At the beginning of "Cocktails with Molotov," Barry Farber tells us how he couldn't find employment early in his career because he had a two-year gap in his resume when he didn't hold a regular job---a red flag for head hunters and companies that don't look kindly at breaches with the norm. It turns out that during that gap, Barry was part of the first wave of freelance writers going into the Soviet Union in 1956, and he covered and aided the effort to get Hungarian refugees fleeing the Soviet invasion to safety and freedom. This tale highlights the break-the-mold, do-the-unexpected, find-excitement-and-thrills approach to work and life that characterizes the author.
Just as Barry's life is unique and fascinating, so is his memoir of it. "Cocktails with Molotov" contains a series of vignettes that have the color and drama of "Casablanca"; the surprise and plot twists of James Bond; and the lightheartedness and sparkle of O. Henry. Yet these exploits didn't occur in the imagination of a fiction writer, but in the true adventures of a real-life explorer, an Indiana Jones not of imaginary ancient mysteries but of actual modern-day adventures that fill the treasure trove of one's life with memories.
Barry tells us about himself through tales highlighting key moments---big and small---that made an impact on him and will on his readers, as well. He relates how a college sports event found him cheering for the opposite side---showing us how honor and sportsmanship supersede team loyalty. He takes us to his childhood in the segregationist South and to a water fountain marked "colored," which he expected to spurt multi-colored water---showing us how a child's innocence bears no prejudice. He describes the best day he spent in the army, watching disciplined soldiers turn into cantankerous rebels when they thought a new rule threatened their religious practices---showing us how Americans feel about their rights, and how he feels about America and freedom. In his last vignette, called "Sara," he explains how, through an email sent to various people, he recognized the name of a woman he had known casually and was drawn to over thirty years ago, and how they then got reacquainted and married in what he calls "Cupid's long nap"---showing us how life can be forever romantic and we can stay forever young.
The list goes on, with each vignette like a mouth-watering recipe that Barry prepares for us, whetting our appetite with an intriguing title and a tasty first sentence; then before we know it, we're sitting at the table, surprised by the unusual brew, savoring the flavors, cleaning our plates, and feeling well fed and happy by the end.
Not only can you enjoy this book as scenes from Barry's life---which will entertain you for hours that seem like minutes---but you can also read it to soak in Barry's approach to life. The actual events in the book belong to Barry, but the approach to life is his gift to everyone. Sprinkled like a special seasoning throughout his stories is the message that life is exciting, so dare to make your own rules, take your own chances, create your own drama and intrigue, and enjoy your life to the hilt.
As a tonic against the cynicism or discouragement we can easily feel in today's world, sit down and be entertained by a master storyteller. Sit down to "Cocktails with Molotov" and feel the intoxication of a man high on life. You may see your own future differently. Salut!
Reviewed by Gen LaGreca, author of the novel "Noble Vision."
Noble Vision: A Novel