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99 of 103 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
George Simon has a genius for organization. He takes a complicated subject of human behavior and breaks it down to easily understandable subtopics, exploring the gamut of character traits from neurosis to psychopathy. He gives simple, easy to follow strategies for dealing with the manipulative people in our lives, whether they are patients or relatives. He even addresses the concerns of people who have rid themselves of the disturbed character that plagued them and suggests ways to move on.
I was particularly impressed with his chapter on the process of character development and his conclusions as to how character - or the lack of it - affects everyone in our society at every level. It's the most pressing issue of our day, yet seems to be the most ignored.
Personally, I found the book engaging because I have read multiple works on psychopathy, abusers, victimology, narcissism, etc., even scanning the DSM IV on and off for years trying to pin-point the pathology of a disturbed character in my life. He didn't fit into any of the boxes in any of the books. Finally, in Simon's first book, "In Sheep's Clothing," I found my answer. I was thrilled to find an author who understood those people who do have a conscience but act as if they don't because it is so underdeveloped, and who could explain to me how to deal with them.
By the way, if you've read the 1-star review (I always start with the lowest review, myself) you'll probably have come the conclusion I did: that the reviewer has...issues. Yes, Simon does say that disturbed characters refuse to submit to any authority, because they want what they want now in the easiest way, and they want to "win." They have great insight, and understand that others in our culture submit to a "God," a "higher authority," or the will of "society." They just refuse to do so. So yes, the word "God" is in the book, along with many other words.
Laypersons and professionals will both benefit from this book. Enjoy!
I was particularly impressed with his chapter on the process of character development and his conclusions as to how character - or the lack of it - affects everyone in our society at every level. It's the most pressing issue of our day, yet seems to be the most ignored.
Personally, I found the book engaging because I have read multiple works on psychopathy, abusers, victimology, narcissism, etc., even scanning the DSM IV on and off for years trying to pin-point the pathology of a disturbed character in my life. He didn't fit into any of the boxes in any of the books. Finally, in Simon's first book, "In Sheep's Clothing," I found my answer. I was thrilled to find an author who understood those people who do have a conscience but act as if they don't because it is so underdeveloped, and who could explain to me how to deal with them.
By the way, if you've read the 1-star review (I always start with the lowest review, myself) you'll probably have come the conclusion I did: that the reviewer has...issues. Yes, Simon does say that disturbed characters refuse to submit to any authority, because they want what they want now in the easiest way, and they want to "win." They have great insight, and understand that others in our culture submit to a "God," a "higher authority," or the will of "society." They just refuse to do so. So yes, the word "God" is in the book, along with many other words.
Laypersons and professionals will both benefit from this book. Enjoy!
51 of 51 people found the following review helpful
By Jeannie
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
This is a must-read for anyone going through any part of life with a person who is character disturbed. Understanding how your own behavior and weaknesses contribute to the situation is of paramount importance, and this book will help people understand how to change those behaviors. Getting inside a character-disturbed person's head is a little scary, but this, too is extremely important in order to effectively respond to them. The author knows his topic thoroughly. Great book!
90 of 95 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
"I had already read George Simon's "In Sheep's Clothing" and was pleasantly surprised by his new book. George makes no bones about challenging traditional methods of treating character disturbance and provides practical skills that both layman and the professional can use to learn about how these people tick and operate but more important how to deal with them and offer an alternative treatment.
What struck me the most was the way in which George addresses all types of character disturbance including the more disturbed individuals like psychopaths. Some people might find it an uncomfortable read recognising their own character flaws and deficiencies as they read through the chapters. Although for anyone who is willing to change and see their own deficiencies, I do not see this as a bad thing.
This is a brave book that challenges the traditional books and I hope that it gets the same deserved attention as his previous book did. The other thing I enjoyed about the book is the fact that he gives many examples including those of how character disturbed people "appear" so show real emotions such as shame and guilt when they are actually not.
My only criticism although minor is that in making reference to what George describes as the "Ten commandments for building character" when he refers to them in later chapters you have to go back to the previous chapters to remind yourself of which ones they were. The other thing that some people might criticise is George's reference to God or higher self. Perhaps it might have been more appropriate to have made reference to the lack of "higher self" rather than God since many well behaved people do not necessarily believe in god."
What struck me the most was the way in which George addresses all types of character disturbance including the more disturbed individuals like psychopaths. Some people might find it an uncomfortable read recognising their own character flaws and deficiencies as they read through the chapters. Although for anyone who is willing to change and see their own deficiencies, I do not see this as a bad thing.
This is a brave book that challenges the traditional books and I hope that it gets the same deserved attention as his previous book did. The other thing I enjoyed about the book is the fact that he gives many examples including those of how character disturbed people "appear" so show real emotions such as shame and guilt when they are actually not.
My only criticism although minor is that in making reference to what George describes as the "Ten commandments for building character" when he refers to them in later chapters you have to go back to the previous chapters to remind yourself of which ones they were. The other thing that some people might criticise is George's reference to God or higher self. Perhaps it might have been more appropriate to have made reference to the lack of "higher self" rather than God since many well behaved people do not necessarily believe in god."
Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars
A great book
Very happy with this book. Second one I bought by this author. Accurately identifies people/personalities. No more excuses for being naive about people.
Published 7 days ago by Romey
5.0 out of 5 stars
RE: Now it makes sense
If you have to deal with someone with whom logic doesn't seem to apply, read this book and you will understand why. Read more
Published 25 days ago by Prissy Patriot
5.0 out of 5 stars
loved the book
answered lots of questions and makes much more since than other diagnosis I've read. I loved the book and found some answers I have been searching for.
Published 27 days ago by Beki Reynolds
4.0 out of 5 stars
Character disturbance: the phenomenon of our age
Really addresses the issues with character disorder and the specific disorders and they hallmark of each disorder. Very helpful. Very
Published 1 month ago by really daryl
5.0 out of 5 stars
Why Quibble Over Semantics?
I am perplexed at the number of people who feel motivated to argue that some certain definition of what actually constitutes a sociopath, versus a psychopath, or a narcissist, or... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Hoosier Hayseed
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent book...
This book gave an overview of what has traditional been called sociopaths and psychopaths. However, since the public often resists such terms - thinking only in actual criminal... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Kathryn Kelly
5.0 out of 5 stars
Good Insight.
Dr.Simon's insight is very valuable because of the years he's worked w/disturbed characters. He does bring some insights from The Bible but it's used as Wisdom Literature and not... Read more
Published 2 months ago by DeSade
3.0 out of 5 stars
good info
authors writing style competes with the information he is trying to convery. i have read a lot of books by doctors in their field of expertise, and this gentleman has a hard time... Read more
Published 2 months ago by greenglowbindi
5.0 out of 5 stars
Very useful
Simply put, this book helps you understand the pathology of people around you better. Simon uses "tough love" on his disturbed clients, which seems to be working when other... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Lwl
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent!
I thoroughly enjoyed this book! It was very refreshing to get a completely different take on aggressive personalities. Read more
Published 2 months ago by E. Moser
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