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Can You Wave Bye, Bye, Baby?: Stories [Hardcover]

Elyse Gasco (Author)
2.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)


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July 5, 1999
From this funny, wise, and fresh new voice comes a collection of eight stories about adoption and birth, parents and children

The Real True Story is a powerful, poignant collection of thematically interwoven stories about relationships between parents and children, especially mothers and daughters. Each story explores the complex and often volatile terrain of adoption and birth. We meet young adopted women who yearn for the sense of family that blood ties bring, and mothers who struggle with the decision to give their babies up. A grown woman who was adopted tries to imagine her birth mother's life, a young girl is abducted by her father and shares a series of strange adventures with him, a teenage mother plans to give up her newborn, a pregnant wife considers abortion. Edgy, urban, bold and vibrant, The Real True Story marks the emergence of a young writer who understands the human heart and the secret lives of ordinary people.

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Elyse Gasco's debut collection is a novel take on an oft-explored subject: mother-daughter relationships. These eight interrelated stories all examine adoption from several perspectives. In "A Well-Imagined Life," the narrator is a young woman trying to imagine the woman who gave her up; in "You Have the Body," she is an adopted woman about to give birth to her own child; and in the title story, the character is about to give up her baby for adoption. Each of these tales offers a unique perspective on the parent-child bond; unfortunately, almost all of them are written in the oppressively self-conscious second-person--a literary tic that can be more distracting than effective. Fantasizing late at night about alternatives to her impending motherhood, for example, the unnamed narrator of "You Have the Body" imagines running away:
Soon, you will be skinny again. You will only wear dresses. You will never be afraid of strangers. You will drink men under the table and sleep with college freshmen. They will read to you excitedly from their textbooks, their cheeks still raw from shaving too fast. You will take a woman lover and live in North Africa with a turban wrapped around your head.
No doubt Gasco's intention is to catapult us willy-nilly into the character's innermost thoughts; unfortunately, page upon page of this relentless, in-your-face you you you more often than not drives the reader in the opposite direction. (Sleep with college freshmen, you protest. Hell, no!) Applied judiciously, this literary gimmick might have worked; using it in six out of the eight stories, however, is definite overkill. Indeed, the strongest story in the collection, "Mother: Not a True Story," is written in the third person. Here Gasco crafts a deft, darkly humorous portrait of an adoptive mother who creates a fictional birth mother for her dissatisfied teenaged daughter. Perhaps the best way to read Can You Wave Bye Bye, Baby? is intermittently, so as to enjoy Elyse Gasco's passion and point of view without getting run over by her style. --Alix Wilber

From Publishers Weekly

Mesmerizing and funny, dark but exceedingly tender, these eight interlinked short stories, by the winner of Canada's Journey Prize for short fiction, explore the mother-child bond and the legacy of alienation, pain and constant speculation that haunts those who were given up for adoption at birth. "It is not uncommon for adopted girls to give their own first baby up for adoption," says an adviser, coldly, in "A Well-Imagined Life." Gasco's characters search for their mothers, imagine them and grieve their losses, heightened in several stories by the powerful emotions that come with the births of their own infants, or in their potent, even caustic flights of fancy. One schoolgirl vividly imagines the convent her mother hid in to give birth, while another seven-year-old girl tells her mother, "No matter how badly I need the money, I will never kill you." Gasco's themes turn beautifully on her deft, assured and even playful use of the second-person narrative. In the title story, a woman who will give up her child struggles with her limited knowledge of a half-sister her mother relinquished for adoption. Her father explained that her mother was attacked. "For a long time you could not imagine what he meant and thought only that to your mother life had always been a big surprise." In a tale entitled "The Third Person," Elle, who is afraid her baby is God, remembers her husband's secretary's remark: "What kind of name is Elle? In French it's just the third person." Gasco loves wordplay and uses it to humanize the sense of isolation her characters feel. A story about a child snatched from her adoptive parents by her biological father, a man frantic with a sense of injustice and almost unhinged by his empathy for animals, is a chilling and painful complement to the other narratives. Rich, sensual language, a deep vein of humor and a graceful, ironic touch brand this powerful debut collection with Gasco's brazen talent. (July)
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Picador; 1st edition (July 5, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312206313
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312206314
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 2.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,926,740 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars A fresh look at a primary bond, January 27, 2000
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The primary bond between mother and daughter has often been explored. But in this collection of short stories, I discovered that this bond was examined with freshness. What composes that bond? Is it one that can be sealed only by delivery or is a compact that is solemnized by adoption? Does that bond last for a finite period of time or is it everlasting? After reading this collection, I am left enriched, asking more questions.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The dark side, August 22, 2000
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A quirky, sometimes upsetting but always sympathetic examination of the dark side of parent-child relationships. From a woman struggling with her ambivalent emotions about pregnancy ("....once you give the gift [of life] there is no returning it. It is in fact a final sale.") to an adopted child kidnapped by her weird but loving biological father and returned by police to her adoptive parents years later ("the neediness of adults makes you dizzy"), these stories get inside some scary emotions without ever losing a sense of humor. As the mother of two grown children, one given up for adoption and refound as an adult, the other raised from infancy, I welcomed the rare chance to read intelligent stories that resonated with some of my own experiences and emotions.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars just awful, June 12, 2000
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This review is from: Can You Wave Bye, Bye, Baby?: Stories (Hardcover)
This book pretends to present various views of adoption (adoptee, birth mother, etc.) What is actually presents is an extremely distorted, melodramatic set of short stories. The stories are neither thoughtful nor perceptive. The depiction of adoption as some sort of "problem" is unsophisticated and cliche. Really dreadful reading.
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