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Cloister Talks: Learning from My Friends the Monks [Paperback]

Jon M Sweeney (Author)
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May 1, 2009
Come along as author Jon M. Sweeney sits in the warm October sun talking with Father Luke or enjoys a December afternoon in the monastery with Father Ambrose. In Cloister Talks, Sweeney offers a rare glimpse into his decades-long friendships with monks and shares the wisdom and insight for everyday living he has gained along the way. The contemplative monasticism Sweeney practiced with these monks has been the greatest source of guidance in his journey of faith, and here he shares it with poignant honesty. Sweeney's conversations with monks engage various universal areas of life, including life, death, love, work, play, and spirituality. Readers will emerge with a deeper understanding of this ancient way of Christianity, a much needed antidote to the hurry of contemporary life. EXCERPT Ambrose has such an interesting mind. When he talks it's as if he's painting the circles on a target, beginning at the outer ones. "If I had to give you one piece of advice it would be this: Don't look for sudden enlightenment. People call them ah-ha moments; don't worry about those. I know that you may feel your time is wasted here if you haven't had enough ah-has, but I assure you it won't be." "So what should I be doing?" I asked him, feeling confused. "When you finally quiet down enough you'll begin to hear the divine voice. "Don't walk around looking for moments of enlightened insight," Ambrose continued. "For one thing, we're not that smart!" He laughed. "Instead, you should walk around praying. Sit in the church before dawn, praying. Or just shut your mouth for a few days. Listen to the talks given by the retreat master, if you like. Just sit. Try your best to stop thinking." It sounded too easy to me. I told him that. "What I'm suggesting is much harder than you might think. You'll see."


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Protestant author Jon Sweeney (Almost Catholic) reports on more than 20 years of conversations he's had with monks in Massachusetts, Kentucky and Georgia. In his search for God, he encountered Trappist monk M. Basil Pennington and a number of other memorable characters who were eager to share their decades of cloistered experience with him. As a non-Catholic layman, Sweeney asks pointed questions about many aspects of monastic spirituality and elicits warm reflections on abbey life. Background information on Cistercian and Benedictine orders and quotes from such writers as Thomas Merton, Graham Greene, Evelyn Underhill and George Herbert provide a counterpoint to the voices of a fast-disappearing generation of contemplatives. While the dialogues are vivid, Sweeney's account of his own faith task of incorporating the monks' wisdom is too sketchy to be satisfying, and he offers little information about the directions his life has taken as a result. Adding to the monks changed my life genre is tricky, especially given the height of the bar set by Kathleen Norris's remarkable Cloister Walk. Less reticence, better writing and deeper insight would have strengthened Sweeney's endeavor to distill experiences that were clearly significant to him. (May)
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Monastic Insight for Everyday Living

Cloister Talks is a series of glimpses into Jon Sweeney's decades-long friendships with Cistercian and Benedictine monks in monasteries across the country. These communal brothers hold the keys to many of the things we all yearn for: stillness, solitude, simplicity, contemplation, and clarity of purpose. Here Sweeney shares with poignant honesty the wisdom he has gained among these holy yet still very human men. Their conversations engage a wide range of topics, including life, death, love, work, play, and spirituality, offering a deeper understanding of this ancient way of Christianity--a much-needed antidote to the hurry of contemporary life.

"In this poignant, richly nuanced book, Sweeney gives us our best record yet of the sweet tension between the cloister and the world that, like a leitmotif, sings always within those of us who yearn for both."--Phyllis Tickle, The Divine Hours

"If you ever wondered what a monk's life might be like, if you don't mind looking into a mirror to see the craziness of life in our culture, if you think you might splurge and go deeper with God, Sweeney shares his cloistered, very human, and wise friends with us as companions along the way."--James C. Howell, author of The Beautiful Work of Learning to Pray

"Cloister Talks is a contemplative conversation inviting us to know ourselves in the deep, deep love of the One by whom we're already known."--Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, author of New Monasticism

"This will be a very encouraging book for those who want to glean insights from monks for everyday life outside the cloister and need permission to fail from time to time in implementing what they have learned."--Dennis Okholm, author of Monk Habits for Everyday People


Product Details

  • Paperback: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Brazos Press (May 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1587432684
  • ISBN-13: 978-1587432682
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 2.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,508,453 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Jon M. Sweeney has lived in Vermont since 1997. He has three kids, one in college, one in high school, and a new baby girl. He writes and reflects on spiritual matters in books, articles, blogs, and other media, and he works in book publishing.

