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In awe and what a survivor, February 26, 2008
This review is from: The Butterfly Garden: Surviving Childhood on the Run with One of America's Most Wanted (Paperback)
I recently read this book and met the man who wrote it. What a touching and phenom story. I had a hard time putting this down becuase it is not only written so well, but is captavating with how it travels. His honesty is so raw and naked that everyone can relate to some aspect of his story. His wife is also a huge part of this survival and is such an amazing woman. It's amazing what positivity came from Chip and this whole nightmarish experience. So many people could learn much from Chip and about themselves from this book. I felt many emotions thru this book. Chip is an amazing human!!! This is a must read for everyone, espcially for children everywhere.
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Touching story, February 26, 2008
This review is from: The Butterfly Garden: Surviving Childhood on the Run with One of America's Most Wanted (Paperback)
I was in an Ohio bookstore when the author was signing this book. I had the privilege of speaking with him for a few moments and was so impressed with his story. For someone to live through such a horrible childhood, but work so hard to become an incredible man! It was such a touching story. Once I started to read the book, I could not put it down. He wrote in my book "Continue to Soar" and after reading this book that is exactly what you want to do. Soar through life, be happy and help others. This is a must read.
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Children of the Secret, March 31, 2008
This review is from: The Butterfly Garden: Surviving Childhood on the Run with One of America's Most Wanted (Paperback)
In September of 2004 Chip StClair called my office seeking help to keep his father, Michael Dean Grant, in jail.
This phone call was beyond belief because Chip's story is unbelievable.
We call children who have been abused "children of the secret" because they spend their lives keeping their terrible secret. Eighty five percent of children who are abused are abused by someone known to the family. Children love their parents and are confused even when those parents abuse them - the children somehow believe they caused their own abuse. Families do whatever it takes to preserve their "dirty little secret."
This cycle of abuse repeats itself. That is not to say that all abused children become abusers but the data are pretty clear that most abusers were abused themselves.
I was in tears on that September day listening to Chip tell his story and I was mostly moved by his determination that his life of abuse would count for something. Chip said that he found his heroes in art and literature and he was committed to overcoming his life of adversity by helping others so that he could become a real life hero like those mythological heroes that saved his life.
Over the next months, Chip and I and a young man, Sameer Mandke, who was volunteering at Justice for Children had many long conversations. Michael Dean Grant was to be released from prison on April 1, 2005. Sameer and Chip worked together to prevent that from happening and instead, on April 1, 2005, the Michigan Chapter of Justice for Children was born, with Chip StClair as our new regional director.
Chip StClair's story is an inspiration to me but more importantly, he is a hero to all of the children of the secret.
Jim Shields
Executive Director
Justice for Children
Houston, TX
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