As I positive psychologist, I've dedicated my professional life to helping people communicate and understand, more happiness and better self-esteem all around. Mom and Me helps in this process, as The Truth (I'm a girl, I'm smart and I know everything). The first is more of a workbook and The Truth is a fictional girl's diary with questions in the back. Which style is better for your daughther? Which ever it is, make sure you help her communicate. Win-win for both of you as she grows up.