Jon was the cofounder and editor-in-chief of SkyLight Paths Publishing for several years. Since 2004 he has been the associate publisher at Paraclete Press.

His spiritual and religious life continues to evolve, and much of Jon's writing is about this. His first 20 years were spent as an involved evangelical (a story he told in the memoir Born Again and Again); he then spent 22 years as an active Episcopalian (see The Lure of Saints and Cloister Talks, among other books); and in the fall of 2009 he was received into the Catholic Church. Today, he is a practicing Catholic (of a more monastic variety), but his most regular spiritual practice is Jewish, as he prays regularly with his wife, a rabbi, and they keep a Jewish home.

Sweeney often says that he loves the church, the synagogue, and other aspects of organized religion, and wants to see these organisms survive (he loves religion; he's not just spiritual), but he also is not interested in doing things to simply prop up falling institutions. In all of his writing, Jon is drawn to the ancient and medieval (see Strange Heaven, Beauty Awakening Belief, The Road to Assisi, and the forthcoming The Pope Who Quit).

Sweeney has a special passion for Saints Francis and Clare of Assisi. He has written several books on Francis and Clare including Light in the Dark Ages: The Friendship of Francis and Clare of Assisi, a History Book Club and BOMC selection, The St. Francis Prayer Book, and The St. Clare Prayer Book. He has also written books on embodied prayer, the Virgin Mary, and other subjects. His most recent are Almost Catholic: An Appreciation of the History, Practice, and Mystery of Ancient Faith, published by Jossey-Bass, and Verily, Verily: The King James Bible--400 Years of Influence and Beauty.


 

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3.0 out of 5 stars Leisurely Memoir of Pondering Life with Monks, November 12, 2009
This review is from: Cloister Talks: Learning from My Friends the Monks (Paperback)
Jon Sweeney captures the poetic and practical nature of the monastic life in his segmented memoir Cloister Talks: Learning from My Friends the Monks. Sweeney invites on a journey of mutual discovery, recording his conversations with monks over several years and how his own spiritual journey was shaped by the monks' advice.

Contrary to most opinions of the monastic life, the monks Sweeney befriends and entrusts as his spiritual advisers are practical, fun-loving, and astonishingly normal people. Monks do not view themselves as spiritually superior even if we sometimes do. Instead, monks view themselves as completing the vocation God has called them to.

God's calling is the most integral part of the monastic life. As one monk relates, only God's grace would ever enable a person to live the monastic life. It is not the "normal" life. Neither is it better than the normal life. Instead, it is viewed as a unique vocation God calls a select few into. God calls others into a variety of vocations as well.

The discovery of vocation and the experience of God's true calling in each person's life is what the monks' advice boils down to: walk the path God is showing you, be humble, be silent, enjoy life, and delight in God. This is what monks do, and this is what those beyond the bounds of the monastery should do as well.

The monastic life is not all spiritual ecstasy and enlightenment. There is a great deal of insecurity, frustration, and darkness as well. The monks are just like us. They have doubts and depression. They hurt and become sick. They travel and love. But their love is attuned fully to God and their brothers in a way that is far different than those beyond the monastery that have families and live in church communities. This difference is what makes the monastic life so special and so different. It is utter simplicity in our hectic world.

Even so, the monks never call for us to flee for the hills and live the hermit's life. Instead, we must find our own simplicity and devotion, walking our own pilgrimage before God in a way that finds wonder in silence, love, life, and play.

This book might disappoint those who are seeking monastic advise as a wondrous salve that will cure all their secular and worldly frustrations. The monks have advice for your frustrations, but they have their own in the monastery as well. The monastery is not a safe spiritual place. It is a place where people are stretched in their service before God, and this can lead to trying places.

I recommend this book instead to those that want to take a leisurely stroll through the teachings of monks filtered through the lens of one man's spiritual journey. There is really no beginning and not much ending, just a snapshot of a person on the Way being helped by the counsel of dear friends and spiritual advisors.
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Not sure exactly what I expected from this book but I didn't find it. I neither finished it or kept. It went to our local thrift store in the hopes that someone else will be enlightened by it.
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Father Luke, Father Ambrose, Thomas Merton, Skin Horse, Dom Basil, Father Bernard, Joseph's Abbey, Middle Ages, Basil Pennington, Father Basil, Brother Samuel, John of the Cross, The Seven Storey Mountain, Second Vatican Council, Dictionary of the Cistercian Sign Language, Abbey of Gethsemani, Graham Greene, Thomas Keating, Shrove Tuesday, Brother Leonard
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