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Celebrating Interfaith Marriages: Creating Your Jewish/Christian Ceremony [Paperback]

Devon A. Lerner (Author)
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April 19, 1999
The first comprehensive wedding guide specifically for the Jewish/Christian couple who wants to honor both religious traditions in their service, vows, and readings.

Saying "I do" is one of the happiest moments in a couple's life together--but planning that trip to the altar can be a stressful ordeal. The minute an engagement is announced two full clans want to celebrate the union their way! When one of those families is Jewish (50 percent of whom now marry outside their faith) and the other is Christian, the religious details can increase the pressure on the bride- and groom-to-be. Celebrating Interfaith Marriages provides all of the expert advice on how to combine elements of the two faiths so everyone can rejoice with the bride and groom on their wedding day.

Devon Lerner draws from her twenty years of officiating interfaith weddings as she discusses the significance of vows and traditions unique to both faiths and suggests how to incorporate them into a service that is balanced and beautiful. She provides Christian and Jewish services readers can mix and match, as well as custom-bled ceremonies contributed by couples who have worked with her over the years. There's a chapter on how to avoid crashes on issues like location, when the ceremony takes place, and whether the bride and groom should see each other before meeting at the altar. A full section of readings, both biblical and secular, are here too, as well as anecdotes that will reassure and amuse. No interfaith couple will want to be without this essential handbook when they plan their special day.

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About the Author

Rabbi Devon A. Lerner (Arlington, MA) has served congregations in Atlanta, Richmond, and Boston. She received an M.S.W. from Boston University in 1986 and since that time has had a private practice specializing in interfaith wedding ceremonies.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Holt Paperbacks; 1st edition (April 19, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0805060839
  • ISBN-13: 978-0805060836
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #118,403 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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30 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An excellent book and an outstanding resource., June 30, 1999
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This review is from: Celebrating Interfaith Marriages: Creating Your Jewish/Christian Ceremony (Paperback)
I must admit, as a near atheist raised as a Catholic I was a bit skeptical when first presented with Rabbi Lerner's book. It was soon after that my skepticism ended. It's everything I didn't expect in a "how to" book that tackles the difficult issues of combining a Jewish and Christian marriage ceremony. Celebrating Interfaith Marriages was a rich, warm book that turned into (no pun intended and with tongue firmly implanted in cheek) our bible.

As an advertising copywriter I can say definitively that the style and way this book is written is not only excellent, but it follows a very conversational tone that made it very easy for me to enjoy. It is well constructed, often witty, and not once did I ever feel I was being preached to, or told it our wedding had to be done in a certain manner.

What's more, Rabbi Lerner fills her book with many different perspectives, solutions and resources. She culls from her experiences, draws from that of others, and puts forth a great deal of outstanding ideas and scenerios to help you through what can often be a very trying and difficult endeavor.

We certianly couldn't have had the wedding we wanted, nor would our wedding have been the resounding success it was, without this book. I highly recomend it to anyone attempting an interfaith marriage. It will serve as an invaluable resource, and most importantly, provide you with considerable inspiration.

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20 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars important tool to our successful wedding ceremony, August 22, 1999
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This review is from: Celebrating Interfaith Marriages: Creating Your Jewish/Christian Ceremony (Paperback)
This book had an extraordinarily positive impact on the creation of our wedding ceremony. It made what could have been a very difficult task, a thought-provoking, meaningful and bonding experience. My wife, Nancy, is a Jesuit- educated Italian American Catholic and I am Jewish. Her family is large and mine very small. This book provided us with options we could use in creating a wedding ceremony that was respectful of both our traditions and our families. It helped us to understand the meaning behind each other's rituals. We were then able to make choices that were appropriate for both of us. One of the nicest things about this book was its ease of use. A wedding celebration is already a complex event without having to integrate two different traditions. The book was laid out in such a way that we were able to ascertain relatively quickly the options available to us in creating "our" ceremony.
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20 of 23 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars best of the lot, May 9, 2001
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This review is from: Celebrating Interfaith Marriages: Creating Your Jewish/Christian Ceremony (Paperback)
Since no one book is going to cover everything, I got a bunch, including Diamant's "The New Jewish Wedding" and Hawxhurst's "Interfaith Wedding Ceremonies." Lerner's was the most helpful by far. I'm a Reformed Jew and my wife is Baptist, and with Lerner's book we were able to create a ceremony that was both beautiful and respectful/traditional to both religions. The book is clear in thought, and offers many different passages/readings to choose from for each part of the service. I guess Diamant's book would've been okay if my wife was going to convert to Judaism, which was never a consideration for either of us, otherwise, it was too orthodox in thought. Stick with Lerner's book -- clearly the best of the lot.
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Creating your own ceremony can be fun and exciting. Read the first page
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unite your lives, symbolically sanctifies, large center candle, rejoicing resound, seven wedding blessings, sample ceremonies, contemporary blessings, inner spiritual bond, grandparents walk, interfaith wedding ceremonies, single brighter light, forgiveness heal guilt, joy conquer despair, interfaith weddings, glass symbolizes, traditional breaking, many more blessings, bestow fullness, interfaith ceremonies, groom kiss, interfaith couples, enduring trust, betroth thee, designated family member, blessing over the wine
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May God, Explanation of the Huppah, Remembering Loved Ones Who Have Died, Holy One of Blessing, Mazel Tov, Baal Shem Tov, New Testament, Song of Songs, Haray Aht, Rabbi's Remarks, Menu of Passages, Lord God, Explanation of the Yichud, Other Officiants, Wedding Readings, Cedric Belfrage, Eduardo Galeano, Eternal God, Orthodox Jewish, Rainer Maria Rilke, Ring Exchanges, Serve God
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