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5.0 out of 5 stars
I lived for almost a year in a depressed Massachusetts town, December 3, 2007
This review is from: The Chelsea Whistle: A Memoir (Live Girls) (Paperback)
I never really thought about Amazon editing these reviews but in my last review I wrote the word b**!t and it was not posted. So this time I will write more nicely....
Michelle Tea's memoir is no b**!t in its honesty and brutality about the growing up of girls. I worked in a reformatory school for girls in a new England town, an experience that scarred me (and I think the girls too) as the 12-17 year olds I worked with were labeled naughty and dirty although with only one clear exception had been more damaged than damaging. Every day the girls were given five minutes to shower and another thirty minutes to dry and curl and spray their hair....to socially conform or face punishment.
Which is to say Tea's memoir strikes me as true to a specific time and place and yet surprisingly, humanely funny. As in the chapter where she talks about her elementary school fear of being pulled aside by a high schooler and hooked on drugs with the use of a mickey mouse stamp with LSD on the back. The kind of rumors and paranoia and fear that waft through small towns in America waft through this memoir and each chapter contains beautiful and true minutia about the props and tenderness and toughness of girlhood.
Like maybe all good memoirs, Tea's childhood story outlines a betrayal....despite all her best intentions to stay free of the harms, microbes and miscreants lurking on the outskirts of her world, to not cause her overworked underpaid mother more trouble, a betrayal from within. I won't say more here except that the way she writes about this experience is fresh, poetic and clear. Those who criticise the ending seem to want something that non-fiction can't provide, which is clear closure. The concept of closure is nice, but rare in long-lived family dramas. And for those who think her experiences are too dramatic or made up, I disagree. The shame and fear and dirt of families written about here seems as true as any narration I've encountered.
I wish sometimes that there could be a bridge...that in high school rich kids or middle class children who don't have to face this fundamental struggle of their right to exist could read more of the stories of children who have to start running from a very early age just to make it "out" of a tight web of poverty and family violence. I found this story to be hopeful, not because Tea's girlhood is tied up with a pink ribbon at the end, but because she's survived to write this account, we know the "ending" isn't the real ending of her story, just a step. And that her struggle as dirty and ugly (and at times hilarious) as it was has also been successful.
I recommend this book to people of both genders, grown up or growing up who are able to contemplate the real life fears and tribulations of a real (not sanitized, doll-ified) american girlhood. Also recommended for fans of Judy Blume.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Publisher's Weekly misses the magic, September 7, 2002
This review is from: The Chelsea Whistle: A Memoir (Live Girls) (Paperback)
What can I say about Michelle Tea and her writing that hasn't already been said in a positive light? She is the most honest, unafraid writer I have ever had the pleasure to read, and The Chelsea Whistle is a daring, heartbreaking, wonderful continuation of her life story. Her writing is beautiful, everflowing and wonderfully descriptive. She pulls no punches, neither to protect herself nor to protect or punish the people around her. The thing I love best about her writing is the picture she presents of a whole person; she trusts her audience to see truth in whatever way they find it. She is able to pull words from the dark places in her that are universal but never said--she makes the whole human experience come to life in the way that we all know it in our hearts, and she does not purport to be special in her own experience. I don't know what Publisher's Weekly read, but I did not find her writing choppy, and if the ending is disappointing, it is only that her character is not done growing, as perhaps the PW reviewer hopes for. Michelle's is a life in progress, and I cannot wait to read the next chapter.
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9 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Growing up can be painful..., December 26, 2002
This review is from: The Chelsea Whistle: A Memoir (Live Girls) (Paperback)
Tea's memoir is an amazing glimpse of a teenager's life in Chelsea, Massachusetts. Being a fellow New Englander I can hang onto every word she says and feel that is sad but true. Tea bases the book around her insanely complicated family life, while adding snippets of inner city adventures. Serious and funny she pulls you through a whirlwind of emotions and issues without asking you to sympathize with her.
She lives through a divorce, her step-father's harassment and deals with being a lesbian in a place where there is no such thing. It is a quick read and well worth it.
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