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Cathie Beck (Author)
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July 20, 2010

I didn’t know that people come into our lives, and sometimes, if we’re terribly lucky, we get the chance to love them, that sometimes they stay, that sometimes you can, truly, depend on them.

Cathie Beck was in her late thirties and finally able to exhale after a lifetime of just trying to get by. A teenage mother harboring vivid memories of her own hardscrabble childhood, Cathie had spent years doing whatever it took to give her children the stability—or at least the illusion of it—that she’d never had. More than that, through sheer will and determination, she had educated them and herself too. With her kids in college, Cathie was at last ready to have some fun. The only problem was that she had no idea how to do it and no friends to do it with. So she put an ad in the paper for a made-up women's group: WOW . . . Women on the Way. Eight women showed up that first night, and out of that group a friendship formed, one of those meteoric, passionate, stand-by-you friendships that come around once in a lifetime and change you forever . . . if you’re lucky.


Praise for Cheap Cabernet: A Friendship

“This is a beautiful book about two remarkable women. I read Cheap Cabernet in one breathless sitting. I gulped it down and then I sat there and let the taste of love and sorrow and redemption linger for a long time.”

—Alison Smith, author of Name All the Animals

“Beyond wonderful—wickedly funny, poignant, and smart. Anyone who’s a fan of Mary Karr or Anne Lamott will find Cathie Beck’s Cheap Cabernet both laugh-out-loud hysterical—and heartbreaking.

—Elle Newmark, bestselling author of The Book of Unholy Mischief

“Cathie Beck’s Cheap Cabernet is a bracing story of a woman who took the crappy hand life had dealt her and turned it into a big win. With an awe-inspiring stamina, she kept going long past the point other people—like me—would've quit. I devoured this empowering and very funny memoir from the first page.”

Julie Klam, author of Please Excuse My Daughter


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A newly-dumped empty nester at only 39, Beck could do whatever she wanted, but had no friends with whom to do it. She needed pals, so she placed an ad in a Colorado newspaper to form a "smart, sassy women's group," with no idea what sort of response she'd get. A bevy of women responded, and Beck winnowed the lot of potential partners in crime to a half-dozen. One of them would change her live forever, and their friendship is the subject of Beck's mood-hopping memoir. They seemed to have little in common at first glance; Denise Katz was sophisticated, glamorous, successful, while Beck saw herself as a "stubby Catholic girl with thin hair." But the two struck up a fast friendship rife with adventure, even as Katz slowly succumbed to the debilitating effects of multiple sclerosis. It's easy to see why Cabernet attracted a major publisher after it was self-published to great acclaim on Amazon. Though often full of treacle, Beck doesn't shy away from a frank, honest portrayal. Readers may not always like the book's versions of Beck and Katz, but they will identify with them.
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Divorced with two kids by age 22, Beck reaches her late thirties “primed for hell and high water.” Looking for a partner in crime, she places a newspaper ad for a women’s group, and meets “high-wheelin’ and fun-lovin’” Denise—the perfect antidote to Beck’s years of struggle as a single parent. In her debut memoir, Beck focuses on their immediate, intensely fierce friendship—there’s scarcely room or air for anyone else, including Beck’s children. The good times are tempered by Denise’s deteriorating health, which ultimately strains the relationship—Beck’s life is beginning to soar just as her friend’s is slipping away. A lively, pull-no-punches storyteller, Beck writes with great affection even as she struggles to create a fully realized portrait of Denise, who remains elusive. Beck proves most effective when drawing on vivid, heartrending scenes from her past (fertile ground for future memoirs) to illuminate the present. As Beck blossoms from tentative and fearful to confident and composed, we come to see how, under Denise’s influence, she has traveled from there to here. --Patty Wetli

Product Details

  • Paperback: 324 pages
  • Publisher: Voice; 1 edition (July 20, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1401341543
  • ISBN-13: 978-1401341541
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 5.1 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.9 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (129 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #986,190 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Hi there! I'm the girl-next-door -- I'm your neighbor -- I'm the gal you went to grade school with.

