Candles in the Darkness: A True Story of Faith, Hope & Friendship [Paperback]

Sarah Fugazi (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: March 16, 2004

A true story of two women inmidlife, their joys, their sorrows, their sagging skin--.and, most important TheirAttitude: Life is too short to be miserable!It's a sweltering summer but novacation for Sal & Deb: pregnant daughters, weddings (in that order),elderly parents, teenagers, grandchildren--and that's the boring part!Fall emerges, the season where wereap what we have sown: Deb, overwhelmed with tending aging parents, collapsesinto clinical depression.¿ Armed with her own previous experience with depression/anxiety, Sallights a candle for her friend and they begin an inspiring journey together outof the darkness.How do they do it? Drugs?¿ Therapy?¿ Prayer?¿ Humor? ABSOLUTELY!!!¿¿ Take notes!!!Time to celebrate the holidays!The dialogue is uplifting: breast biopsies are treated with wine and chocolatechip cookies; a true tale of a serial killer bird entertains them whileawaiting test results and tiny granddaughters to be born.Finally, the fattening feasts areover, but life doesn't slow down.¿ Enjoythe ride as Sal & Deb careen on hormonal roller coasters through midlife(sometimes accompanied by their raging counterparts: adolescent children).¿ It's a wild ride, with a soft landing. Hop onand buckle up!

Editorial Reviews

About the Author

WHO BETTER TO CALL?When women need advice, they seekexperienced friends who have weathered life successfully.Authors' ResumesSallyFugaziMarried 33 years3 daughters, 1 son3 sons-in-law4 grandchildrencaretaker of parentpostmenopausalDebbie HarwellMarried 23 years2 sons2 stepdaughters1 son-in-law3 grandchildrencaretaker of parentsperimenopausalAnd they're still smiling--Additional joint efforts bythese authors:Sally & Debbie co-author thee-zine www.candlesinthedarkness.com The next joint book project for these¿ authors isentitled, 'Waging War on the Battle-ax,' A collection of true storiesof women who prevailed despite a negative, domineering female in their lives.¿ Rollicking, & inspiring!

Product Details

• Paperback: 312 pages
• Publisher: AuthorHouse (March 16, 2004)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1414051247
• ISBN-13: 978-1414051246
• Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #519,645 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Your Heart Will Smile for Days and Weeks To Come, February 29, 2008

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This review is from: Candles in the Darkness: A True Story of Faith, Hope & Friendship (Paperback)

This amazingly comfortable book's "About the Author" page introduces the two authors as follows:

"Two Different Voices... One Harmonious Duo. Sally Fugazi and Debbie Harwell are from completely opposite backgrounds. One is described as a butterfly or chaos, while the other is said to be the worker bee or discipline.

....... Between them, they have over 100 years of fieldwork as real women! It is with a unique set of life experiences that they reach out to women with compassion and understanding through their quirky senses of humor and can-do attitudes."

The premise of this book intrigued me. Two women, who barely know one another, strike up a friendship and nurture it via e-mails. They come to know the depth of a true kindred-spirit relationship as their daily (and sometimes more often) emails unfold lives that are similar in so many ways. They draw strength from one another. They share their joys and heartaches, ups and downs, and even some of the more mundane things of life.

My intrigue came from that sense of knowing before I read the book that it was going to validate a special part of my own life. The above scenario so accurately describes my own relationship with a very special friend who I call my Kindred Spirit and Sister of My Soul. Who would have ever thought to take the e-mails that we have generated over the past few years and create a book to share with women everywhere? Sally Fugazi and Debbie Harwell, apparently!

There are typos. There are interruptions. There are hopes and dreams, jokes and prayers, and everything in between. I have no doubt that any woman who sits down to read this book would not be able to put it down without thinking twice. These women are REAL! Their lives are REAL! And it is highly probable that every woman who reads this book will catch a glimpse of herself or a friend in these pages.

One of Sally's e-mails ends with "Wouldn't it be nice to be sitting on a veranda somewhere, sipping wine, and playing a good game of Scrabble? Love Sally" I smile as I read this line and wonder when Sally had the opportunity to read the e-mail I wrote to my friend Judy asking the same thing. We dream of veranda moments all the time. Obviously, Sally and Debbie do, too.

On another occasion, Debbie writes, "Sharing and talking with you through our e-mails has done much to brighten my spirits and my 'dog days.' What if you hadn't asked for my e-mail address? (Let's don't even go there!)"

Hmmm... Another one of those recurring thoughts in the e-mails Judy and I share.

By the book's end, one feels as though Sally and Debbie are close friends of the reader as well. They are "real" women unafraid to put their hopes, fears, dreams, disappointments, and vulnerable selves on the page for women everywhere to see. They impart practical wisdom, humor, and their own special blend of practical, faith-based principles through their e-mails. Their readers are blessed many times over. These women affirm to readers such as myself that to find one of these rare Kindred Spirit friendships in a lifetime is a huge blessing in and of itself.

You will laugh, cry, nod in agreement, and, no doubt, recognize yourself or another friend or family member within these pages. When the book has ended, the gift the authors have created for their readers will make your heart smile for days and weeks to come.

by Lee Ambrose
for Story Circle Book Reviews
reviewing books by, for, and about women

5.0 out of 5 stars Candles in the Darkness, August 23, 2004

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Kim (Texas) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Candles in the Darkness: A True Story of Faith, Hope & Friendship (Paperback)

Being a friend of one of the authors, I wasn't sure that the book would be able to hold my interest...after all I "knew" how it ended! I couldn't have been more wrong! Being a real page turner, Candles in the Darkness captures contemporary life, decribes common challenges and sheds light onto a clear path. Not just for pleasure, the book leads the reader on an inspirational journey affirming women. I read the book out of loyalty, but loved it for the honesty and hope.

5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful book!, August 4, 2004

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J. L Prussak (San Diego) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Candles in the Darkness: A True Story of Faith, Hope & Friendship (Paperback)

I couldn't put this book down! They have brought to life all the things women feel and think about. How wonderful they are willing to share their journey about issues so familiar to all of us..it gives us hope just knowing we are not alone! I would reccommend it to all my friends-in fact, I have bought them a copy as well!