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A Common Pornography: A Memoir (P.S.) [Paperback]

Kevin Sampsell
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January 19, 2010 P.S.

In 2003 Kevin Sampsell authored a chapbook memoir of the same title. It was written as a kind of "memory experiment," in which he recollected luminous details from his childhood in independently amusing chapters. It functioned as an experiential catalogue of American youth in the 70s and 80s.

In 2008 Kevin′s estranged father died of an aneurysm. When he returned home to Kennewick, Washington for the funeral, Kevin′s mother revealed to him disturbing threads in their family history -- stories of incest, madness, betrayal, and death -- which retroactively colored Kevin′s memories of his upbringing and youth. He learned of his mother′s first two husbands, the fathers of his three older, mythologized half-siblings, and the havoc they wreaked on his mother. He learned of his own father′s seething resentment of his step-children, which was expressed in physical, pyschological, and sexual abuse. And he learned more about his oldest step-sister, Elinda, who, as a young girl, was labeled "feebleminded" by a teacher. When she became a teenager, she was sent to a psychiatric hospital. She entered the clinic at 98 pounds. She left two years later 200 pounds, diabetic, having endured numerous shock treatments. Then, after finally returning home, she was made pregnant by Kevin′s father. Only at the end of the book do we learn what chance in life a person like this has.

While his family′s story provides the framework of the book, what′s left in between is Kevin′s story of growing up in the Pacific Northwest. He tells of his first jobs, first bands, first loves, and one worn, teal blue suitcase filled with the choicest porn in all of Kennewick, Washington.

Employing the same form of memoir as he did in his previous book, Kevin intertwines the tragic with the everyday, the dysfunctional with the fun, lending A COMMON PORNOGRAPHY its undeniable, unsensationalized reality. The elastic conceit of his "memory experiment" captures the many shades and the whole of the Sampsell family -- both its tragedy and its resiliency. Kevin relates this history in a charming, honest, insightful, and funny voice.


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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

A memoir in collage form, this frank but fragmented narrative chronicles the author's early life in the Pacific Northwest. Told in a series of small pieces, some less than a quarter of a page long, Sampsell follows a stream-of-consciousness series of memories centering loosely around a collection of family secrets unearthed after his father's funeral. Replicating the effects of memory, Sampsell's chronicle begins piecemeal and becomes more detailed as it goes, emphasizing the unfiltered honesty of the story and his efforts to tell it. Though it can be frustrating waiting for the pieces to add up, there's enough bathos, dysfunctional family antics and coming-of-age adventures-naked photoshoots, psychiatric hospitalizations, late-night donut shops and the tri-city New Wave scene-to keep readers turning pages. Sampsell's eye for detail and deadpan delivery envliven a dark personal history with bathos and a powerful desire for understanding.
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From Booklist

Many coming-of-age memoirs depict a journey through hellish abuse. Sampsell’s verbal snapshots capture the more peripheral scene of a kid along for the ride, under the watchful eye of a distant, resentful father—“a humorless, God-fearing bore.” For many who grew up in the 1970s and ’80s, the details of this American life will be familiar: the music, the sports teams, the Jaws-inspired aquaphobia, the release of the hostages from Iran, the mannerist rebellion of New Wave. Other aspects will resonate with males, from the naive cruelty of boys to elaborate strategies built around the acquisition and secretion of dirty magazines, to a candid account of obsession with girls and/or sex that recalls Jeffrey Brown’s tell-all graphic novels. McSweeney’s readers may recall some of these pieces reworked and fleshed out from an earlier chapbook, and while some newer passages (such as those about the abuse and institutionalization of Sampsell’s half-sister) feel arbitrarily chopped into vignettes, mostly the material perfectly fits the form, shards of memory fused into a compelling concretion of moments. A worthy addition to the work of such contemporary memoirists as Nick Flynn, Augusten Burroughs, Dave Eggers, and Stephen Elliott. --David Wright

Product Details

  • Paperback: 218 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Perennial; 1 edition (January 19, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061766100
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061766107
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,281,032 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Kevin Sampsell is the author of the memoir, A Common Pornography (2010 Harper Perennial), and the short story collections, Creamy Bullets (Chiasmus) and Beautiful Blemish (Word Riot) and the editor of the anthology, Portland Noir (Akashic). Sampsell is the publisher of the micropress, Future Tense Books, which he started in 1990. He has worked at Powell's Books as an events coordinator and the head of the small press section since 1998. His essays have appeared in Salon, The Faster Times, Jewcy, and The Good Men Project. His fiction has been published in McSweeney's, Nerve, Hobart, and in several anthologies. His novel, This is Between Us, will publish with Tin House Books in November. He lives in Portland, Oregon with his wife and son.