I have, at various times, worked as a cocktail waitress, a secretary, a baton twirling teacher and a writer.

In other words -- I'M YOU!

Cheap Cabernet: A Friendship is my first book -- a memoir -- a true tale of "best girlfriend-ship" and THEN some :).

You can keep up with all the juicy "Cheap Cabernet" happenings (there are a LOT) at www.facebook.com/cheapcabernet.

Here's some reactions to it so far. But DO come tell me YOUR reactions at www.cathiebeck.com.

Cathie Beck's wonderfully told and achingly poignant memoir will remind every woman to call her best friend right away to tell her how important their relationship is, and how she couldn't survive without it And, by the way, to run out and buy the heartbreaking book, "Cheap Cabernet."

~ Iris Rainer Dart, Author of Beaches

Cathie Beck's Cheap Cabernet is a bracing story of a woman who took the crappy hand life had dealt her and turned it into a big win. With an awe-inspiring stamina, she kept going long past the point other people --like me --would've quit. I devoured this empowering and very funny memoir from the first page.

~ Julie Klam, Please Excuse My Daughter

This is a beautiful book about two remarkable women. I read Cheap Cabernet in one breathless sitting. I gulped it down and then I sat there and let the taste of love and sorrow and redemption linger for a long time.

Alison Smith Name All the Animals

A lively, pull-no-punches storyteller, Beck writes with great affection ... Beck proves most effective when drawing on vivid, heartrending scenes from her past (fertile ground for future memoirs) to illuminate the present. As Beck blossoms from tentative and fearful to confident and composed, we come to see how, under Denise's influence, she has traveled from there to here.

Booklist -- American Library Association.


Customer Reviews

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18 of 19 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
Cheap Cabernet is at turns touching, daring, and chaotic - just like real life. What struck me the most was its authenticity: Cathie's Beck's unique voice, sense of humor, and the battle between her confidence and her self-doubt, shine through.

It's ultimately the story of feminine power; of overcoming obstacles, of how friends can uplift each other, learn from each other, and stick by each other, despite the ugliness and awkwardness of illness, despair and death. If you are turned on by the idea of women empowering themselves and seeking more out of life, you'll consume Cheap Cabernet.

Cheap Cabernet follows the friendship of two women who find strength in each other; who change each other; who help each other develop broader, wiser and more compassionate perspectives on life, love, gain, loss and death.

Cathie Beck has the guts to tell the true story of a transformative time in her own life - the good, the bad and the ugly. The story follows the way Cathie and Denise's friendship evolves as Cathie's life is finally on the upswing while Denise's spirals downward due to MS. Although the storyline focuses on Denise's battle with illness, the REAL story is Cathie's personal journey towards honoring, and tending to, her own wants and needs instead of those of others, as she has done for the majority of her poor, single-mother, hard-knocks life.

Cathie is attracted to Denise's boldness and confidence, and despite Denise's slow demise, Cathie gains strength from the example that Denise sets. Denise is no June Cleaver; rather, she assists Cathie in becoming a bit bolder, more confident and more street-smart - for good and for ill.

Cathie and Denise share many adventures and sometimes get into trouble. Although they are in their late thirties, their antics often reminded me of two lovable teenage girls, not sure of what they're doing or why, but doing it anyway. Cathie's life, up until now, has been a lot of work, including raising kids under tough circumstances. Denise's life has been consumed with entrepreneurial ventures and marriage. Now, it seems, Cathie and Denise discover their latent youth and, in doing so, recreate and define themselves through each other.

This is a wonderful romp, a rich read, a must for any woman anywhere who wants to live her own life to its fullest.
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Heather Gallien
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful
A Guilty Pleasure September 7, 2009
Format:Paperback
While reading this memoir, one could easily experience almost guilty thoughts, as though one was secretly reading a dear friend's diary.

