With the help of her father, a young girl reconnects to her past in this heartwarming story of international adoption.
| ||||||||||||||||||
Product Details
Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?
|
|
Share your thoughts with other customers:
|
||||||||||||||||||||||
|
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
A very negative adoption book,
This review is from: The Coffee Can Kid (Paperback)
A friend gave us this book as a gift because our daughter was adopted. How she could have read it and then given it to us, I have no idea. The book reduces the main character's identity to the metaphor of a coffee can. In the book, the child finds a coffee can which, it turns out, holds the keys to her birth mother and birth situation, and a letter from the birth mother. The child's father tells her that the social worker told him to keep this information in a coffee can. There is no explanation why (so it will last a long time? moisture-free? who knows?!), but the symbolism here is really unfortunate. Also, because the child pictured in the book is Asian, the book helps to promote the common misbelief that most birth mothers (in China, for example) leave a letter with their baby when the baby is relinquished or placed for adoption. In the majority of overseas adoptions, no letter is left behind. I feel I'm not being particularly eloquent here, but I think it is because the book made me so mad I could spit! This book raises many more questions than it answers, and it raises them in very negative ways. Why does the child just find the can in the house (in a closet, I think)? Why wasn't this information made known to her in a more positive way? I could go on and on, but I won't. I'm adopted, too, and find this book insulting and potentially harmful -- not just to adoptees and their families, but to people who read this and think that this is a positive adoption book. I wouldn't want to be known as a coffee can kid, and I know my daughter wouldn't either. There are many other ways in which the author could have dealt with a child finding out about her own birth information. It's an important issue, but this book doesn't deal with it well at all.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
My daughter wants to read this book almost every night!,
By
This review is from: The Coffee Can Kid (Paperback)
My three year old, adopted from China, enjoys this book and wants to read it as her bedtime story quite often. There are several reasons why I especially enjoy this book: it shows the closeness of the father-daughter relationship and it gives some background information about rural poverty, explaining why the Korean birthmother made the difficult choice to give up her daughter. Off-hand, I cannot think of another picture book for small children that conveys this difficult kind of info. in a way that a small child might understand it. I think that it's important to have a variety of adoption narratives available for your children to help them understand the wide range of adoption experiences. (So far, the only adoption narrative that I haven't found acceptable is the film version of _Stuart Little_, but that's another story.)
My older daughter likes another book by Ms. Czech called _An American Face_. She took it to kindergarden for MLK Day this year to share with the other students. I would recommend both books to adoptive parents as ways to talk about racial difference and the reasons why their birth parents might have relinquished them.
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Wonderful Teachable Moment,
By D. Bee "Love to Teach ELA" (Wheatfield, NY USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Coffee Can Kid (Paperback)
I first came across this book while looking for a great springboard to teaching the importance of "time capsules" in my classroom. A colleague recommened it. The Coffee Can Kid is a great coupled reading for the English Language Arts classroom as it shows how important memories can be for explaining both the past and the future. I would highly recommend using this book as a classroom resource in teaching students about the importance of things like adoption, heritage, and personal history.
My students also each make their own coffee can in September and get to open it at the end of their middle school career. They are always astounded at what they learn about themselves and how this compares with what The Coffee Can Kid learned.
Share your thoughts with other customers: Create your own review
|
|
Tags Customers Associate with This Product(What's this?)Click on a tag to find related items, discussions, and people.
|
|
This product's forum
Active discussions in related forums
Search Customer Discussions
|
Related forums
|