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Click: The Forces Behind How We Fully Engage with People, Work, and Everything We Do [Paperback]

Ori Brafman , Rom Brafman
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July 5, 2011
You know the feeling. You meet someone new—at a party or at work—and you just hit it off. There is an instant sense of camaraderie.
 
In a word, you “click.”
 
From the bestselling authors of Sway, Click is a fascinating psychological investigation of the forces behind what makes us click with certain people, or become fully immersed in whatever activity or situation we’re involved in.  
 
From two co-workers who fall head over heels for each other while out to dinner and are married a month later (and fifteen years later remain just as in love), to a team of scientists who changed the world with the magic of their invention, these kinds of peak experiences, when our senses are completely focused on the moment, are something that individuals—and companies—strive to achieve. After all, when you’re in the “zone,” you’re happier and more productive. Why is it that we click in certain situations and with certain people, but not with others? Can this kind of magical connection be consciously encouraged?  Is there a way to create such peak experiences, whether on a date or in your job? 
 
According to Ori and Rom Brafman, there is. 
 
In a powerful, story-driven narrative that weaves together cutting-edge research in psychology and sociology, the Brafmans explore what it means to “click”: the common factors present when our brain and senses are fully engaged. They identify five “accelerators” that increase the likelihood of these kinds of magic connections in our work and relationships.
  
From actors vying for a role on a popular TV series to police officers negotiating with hostage takers, we learn how one can foster an environment where we can click with another person and shape our thinking, behavior, and emotions.
 
A fascinating journey into how we engage with the world around us, Click will transform our thinking about those moments when we are in the zone and everything seems to fall into place.
 
Acclaim for Sway:

“A provocative new book about the psychological forces that lead us to disregard facts or logic and behave in surprisingly irrational ways.” –New York Times
 
“A unique and compulsively readable look at unseen behavioral trends.” –Fortune

"A breathtaking book that will challenge your every thought, Sway hovers above the intersection of Blink and Freakonomics."--Tom Rath, coauthor of the New York Times #1 bestseller How Full Is Your Bucket?

“[An] engaging journey through the workings—and failings—of the mind…Their stories of senselessness…are as fascinating as the lessons we learn from them.” –Fast Company

"Count me swayed--but in this instance by the pull of entirely rational forces. Ori and Rom Brafman have done a terrific job of illuminating deep-seated tendencies that skew our behavior in ways that can range from silly to deadly. We'd be fools not to learn what they have to teach us."--Robert B. Cialdini, author of New York Times bestseller Influence

"If you think you know how you think, you'd better think again! Take this insightful, delightful trip to the sweet spot where economics, psychology, and sociology converge, and you'll discover how our all-too-human minds actually work."--Alan M. Webber, founding editor of Fast Company


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There is that special moment when two people click, rather than simply meet. The Brafman brothers (Sway) draw on a variety of sources to find the facts behind instant connections. Some are common sense: "When we get cues that we're liked, we're automatically drawn to like the other person in return." Ingredients involved in clicking are categorized into "click accelerators" such as vulnerability, proximity, and similarity. The brothers examine situations such as job interviews, romantic encounters, and even hostage negotiations to reveal how physical proximity enhances the chances of relationship forming. People described as "high self-monitors" (think The Office's Andy Bernard) pick up on social cues and organically adjust their actions to manipulate the ways in which they're perceived. One interviewee who thrives on the social connections that come from traveling, says "even if it was once and you clicked with them, you have all these people sprinkled across the world. It ends up leading to a lot of wonderful opportunities that enrich your life." Psychology and sociology click into place for an engaging, eye-opening read.
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"...serious research explained with interesting real life stories and presented in a short concise format. I think you'll click with it too."--Inc


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Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Crown Business (July 5, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0385529066
  • ISBN-13: 978-0385529068
  • Product Dimensions: 5.1 x 0.5 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #276,951 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars "Clicking" Can Lead to Increased Abilities December 31, 2011
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Have you ever met someone and immediately "clicked" with them? How did that make you feel? Brothers Ori & Rom Brafman describe this as "quick-set intimacy" - and they say we can increase the number of these connections we experience with others. They say there are benefits to "clicking" with people. First, clicking brings about a unique, almost euphoric state, one that we describe as "magical." Second, it permanently alters the fundamental nature of the relationship. Last and least recognized, it can serve to elevate the personal abilities of all involved.

The Brafmans tell us the science behind clicking and describe "click accelerators" - summarized as follows: vulnerability, proximity, resonance, similarity, and shared adversity.

For those interested in increasing your "clickability" with others - whether for leadership, friendship, salesmanship, or romance - Click is an interesting and informative read. Recommend.
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I've long had my own theory about why certain people seem to "click" as the title of this book suggests so quickly. And I've seen this happen in my own life as well. When you meet somebody for the first time, the only experience you have with them is at that very moment. If they remind you of someone, then you immediately begin thinking thoughts about that other person you know and you associate them with this new person. Then as you cultivate your relationship on whatever level with the new person that bond that attracted you to them to begin with forges a new friendship/connection with them that will then show up when you meet someone else. It's an interesting psychological phenomena that I'd like to see explored further. The authors of this book certainly touch on this and explain scientifically what is happening when you do CLICK. It's a fun read that will tell you more about yourself than you knew before.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I LOVE CLICK! Everybody should read this book! September 16, 2012
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Dear people..

This is a great book about positive psychology that everybody can easy understand and use. I am a natural clicker and really love this book. I wrote a book (in norwegian and Danish) "Flow in everyday life" and published in 2012 where I refer to the Brafmans and this great book..
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