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A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive [Paperback]

Dave Pelzer
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Book Description

September 1, 1995

This book chronicles the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."

Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.


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Editorial Reviews

Amazon.com Review

David J. Pelzer's mother, Catherine Roerva, was, he writes in this ghastly, fascinating memoir, a devoted den mother to the Cub Scouts in her care, and somewhat nurturant to her children--but not to David, whom she referred to as "an It." This book is a brief, horrifying account of the bizarre tortures she inflicted on him, told from the point of view of the author as a young boy being starved, stabbed, smashed face-first into mirrors, forced to eat the contents of his sibling's diapers and a spoonful of ammonia, and burned over a gas stove by a maniacal, alcoholic mom. Sometimes she claimed he had violated some rule--no walking on the grass at school!--but mostly it was pure sadism. Inexplicably, his father didn't protect him; only an alert schoolteacher saved David. One wants to learn more about his ordeal and its aftermath, and now he's written a sequel, The Lost Boy, detailing his life in the foster-care system.

Though it's a grim story, A Child Called "It" is very much in the tradition of Chicken Soup for the Couple's Soul and the many books in that upbeat series, whose author Pelzer thanks for helping get his book going. It's all about weathering adversity to find love, and Pelzer is an expert witness.

From School Library Journal

Grade 9 Up?This autobiographical account charts the abuse of a young boy as his alcoholic mother first isolates him from the rest of the family; then torments him; and finally nearly kills him through starvation, poisoning, and one dramatic stabbing. Pelzer's portrayal of domestic tyranny and eventual escape is unforgettable, but falls short of providing understanding of extreme abuse or how he made his journey from "Victim to Victor." It takes some work to get past the poor writing and the self-aggrandizing back matter, but the book tries fervently to provide a much-needed perspective. One of the greater obstacles to healing for males is admitting that they have been victims, especially if their perpetrator is a woman. This author has overcome that obstacle and succeeded in life by such masculine norms as joining the Air Force and receiving awards for his volunteerism. However, while personal accounts of child maltreatment provide crucial information about the realities of childhood, youngsters need insight and hope in order to digest the raw material of abuse. James Deem's The 3 NBs of Julian Drew (Houghton, 1994) is a well-crafted, fictional work that effectively covers much of the same ground.?Carolyn Polese, Humboldt State University, Arcata, CA
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 184 pages
  • Publisher: HCI; a edition (September 1, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1558743669
  • ISBN-13: 978-1558743663
  • Product Dimensions: 0.8 x 5.2 x 7.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2,575 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,507 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Dave Pelzer is recognised as one of America's most effective and respected communicators addressing corporations, conventions and health/psychology/primary care workers. His unique accomplishments have garnered personal commendations from Ronald Reagan and George Bush. He was selected as torchbearer for the 1996 Olympic Torch relay. He has dedicated his life to helping others help themselves.

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320 of 350 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspirational story of resilience. A must read! November 7, 1999
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
A Child Called "It" is a real life story about a boy who was brutally beaten and starved by his mentally disturbed and alcoholic mother. At first, David Pelzer lived a healthy and normal life with his parents and brothers. His mother, however, unexpectedly transformed into a monster, venting her anger on her helpless child. David was submerged in freezing cold water, forced to eat his own vomit, slept in the basement under the stairs, stabbed, and forced to sit on a burning stove. These are just a few of the torturous games that his mother used to play. She treated him not like her son, but like an "it". David suffered both mental and physical abuse. In order to survive from his mother's sick games, David used willpower. Through all of her torturous games, David's inner strength began to emerge.

This book is a perfect example of how the human spirit can provide strength in the toughest of situations. David's spirit helped him to survive through his mother's emotional and physical abuse. He refused to let his mother win. He had no one to help him so he learned how to fend for himself. His courage and determination saved him from all of the suffering that he endured at such a young age.

David is a living testament of resilience. His faith and personal responsibility helped him transform into an emotionally healthy and competent adult. A large percentage of emotionally and physically abused children become abusive in their adult years. The abusiveness could be a cycle, passed down from generation to generation. Their rage and pain of being abused could be turned on themselves or the ones they love. David, at a young age, showed strong signs of being a planner as well as a problem solver.... Read more ›

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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Children! Stop stealing this book! June 8, 2013
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As a YA media specialist, I know what teens love: an I-can't-believe-this-crap-happened child abuse memoir. (The I-can't-believe-it-est out there? Straightling: A Memoir (Hey Kid Series). It's a true story you wish wasn't true.) Dave Pelzer's A Child Called It is the biggie in this category. I can't keep it in the media center, because it always "goes missing." If teens are stealing a book, you know it's a good one!

