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A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive [Paperback]

Dave Pelzer
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Book Description

September 1, 1995

This book chronicles the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."

Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.


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David J. Pelzer's mother, Catherine Roerva, was, he writes in this ghastly, fascinating memoir, a devoted den mother to the Cub Scouts in her care, and somewhat nurturant to her children--but not to David, whom she referred to as "an It." This book is a brief, horrifying account of the bizarre tortures she inflicted on him, told from the point of view of the author as a young boy being starved, stabbed, smashed face-first into mirrors, forced to eat the contents of his sibling's diapers and a spoonful of ammonia, and burned over a gas stove by a maniacal, alcoholic mom. Sometimes she claimed he had violated some rule--no walking on the grass at school!--but mostly it was pure sadism. Inexplicably, his father didn't protect him; only an alert schoolteacher saved David. One wants to learn more about his ordeal and its aftermath, and now he's written a sequel, The Lost Boy, detailing his life in the foster-care system.

Though it's a grim story, A Child Called "It" is very much in the tradition of Chicken Soup for the Couple's Soul and the many books in that upbeat series, whose author Pelzer thanks for helping get his book going. It's all about weathering adversity to find love, and Pelzer is an expert witness.

From School Library Journal

Grade 9 Up?This autobiographical account charts the abuse of a young boy as his alcoholic mother first isolates him from the rest of the family; then torments him; and finally nearly kills him through starvation, poisoning, and one dramatic stabbing. Pelzer's portrayal of domestic tyranny and eventual escape is unforgettable, but falls short of providing understanding of extreme abuse or how he made his journey from "Victim to Victor." It takes some work to get past the poor writing and the self-aggrandizing back matter, but the book tries fervently to provide a much-needed perspective. One of the greater obstacles to healing for males is admitting that they have been victims, especially if their perpetrator is a woman. This author has overcome that obstacle and succeeded in life by such masculine norms as joining the Air Force and receiving awards for his volunteerism. However, while personal accounts of child maltreatment provide crucial information about the realities of childhood, youngsters need insight and hope in order to digest the raw material of abuse. James Deem's The 3 NBs of Julian Drew (Houghton, 1994) is a well-crafted, fictional work that effectively covers much of the same ground.?Carolyn Polese, Humboldt State University, Arcata, CA
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 184 pages
  • Publisher: HCI; Edition Unstated edition (September 1, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1558743669
  • ISBN-13: 978-1558743663
  • Product Dimensions: 0.8 x 5.2 x 7.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2,545 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,129 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Dave Pelzer is recognised as one of America's most effective and respected communicators addressing corporations, conventions and health/psychology/primary care workers. His unique accomplishments have garnered personal commendations from Ronald Reagan and George Bush. He was selected as torchbearer for the 1996 Olympic Torch relay. He has dedicated his life to helping others help themselves.

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320 of 350 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspirational story of resilience. A must read! November 7, 1999
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Format:Paperback
A Child Called "It" is a real life story about a boy who was brutally beaten and starved by his mentally disturbed and alcoholic mother. At first, David Pelzer lived a healthy and normal life with his parents and brothers. His mother, however, unexpectedly transformed into a monster, venting her anger on her helpless child. David was submerged in freezing cold water, forced to eat his own vomit, slept in the basement under the stairs, stabbed, and forced to sit on a burning stove. These are just a few of the torturous games that his mother used to play. She treated him not like her son, but like an "it". David suffered both mental and physical abuse. In order to survive from his mother's sick games, David used willpower. Through all of her torturous games, David's inner strength began to emerge.

This book is a perfect example of how the human spirit can provide strength in the toughest of situations. David's spirit helped him to survive through his mother's emotional and physical abuse. He refused to let his mother win. He had no one to help him so he learned how to fend for himself. His courage and determination saved him from all of the suffering that he endured at such a young age.

David is a living testament of resilience. His faith and personal responsibility helped him transform into an emotionally healthy and competent adult. A large percentage of emotionally and physically abused children become abusive in their adult years. The abusiveness could be a cycle, passed down from generation to generation. Their rage and pain of being abused could be turned on themselves or the ones they love. David, at a young age, showed strong signs of being a planner as well as a problem solver. These character traits, along with caring adults (nurses, teachers, social workers, etc.), help him to become resilient. David's inner strength helped him turn shame into pride and rejection into acceptance. A Child Called "It" sends an inspirational message of resilience and the human spirit. A person has the ability to leave their dark past and look forward to a better tomorrow. If David Pelter could do it than anyone can!

