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Product Details

  • Paperback: 346 pages
  • Publisher: iUniverse, Inc. (February 25, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0595411398
  • ISBN-13: 978-0595411399
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #171,225 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Dr. Jill A. Murray is internationally regarded as theleading expert in the fields of teen dating abuse andunhealthy relationships. A highly visible guest in thetelevision, radio, and print mediums, she maintains aprivate psychotherapy practice in Southern Californiawhere she lives with her husband, Frank.

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I highly recommend this book for EVERY woman who has ever even thought of that phrase.
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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful By Silverwing on May 27, 2011
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I believe the information in this book literally saved my life. I was miserable in my marriage, thinking everything was my fault. It wasn't until my (now) ex left me that I found this book. I began reading it and had such a visceral reaction, I couldn't get through the first chapter.

A few weeks later, I picked it up again and after forcing myself in fits and starts through the first two chapters, I finally had words for what I had been living for almost five years.

By reading and applying the things I learned from this book, I not only was able to get myself out of a slowly escalating abusive relationship, I was given a fire to do everything I can to prevent anyone in my life from submitting to this abuse . . . man or woman.

I recommend this book to anyone.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful By petitefitgirl on January 24, 2011
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Having been through a verbally/emotionally abussive relationship, this book was right on. To read stories from the author and other women was a real eye-opener, makes you think alot. Very informational on the right way to move forward in all situations. I highly recommend this book for anyone who is or was in an abusive relationship, or if you know a woman in an abusive relationship, this book will help you understand what she is going through and why. Wish every female that was a part of my life while I was going through this experience would read this book to better understand all aspects of that part of my life.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful By Debra Fox LCSW on June 27, 2009
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This book if great for anyone in a relationship, it helps with boundaries and expectations that you should have for each other. Great section on Universal truths about relationships, major one being: love is a behavior. Check it out, very helpful resource and workbook
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Tracy on June 27, 2013
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Because my field is rape, sexual assault and domestic violence I knew this book would contain much help information. What I was not expecting was how much of this book I could relate to personally. I highly recommend this book for EVERY woman who has ever even thought of that phrase. Wake up ladies, it applies to most of us!
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful By AnnaBellazAK on September 29, 2011
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After 12 years of marriage to a man consumed by substance abuse, power and control, verbal/non physical abuse this book really opened my eyes to the last 12years of my life. Even though I started reading it after I had left him it helped me stay focused through his manipulations that followed. I pick this book up and read it along with my journal writings that followed the chapters anytime I feel I've lost focus. Like is too short to live in misery that you yourself are allowing. Love is a behavior.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By lisa esham on December 11, 2012
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I absolutly LOVE this book!!! I think it should be required reading in Jr. High. I think it would help both boys and girls!!
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9 of 12 people found the following review helpful By T. Obermiller on May 7, 2009
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I recommended this book to my Domestic Violence Group at our meetings & even copied the index for the group & passed it out & they found it helpful & went out & got it, through Amazon.com, also. My counselor got it for her library, too. It has helped me, immensley.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Susan Knowlen-Wolk on January 10, 2014
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I can not say enough about this book, or the author. My words could not bring it the worth it truly is entitled. Every women needs to read this book, and give their daughters a copy. I appreciated everything about this book, it's truth wisdom, insights, and knowledge. Thank you Jill Murray your book But He Never Hit Me embraces an individual life, and renews life again.
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