.
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44 of 47 people found the following review helpful:
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Don't let your image siderail your career,
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Buff & Polish can be read through, as any book might be, or you can treat it as a workbook, taking the suggestions & ideas chapter by chapter to make your personal image outstanding.I haven't come across a book yet that covers such a wide range of topics. This is not an etiquette book, though the topic is discussed. It's not a how-to-look-good book, but that's included, too. It's not merely an effective communication book, either. The book chapters cover topics such as: => first impressions => the handshake => gesturing for impact => eye contact => body language signals => the power of your voice => self-promotion => making great presentations DOES CASUAL DRESS DAY MAKE YOU WANT TO CALL IN SICK? Volin's section on 'casual dress' is the best I've ever come across. For those who hold outside jobs, casual dress days must be a most confusing situation. I was never quite sure exactly what 'casual' actually was and ended up wearing clothes that were more formal than they needed to be. I figured it would be better to err on the side of stuffiness. That was OK around clients, but it made my colleagues uncomfortable. I think they felt I was either showing off to the boss or just standoffish. Buff & Polish explains many different levels of casual dress based on kind of workplace. It ranges from well-pressed blue jeans all the way up what Volin calls 'executive casual'. ACCESSORIES -- ARE YOU A WINNER OR LOSER? Do you ever think about the accessories you wear, own, & carry? In 7 packed pages devoted to the subject, here's what's covered: => belts & suspenders => cuff links & shirt sleeve length => wrist watches => jewelry => socks & stockings => shoes => fabrics => eyeglasses => pens & pencils => briefcases IMAGE IS MORE THAN CLOTHING Some books I've read talk about 'image' as it pertains to your business card, brochure, stationery, and such. And I've read books that cover how to 'dress for success'. But, image takes in so much more. In the chapter "The Power of Professional Presence" topics include posture, balance, stance, voice inflection, what to do with your hands, & how to sit. For example, I asked Volin, "On page 38 of the book, you say not to sit with hands resting quietly in the lap? This has always been a favorite position of mine during interviews. In fact, I was told to sit like that. Why do you not like that position?" Her answer: "Females have been taught to take up less space than males. When sitting in a chair, I recommend resting your arms on the arms of the chair or at least be more expansive with your use of space so you appear more confident & less demure." Good answer, isn't it? And one I'd never thought about before. It's true that most men take up a larger physical space, and have deeper, louder voices. So they automatically come across as more forceful & self-assured, even if they aren't. USE COLOR TO MAKE A STATEMENT This is the only business book I know about that considers color -- it's effect, the proper use of it in clothing & when putting together a presentation, what it says about your personality, & how it influences our emotions. Buff and Polish suggests you have a 'color analysis' done so you can find the colors that will make you look your best. There are many great benefits to having your colors analyzed. Wearing the right colors allows natural beauty to shine through while creating a healthier and younger appearance. Knowing what colors look best on you will virtually eliminate costly color mistakes when shopping for clothing and cosmetics. Finally, knowing that you look good will help you feel better about yourself and help you project a more positive image. Volin takes the discussion of color further. She also discusses the psychology of color and the best way to use color in a presentation. A book bursting with useful information.
13 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
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Great book and very practical,
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This review is from: Buff And Polish: A Practical Guide To Enhance Your Professional Image And Communication Style (Paperback)
This book really lets you see your blind side. I found that I do several "no,no's" with regard to my professional image when dealing with others. This book really laid things out well in making me more aware of the image I present. I have encouraged others in my work group to read this book as well. A subtle reminder for them on what they could do to change their image when dealing with others. People really do form an opinion of you from what they see. This book will undoubtly save me from losing opportunities as I deal with customers.
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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Common Sense,
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When I purchased this Buff and Polished, I expected to be clued on some insighful recommendations to improve and enhance my professional image. Instead, I got common sense every day knowledge all of which I already possessed. This guide did not enlighten me to the point that I thought it would.
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