Customer Reviews

This has to be one of the oddest (and most interesting) memoirs I've ever read. D. S. Atkinson  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
A well-done work. paola torrez  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Sweet and sour June 23, 2002
Format:Paperback
Each page features a short little episode from the author's childhood. Some very funny stuff happens. Space shuttles, pop star dreams, dirty magazine hiding, first girlfriends with dirty teeth. It's all very poignant and resonant. A well-done work.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
Despite the bad publicity of a few memoirs by people who were later determined to be less than truthful, the genre is still flourishing. I recently reviewed The Kids Are All Right, the story of the four Welch siblings, who were left orphaned after their father's death in a car accident and their mother's death by cancer a short time later.

The four siblings took turns writing about their memories in short, one and two page sections. It has been said that each child in a family grows up with different parents, and their story illustrates that point.

Kevin Sampsell's memoir "A Common Pornography" is written in a similar style. His one-and-two page mini-essays read like diary entries. Reading them is like sitting with Sampsell while he is looking at a family photo album, each page a picture triggering a memory. The pictures add up to a life lived in a family that is deeply troubled.

Sampsell has two older half-brothers who were pretty much out of the house by the time he could remember. His half-sister spent ten years in a psychiatric hospital, and while there gave birth to a child who was taken from her. She later married an abusive man who pimped her out for sex to other men. She again got pregnant and again gave up her baby. She was impregnated once more, this time by her stepfather, Kevin's father.

Two other brothers lived with Kevin, one of whom was black. Matt was the product of an affair that Kevin's mother had with an African man when she and Kevin's father had been estranged. Kevin describes a beautiful story Matt told him about going to Africa and meeting his father's relatives. He had several mannerisms of his father, and they were mesmerized by this young man who looked and acted so much like their deceased relative.

Out of this sad, violent, strange family, Kevin managed to grow up. His stories of loneliness, isolation and attempts to connect with girls are heartbreaking, and yet familiar to many. His description of working at a donut shop and the friends he made there had me flashing back to my first job working at a movie theater.

His stories about his his father's funeral and the feelings it triggers in him and his siblings almost hurt to read. His brother Mark, the one who stayed behind to care for his ill father, seems almost totally unable to function as an adult. Following the funeral, Kevin's mother attempts to share all of the secrets that she had been keeping, answers to questions the children were never allowed to ask.

A Common Pornography is heartbreakingly sad, speared with humor, yet above all it is honest. Sampsell speaks truth to the difficulty of finding oneself in this lonely world, made all the more frightening by the horrible dysfunction he grew up in. It is not for everyone, there is rough language and tough situations, and it is not written like a conventional memoir, but many will find it comforting to know that there are people out there who share their struggles.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A little big book December 5, 2002
Format:Paperback
This is the first time I've read Sampsell's work beyond the McSweeney's website, and I found it enormously touching, provocative, sentimental (in a good, just heard Shake It Up on the radio sort of way), and inspiring. I've never enjoyed the memoir genre until I read this book. Pick it up. I guarantee it will haunt you.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars one of the oddest (and most interesting) memoirs I've ever read
This has to be one of the oddest (and most interesting) memoirs I've ever read. Most memoirs I've seen seem to take some organizing viewpoint and filter everything through that,... Read more
Published 13 months ago by D. S. Atkinson
4.0 out of 5 stars Memoir in vignettes
A Common Pornography is a memoir, but one that breaks the mold of what a memoir should be. Told in a series of vignettes, at the heart of the story is Sampsell's relationship with... Read more
Published on February 16, 2011 by L. Fannon
5.0 out of 5 stars one of my favorite books of the year
I try to review only books on Amazon which have no previous reviews, but I am breaking that rule with "A Common Pornography," because it was one of my favorite books of the... Read more
Published on December 29, 2010 by C. O. Aptowicz
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic Book
Great book which offers an intimate look into Kevin's life and relationships. Despite the the huge differences in lives that we have lived, there were always those truly "human"... Read more
Published on June 22, 2010 by Eric D. Palmer
3.0 out of 5 stars A memoir of sorts
Growing up, Kevin always thought his family was normal, but when he returned home for his father's funeral, he realized that maybe they weren't. Read more
Published on March 26, 2010 by BermudaOnion
2.0 out of 5 stars Interesting possibilities, total let down
The family dynamic and somewhat plain style piqued my curiosity originally, but that quickly passed. Read more
Published on March 24, 2010 by Christopher R. Chadwick
3.0 out of 5 stars Sad tales from childhood lack quite a bit
When I was in college, I took a memoir writing class and received a piece of advice from my professor I completely agree with and keep in mind when I read memoir. Read more
Published on March 5, 2010 by L. Pieroni
5.0 out of 5 stars Honest memoir
A common pornography reads like a dairy. It's a collection of short essays about his life. I was moved by his honesty. Great read.
Published on February 28, 2010 by Lisa Greve
5.0 out of 5 stars Uncommon Writing
For those who like full disclosure, Kevin Sampsell published a comic book story I wrote in PORTLAND NOIR, and he also set me up with my readings at Powell's Books over the years. Read more
Published on February 12, 2010 by Jamie S. Rich
4.0 out of 5 stars What would jesus do?
Kevin talks about his childhood and the shock value involved. I think he is an interesting writer, and really doesn't have to rely on dirty stories about his father being a... Read more
Published on December 30, 2003
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