Here are the reasons they love it:
1: Spoiler alert: In this true story, Pelzer's mother does unbelievable things to him. She makes him eat a bar of soap, a tablespoon of bleach, and the contents of his brother's diaper.
2: Grody alert: The scenes are explicit and visual. After his mother forces him to drink dish detergent, Pelzer says, "...diarrhea took hold...clumps of watery matter fell through my underwear and down my pants legs, to the floor."
3: It's fast and easy to read. Pelzer doesn't use big vocabulary words, and the type on the page is large and well-spaced.
4: In between the shocking abuse scenes, there are events all kids can relate to, such as bullies at school and made-up games in the backyard.
5: Pelzer's father's reactions to the abuse are fascinating and horrifying: "Jesus H. Christ! Does your mother know that you're in here talking to me? Damn it, boy, we don't need to do anything that might make her more upset! I don't need to go through that tonight...."
6: There is a thread of childish hope running through the book. Maybe his father will help him this time. Once in a while a caring adult at school notices his bruises.
7: The clincher: Pelzer's story took a "worst of" award.
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58 of 67 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Child Called "It" and the Lost Boy April 20, 2002
Format:Paperback
This book is the story of David Peltzer, who at a very young age was systematically abused and tortured by his own mother while his own father and siblings stood by and watched, sometimes even inflicting there own torture on the very young lad. As a mother of two, my daughter being the same age as David was when his abuse began, I found this a truly distressing story. I had tears in my eyes as David described how his mother would gleefully play "games" with him. On one occassion attempting to burn him on a lit gas stove, on another stabbing him and then not making an attempt to seek medical help for the lad. David was forced to shut down emotionally in order to survive the horrific surroundings in which he was forced to live. From sleeping in a cold garage on an old army cot to the severe beatings which could have killed him. His story is told from the heart of a child yet we can still only begin to imagine what it must have been like to receive this sort of treatment from the one person meant to love and protect him - his mother. In The Lost boy we are taken on the journey of Davids battle to be accepted into a society which does not understand the full extent of his misery. His many foster homes and schools and his ongoing battle with his mother who even after losing her son to the state, was still determined to hurt him from a distance by attempting to have him committed. David grows from a confused frustrated young child into a struggling young adult with the foster child stigma of the times firmly attached to him. Yet he overcomes all of this to join the forces and carve a career for himself. I am now begining to read the 3rd installment of Davids life - A Man Called David and look forward to following his story further into adulthood.... Read more ›
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars So many unanswered questions..
Never have I read a book, finished it, and had so many unanswered questions. I know in the back of the book the author states that many answers will be revealed in the following... Read more
Published 3 days ago by jade19721
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
This book is so interesting. It shows what is really out there and gives good lessons. I thouroly enjoy it.
Published 4 days ago by ~Amazon Costomer 14
4.0 out of 5 stars Prepare yourself
This book will make you sad, angry, sick to your stomach and just your you up in knots. It's written from the POV of David as a boy. Really, it's heart-wrenching. Read more
Published 6 days ago by Sdalbright72
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT READ
I read this book because I had to choose a book about resilience for my English project, but this book is much more than a great read!
Published 6 days ago by Colin Fackler
4.0 out of 5 stars Heartbreaking
This is a heartbreaking story about a boy abused by his mother. Based on a true story. Be prepared to shed many tears over the boy, David, and his story.
Published 7 days ago by Angel5000
5.0 out of 5 stars So sad
This made me sick I wish I could have a word with the mother I feel so abused inside just reading this
Published 7 days ago by Shelby Beam
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing
The best book I've ever read. Five stars is a must I will be reading this story over and over in my mind
Published 8 days ago by Gwendolyn Marie Stephens
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
This book is very intense but awesome to read. Probably you should be prepared to read some really intense true stories and it is very sad but real.
Published 9 days ago by TashRad
3.0 out of 5 stars Wouldn't pay to purchase it again...
There were so many unanswered questions..then all of a sudden the book ended....I would have liked to know more information on why the mother changed so drastically
Published 9 days ago by Lynn clutter
5.0 out of 5 stars Mind over matter
As a child I didn't have the easy life as well. I remember all too well everything I went through. This story brings tears to my eyes when I read about all the things pelzer went... Read more
Published 9 days ago by Brenda Castellanos
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I distrust these reviews
Various critiques of Dave Pelzer state that he is first a self-marketer. You can find some of them by Googling. These critiques also call into question the complete accuracy of his books. I have not seen a complete assessment of his case in the media, including the complete details of his... Read more
Feb 15, 2007 by Chris Fathom |  See all 30 posts
I love child abuse true stories like these that expose the truth
Not sure if I can truthfully say I love these kinds of stories, but I definitely love the survivors who come forth to expose some of these horrors & thus create more protection for potential future victims. No matter what the perpetrators of this kind of abuse claim, they live and die by... Read more
Feb 2, 2013 by Valois |  See all 2 posts
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hmm that depends on her maturity i read it when i was 12. it really didnt inspire me...it just made my want to kill that mother. tey borrowing it from a library ahen skimm through it then you can judge for yourself.
May 14, 2009 by Nakita W |  See all 7 posts
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