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58 of 67 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Child Called "It" and the Lost Boy April 20, 2002
Format:Paperback
This book is the story of David Peltzer, who at a very young age was systematically abused and tortured by his own mother while his own father and siblings stood by and watched, sometimes even inflicting there own torture on the very young lad. As a mother of two, my daughter being the same age as David was when his abuse began, I found this a truly distressing story. I had tears in my eyes as David described how his mother would gleefully play "games" with him. On one occassion attempting to burn him on a lit gas stove, on another stabbing him and then not making an attempt to seek medical help for the lad. David was forced to shut down emotionally in order to survive the horrific surroundings in which he was forced to live. From sleeping in a cold garage on an old army cot to the severe beatings which could have killed him. His story is told from the heart of a child yet we can still only begin to imagine what it must have been like to receive this sort of treatment from the one person meant to love and protect him - his mother. In The Lost boy we are taken on the journey of Davids battle to be accepted into a society which does not understand the full extent of his misery. His many foster homes and schools and his ongoing battle with his mother who even after losing her son to the state, was still determined to hurt him from a distance by attempting to have him committed. David grows from a confused frustrated young child into a struggling young adult with the foster child stigma of the times firmly attached to him. Yet he overcomes all of this to join the forces and carve a career for himself. I am now begining to read the 3rd installment of Davids life - A Man Called David and look forward to following his story further into adulthood. Never before has a book had such an impact on me and brought forth such emotions in me that I if I could foster all of the abused and neglected kids in the world I would. Davids story is an important one that everyone should read, for the plight of the small defenceless child is one we should all pay attention to and we should never be afraid to speak out against those who would do them harm.

A must for any library.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Will to Survive February 17, 2000
Format:Paperback
I read both "A Child Called It" and "The Lost Boy" last night. I am looking forward to his third sequel which I ordered. I am deeply grateful that he held on to survive against insurmountable odds, though just a child. Though my heart ached and tears flowed as I read, I truly admire his unselfish spirit . . . to help, encourage, and uplift another "abused" child out of the darkest pit. I feel his story needed to be told to bring attention to the enormity of abuse which springs all around our unsuspecting eyes. Thank you, David, for sharing your heartbreaking, yet, triumphant life with us. May God continue to embrace you and Stephen is my prayer.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This Book Is Really Good
My book is called A Child Called "IT." The main characters are David, his mom Catherine Roerva, his dad Stephen Joseph, and his 3 brothers Ron, Stan, and Kevin. Read more
Published 1 day ago by Student
4.0 out of 5 stars A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive [Paperback]
Anybody who overcomes abuse is worth listening to. They tell a story that can relate with other people who can benefit from it.
Published 3 days ago by Piaras O Cionnaoith
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
Had Me On Edge The Whole Time. Read This Book In One Day Ad Couldnt Put It Down. Thank You So Much
Published 3 days ago by Tiona0921
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome book
If you haven't read this book you need to read the book. This book took me on a emotional roller coaster
Published 4 days ago by a.Bryant
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Transaction!
I buy books and donate them to a juvenile facility. These teens love to read and are always looking for books they can relate to, unfortunately some relate to Dave Pelzer's life. Read more
Published 5 days ago by Sandra M. Harris
5.0 out of 5 stars Good
This book is very inspiring and everyone should read it. And everyone should know what kids who get abused should feel how it is.
Published 7 days ago by Maggie's12324
5.0 out of 5 stars Ouch
This book was hard to get through. The writing was very good, but the subject matter made me cry every time I opened it up. Read more
Published 8 days ago by Sharon Preiss
5.0 out of 5 stars Reccomended from a friend and teacher
My daughter was recomended to ge tthis book and she absolutely loved it once starting to read. She literally couldn't put it down. Beware tears will be shed!
Published 10 days ago by meliscam8
5.0 out of 5 stars The Sad little abused boy
This was a wonderful book about a poor little abused boy. It was well written and easy to read. I wanted to adopt him myself.
Published 12 days ago by Sandra L Horan
5.0 out of 5 stars No words....
This is my 2nd time reading this book and again I am speechless. That anyone can inflict any of this on a child is just beyond comprehension! David's will to survive is incredible!
Published 13 days ago by Cliffsgyrl
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I distrust these reviews
Various critiques of Dave Pelzer state that he is first a self-marketer. You can find some of them by Googling. These critiques also call into question the complete accuracy of his books. I have not seen a complete assessment of his case in the media, including the complete details of his... Read more
Feb 15, 2007 by Chris Fathom |  See all 30 posts
I love child abuse true stories like these that expose the truth
Not sure if I can truthfully say I love these kinds of stories, but I definitely love the survivors who come forth to expose some of these horrors & thus create more protection for potential future victims. No matter what the perpetrators of this kind of abuse claim, they live and die by... Read more
Feb 2, 2013 by Valois |  See all 2 posts
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hmm that depends on her maturity i read it when i was 12. it really didnt inspire me...it just made my want to kill that mother. tey borrowing it from a library ahen skimm through it then you can judge for yourself.
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