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Communicating with a Former Spouse

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My mom and dad are divorced and I have watched them struggle at communitcation for many years. Although it's not perfect they have learned to do better by reading this book. I decided to read the book and now I have a better understanding on what they went through all thoughs years. I would like to thank you for writing this book because it helped my parents get along better. Now I have no doubt that they love me.

This is honestly the best book I've ever read on the subject, and I've been reading and researching for seven years. The last time things got difficult in my situation, I picked up this book and read it again and was startled by what NEW things I learned the second time around. My situation will never be perfect, but my own level of happiness has greatly increased because of this book. I have since bought two more books to give to others, knowing it will improve their lives regardless of someone else's actions. I thank Mr. Molina very much for his inspiring book.

Thank you for writing this book! Divorce, especially when there are children involved, creates pain and frustration that doesn't go away when the shock is over. The same issues that contributed to the breakup of the marriage continue to surface again and again. Learning to communicate feelings and needs in a positive way that leaves the other person room to be different and still be ok, is the key to healing and taking the difficulties around divorce and turning them into new forms of intimacy especially between parents and their children. Your book has given me real tools that work in creating better communication between my two former spouses and myself.

Now that our daughter is growing up, new challenges are coming up for us that need to be communicated about as well. Hurt feelings and misunderstandings are a natural part of children being separated from either one of their parents. Communication again is the key. Your book has helped me open up the hurt places and share those with my daughter. My regrets, my fears, and my hopes and dreams for her and for our relationship. Today, we enjoy more honesty and real connectedness than we had most of the time we lived in the same home, and the communication skills I have learned and applied from your book have made that possible. The work is never over, the tools need to be used again and again, but with a good roadmap, there is hope. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

This book was so informative! How many of us know people who we don't particularly care for, but have to work with or share some part of our life with? Written in an easy-to-understand format, this book can make a difference to anyone in a botched relationship, who wants to make it better! Mr. Molina teaches how to get along with even the toughest individual and explains how to do it without feeling a need to be emotionally connected. This book would be great for former spouses, former business partners, hard-to-get-along-with bosses, contrary neighbors, etc. etc.! Thank you, Mr. Molina, for your insight and gift to all of us!!

Communicating with a Former Spouse is a simple and non-threatening book to read. It made me laugh and cry. The author shares his personal experiences in a way that gave me new insight to my own former love relationship. He stresses the importance of language and attitude when communicating with a former spouse. He also invites us to explore and find new ways of communicating with our former spouse so that our children will be happier. This book is a real eye-opener. It helps me put my ego in "check" and now I am more willing to operate from my heart. It's a book that I have already dog-eared and I am sure that I will refer to it again and again. Mr. Molina challenges me to be a better parent and former mate so that my children will be more open to find love when they are older. I am grateful that he shares his experience and thoughts for the benefit of all parents who raise children in separate households.

"Communicating with a Former Spouse" is something I would recommend to everyone, divorced or not. The skills I learned were very valuable and helpful in my relationship with my former spouse as well as my children, colleagues, friends and family. This is a must read book for those of you who want more meaningful relationships with anyone from the "human race"!!

After carefully reading this book, I am convinced it has been too long in coming. I salute the author for bringing a peace to an explosive situation. We sometimes never realize who really gets hurt in a divorce. The lessons learned from this book help all the parties heal and grow wonderfully towards their futures. This is a must read book, for those who are going through a divorce , who have gone through a divorce and those thinking about it. Well thought out and researched. A growth book.

"Vincent is offering a wonderful tool to the millions of divorced people who need to continue to communicate and relate with their former spouse...because children or business are still tying them together. He beautifully reminds you how to be respectful and clear without compromising your self respect at the same time. Communicating with a Former Spouse is an absolute MUST READ...and I dare say that the skills offered are not limited to former spouses...it could also be titled Communication to Keep your Spouse Current! Thank you Vincent, for this gift to all of us." Eve Eschner Hogan, Author of Intellectual Foreplay: Making the Right Choice and Being the Right Choice in Relationships