-Developing advanced listening skills
-Connecting emotions and values
-Using probes and prompts
-Learning about action planning
-Integrating the use of Scripture and prayer in counseling
-Integrating the use of Scripture and prayer in counseling
I am pleased to recommend this excellent skills training manual to every mature believer, with the prayer that it will be used widely to equip and encourage the non-specialist to become involved in the care of the bruised and confused who are all around, and to assist each Christian congregation to become a truly healing community.
-- Major Herbert C. Rader, MD, FACS - September-October, 1999 issue of Cross-Cultural Vision
Millions of people have an urgent need and a desperate desire to be listened to and understood. A thousand Laura Schlesingers would be helpful but not sufficient to sit down with each one for even one session. But what if thousands of local officers and soldiers could be equipped for the task? Captain John Cheydleur has provided us with a valuable tool to improve our skills as counselors in his new book, Called to Counsel
Because Larry Crabb has challenged the elders of the church to recover their counseling function as a way of enhancing the healing ministry of every congregation, we need guidance.
Because other recent works by experienced psychotherapists are challenging the effectiveness of psychotherapy and its value to Christians, we need alternatives.
I am pleased to recommend this excellent skills training manual to every mature believer, with the prayer that it will be used widely to equip and encourage the non-specialist to become involved in the care of the bruised and confused who are all around, and to assist each Christian congregation to become a truly healing community. --September-October, 1999 issue of Cross-Cultural Vision
Dr. Cheydleur is the author of the personality-development and spiritual-gifts book How to Find and Be Yourself, and is the coeditor of the addictions self-help book, Every Sober Day Is a Miracle. He is a contributor to Baker's Encyclopedia of Psychology and is the author of more than thirty other popular and professional articles and a mental-health television series.
He has also served as the president of the Personality Development Institute at Anaheim, California; president of Trinity College of Graduate Studies in Anaheim, California; chairman of the Department of Social Work at Melodyland School of Theology in Anaheim, California; director of The Salvation Army's San Diego County Bureau of Social Services; and a U.S.-Canadian administrator of the Kiwanis International Collegiate Program: Circle K. International.
He is also a member of the Christian Association for Psychological Studies, the American Association of Christian Counselors, the North American Association of Christians in Social Work, and the Academy of Certified Social Workers.
John, along with his wife Judith, and their son Andrew, lives in West Nyack, New York. They also have two grown children, Amy and James, and five grandchildren.
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Counseling Skills Made Easy,
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This review is from: Called to Counsel (Hardcover)
I found it relatively easy to learn the 58 counseling micro-skills featured in Called to Counsel, due to the book's programmed learning format. However, it did take longer than I anticipated to do all the practice exercises.Each of the counseling micro-skills has its own mini section in Called to Counsel. Each of these sections starts with a true counsling story, which halped to get me intrested in that particular skill. The story is followed by one or two pages of clear "how-to-do-it" text for each skill, which is usually accompanied by a humorous cartoon. The cartoons are in a series called "Doc & Duck," in which "Doc" is a wise old owl who is the master counselor, "Duck" is a Gumby-like character who is the perpetual client, and a third character, "Quack," is a wanna-be counselor who makes every mistake in the book! The last part of each micro-skill section is a written "Skill Builder" exercise in which you actually write right in the book, so that you keep a record of your progress. Also, there is a suggested format at the end of each chapter for making a practice tape which incorporates the micro-skills found in that chapter. Called to Counsel is organized in nine chapters, which teach skills for avoiding common counseling mistakes, structuring an interview, using active listening and attending skills, including probes and prompts where appropriate, connecting content and emotions with values, and functioning as a "coach" to help your client create and test various action plans. Three specialty chapters teach micro-skills for using (not abusing) Scripture in counseling and knowing when and when not to introduce prayer into the counseling process, as well as dealing with issues of the occult if and when they come up in a counseling interview. In conclusion, this is not a book of psychological or counseling theory, but a practical handbook for learning specific counseling skills. It took me about twenty-five or thirty hours to do all the practice exercises in the book, including the counsling tapes and tape analysis. I found it very worthwhile, because the skills are very helpful.
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Called to Counsel,
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The book is being used in an "on-line" course that I am taking. So far, it has proven to be an excellent source of practical instruction for learning how to use counselng skills and techniques!
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