From Publishers Weekly
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...The author's goal is to help couples with pets survive a breakup without using attorneys or resorting to angry or bitter tactics. (She does, however, offer advice on how to find an attorney or mediator who is experienced in pet issues.)
...Keene writes from personal experience, both as a Certified Pet Dog Trainer addressing the behaviors seen in her clients' dogs and her own, and as someone who went through a divorce and ultimately decided, with her ex, that each of them would take one of the dogs, and that they would maintain contact between the dogs. She's been there.
...Courts will not order custody or visitation in the context of a divorce or separation. The burden is on the parties to work out a friendly agreement regarding their pets, on their own, or risk the uncertain outcome of an expensive trial over who "owns" the dog as property. Keene's book provides readers with basic questions to ask and possible solutions to explore. There are numerous sidebars and questionnaires designed to help readers make the hard choices and decisions as to who should care for the dogs, short term and long term.
This book does not provide in-depth or advance training advice, or legal advice. All information comes in short "sound bites." It is written for those who, because of a breakup, are suddenly thrown off kilter and need a primer in simple language to take them through the common issues and problems every pet guardian must confront, both in terms of the dog's behavior and in having difficult conversations with the ex.
One section deals with specific custody arrangements--part-time pet parenting, joint custody, splitting the multi-dog pack, and the especially difficult situation in which one party feels it's necessary to "run off" with the dog. There is also a chapter dealing with issues that arise when couples split and wonder if either can keep the dog.
Perhaps the best and most practical chapter forces readers to "get real" about the costs of dog guardianship, with charts for inserting numbers regarding the actual costs of food, vet care, day care and so forth--everything one spends to properly care for a dog, with ideas about how those costs might be shared. These details can then be included in their final agreement.
For those feeling overwhelmed in the face of a split, worried about the impact on their pets and wanting to explore post-split arrangements that put their dogs first, this book is a good place to start. --The Bark, July/August 2008