I loved this book, and frankly, couldn't put it down. In an entertainment world where it seems that every story (book, movie or television) has become so formulaic, it's refreshing and compelling to grasp in one's hot little hands a book that absolutely breaths with life. REAL LIFE, not some "edited for comfort" life. Where difficult circumstances exist and even more difficult decisions sometimes had to be made. Real coming to terms, coming to grips and coming of age LIFE. And lest you think its all aching difficulties, just know (no spoiler here!) that there is plenty of love, grace and hi jinks to make one's teeth itch wondering what the next page will bring.

The honesty of this book and this relationship is a life saver...like a conversation with someone you love and admire, who admits to the decisions and wishes of their darkest hour, only to exonerate all humanity in their like moments. The shock of recognition, in both the tough and celebratory moments is palpable. The resulting joy and sense of hope and well being that permeates the reader after the fact is a gift all books should seek to attain.

What would I compare this to? Hmmm, well I'd open my food processor and throw in Eat, Love, Pray, Angela's Ashes, Thelma and Louise and Beaches, hit puree and then set up an IV drip!

So, strap yourself in and get ready for a true, in every sense of the word, adventure of the heartfelt variety.
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22 of 25 people found the following review helpful
Absolutely Stunning!! August 30, 2009
Format:Paperback
Cathie Beck's memoir "Cheap Cabernet" is a stunner.

"Cheap Cabernet" is real.
"Cheap Cabernet" is a life most of us cannot imagine.
"Cheap Cabernet" is a spirit, a strength, a triumph we all dream of.

This is a must read book.

Cathie Beck's true story takes place within our time. Now. Today. This is a stirring saga of someone you know, maybe someone you work alongside, not someone from the "romantic past" of the 1950s. Cathie has chronicled a snapshot of her life in America, a life most of us neither consider nor choose to see. Beck's memoir is 3 stories interlaced within a single narrative.

One story thread is of Beck's struggle to lift not only herself but her children from a life of multigenerational poverty to become something better. Cathie Beck was 21 years old with only a high school education and two babies when she woke up one morning to find her husband gone. He left taking their only car, all of the money in their bank account and their hope for a "normal" future.

"I worked hard to pretend each and every day that it was normal to be alone in my early twenties with two young children. I did so in part because I had to. The other part was that I needed to prove to myself, to my children, and to the world that our lives weren't throw-away lives. That we were still worth something. That we were just as good as the ones who lived in houses they owned and who drove cars without rusted floorboards. Just as good as those with dads."

If the first story thread is Cathie's successful determination in raising her kids, the second thread is that of Beck now in her late 30s; a young woman with her Masters degree in Russian Literature, her two kids now in college. She wants to experience life without being "responsible". She wants the fun she could not have in her twenties. She was lonely, searching, and felt something was missing.

"My loneliness, you see, grew out of one thing: poverty and its ugly sisters - shame and desperation." We get to watch Cathie grow up, make the mistakes we made as college sophomores, climb a career ladder as young adults, make more questionable decisions.....and as the reader, sometimes you want to shout....DON'T DO THAT, like a parent to a child...wanting to protect her from the pain of a bad choice.

The third thread comes in the form of Denise. Denise has MS. Cathie has fears. Each of them is searching for a better life, though each defined it differently. Their friendship transcends that of love. They found in the other, a missing part of themselves. They needed each other for different, yet sympatico reasons. The friendship is not perfect, which makes it ... perfect.

Cathie Beck lets us see it all.....the good and the really ugly. Nothing is held back,....their successful plot to "borrow" Denise's husband's $3000, the affairs, the Cuban travel, the forever missed opportunity to say good-bye to your friend who is dying; then realizing it wasn't missed at all. And then it hits you....this is a true story.

Cathie Beck's "Cheap Cabernet" is a story of raising yourself (and your kids) out of poverty, welfare, and bill collectors banging on your door. It is a story of coming of age during your 30s, having missed the excitement of young adulthood. It is a story of two women who bring life to each other even as death plays unfairly.

It is a story impossible to forget.
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This is a warm, wonderful, well written book about the lasting friendship between two women. Very funny. I thoroughly enjoyed it!
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