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Community Is Messy: The Perils and Promise of Small Group Ministry Paperback – September 1, 2012
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"If you'd benefit from isnight to the failed experiments another church/pastor has encountered in developing small groups, though certainly not exclusively, there is plenty of that here. Despite all the mess and failures, there is a beauty to the portrait given here of a group of people who understand and accept the messiness of doing life together and want to learn to grow in and out of it." (Adam Griffin, YouthWorker Journal, January/February 2013)
"Zempel openly shares her experiences―both good and bad―as discipleship pastor at National Community Church in Washington, D.C., and invites small-group leaders to embrace the mess of community life." (Amy Jackson, Christianity Today, September 2012)
"If you could somehow blend equal parts Bonhoeffer, Mr. Wizard and 'Unsinkable' Molly Brown, you'd get something close to Heather Zempel. It would be a fascinating experiment, like those she describes in Community Is Messy. Stories of what worked (and what didn't) provide countless examples of how discipleship in community is usually nonlinear, often random and always messy. With deep insight and ample humor, Heather proves that 'mess' is actually a catalyst for spiritual growth." (Dave Treat, small groups leader, Asbury UMC, Madison, Alabama, and chief innovation officer, thinkingsmall.net)
"Honest, practical and rooted in experience, Heather's direction takes us to those earthy places that we face in day-to-day relational ministry. Her words go beyond platitudes and lead us down paths that point to wholeness in the midst of the reality of messy community. This book offers a fresh angle and creative hope to group leaders and pastors. Embracing this counsel will advance your community forward into deeper expressions and experiences of community. Buy it! Sit with it. Pray through it." (M. Scott Boren, consultant, trainer, and author of Missional Small Groups)
"Community Is Messy offers a fresh perspective on the challenges all leaders face in building biblical community. Zempel draws on multiple disciplines to stretch our thinking on strategy, growth and discipleship. It is immediately in the top five on my must-read list for small group pastors and leaders!" (Greg Bowman, author, Coaching Life-Changing Small Group Leaders)
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Heather followed a circuitous route into full-time ministry. She went to Louisiana State University where she obtained bachelor's and master's degrees in biological engineering. After working as a consulting engineer in Nashville, Tennessee, she moved to Washington, DC where she worked as a policy consultant to a United States Senator.
In January 2002, Heather joined the team of National Community Church (NCC) part-time while still working full-time on Capitol Hill. In 2005, Heather left the Senate to join the NCC team full-time as Discipleship Pastor. In her role, Heather serves on the weekend teaching team and oversees small groups, leadership development, and strategic growth environments. She developed The Story course, in which she covers the entire chronological story of the Bible in six hours, and she also teaches NCC's Theology 101 course. In 2008, Heather launched the Protégé Program, a year-long intensive spiritual growth, leadership development, and ministry immersion experience that prepares next generation leaders for ministry. She has led church history study tours and pilgrimages to Israel and Greece.
Heather has written three books. Sacred Roads explores different methods and expressions of discipleship throughout church history, and Community is Messy dares readers to embrace the mess that leads to growth and transformation. Her newest book, Amazed and Confused, explores how we respond when God's actions collide with our expectations. Heather is a contributor to smallgroups.com and has been a content contributor for various curricula for LifeWay.
Heather has worked with Christine Caine and the A21 Campaign in fighting human trafficking in Greece and has led several teams on action and awareness trips in Thessaloniki, Greece. She also serves on the Lionshare Leadership Board, where she represents the emerging generation in the conversation and strategy of launching one million disciple-making communities.
Heather has been a speaker at the Orange Conference, Blue Conference, Right Now Conference, Willow Creek Community Church, North Point Community Church, and the Catalyst Conference. The topics she comes back to over and over again include discipleship, leading the next generation, building teams and leading in tensions, igniting a love for the Scriptures, church history, theology, and mentoring.
She lives on Capitol Hill where she can be found enjoying theater with her husband Ryan, watching SEC football, and searching out the best barbeque joints, and nerding out on church history. You can read about her ramblings on small group environments, discipling the next generation and SEC football at www.heatherzempel.com.
Top Customer Reviews
In my 40 years as an Associate I "did" Sunday School, Support Groups from Divorce Recovery to Toastmasters, as well as a bunch of other "stuff".
In my opinion Heather has presented a guide to leaders of 21st Century Small Groups...ranging in size from small churches to mega churches.
She doesn't tell you "what to think". She makes suggestions about "how to think" about Small Groups in the church.
This would be an excellent book for seminary classes as well as churches.
You're a mess. I'm a mess.
Everybody's a mess.
A small percentage of people have cleaned up their mess pretty well. Most have cleaned up all the visible mess but have mold growing in the walls. A few folks' mess is on display for all to see.
In other words. People are broken. There are things deep inside that cause stress, breed resentment, elicit fear, that-simply put-hurt.
Now, take two or three or ten messy people and put them together...
You've got a mess on your hands. Mess from wrongdoing, mess from personality differences, mess from past hurts...
But you've also got opportunity for growth, healing, deep friendship, and real love.
That's what Heather Zempel-Discipleship Pastor at National Community Church-writes about in Community is Messy. If you're going to develop real relationships, let people into your life to know you and dive into their lives and know them, it's not going to be a clean enterprise.
Heather dives head first into the mess, drawing on 10+ years of experience on staff at NCC, a masters in biological engineering, and many attempts at intentionally creating community among small groups of people. I cannot recommend her book to you highly enough.
Now for a caveat and a counter to it. Heather is my boss on NCC's Discipleship Team, so I'm sure my recommendation is biased. But the fact that I work for Heather also means that I know she's the real deal. She has opened her life-allowing others into her mess-and has willingly dove into the mess of the lives of others... including myself.
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Practical tips on community and it shows how each group is different but should have one great mission. The writer(s) were very transparent which helps to navigate groups.Published 6 months ago by patnpc
It's refreshing to acknowledge the truth about small groups and community..it is messy. Change is not a bad word in the Zempel camp and that alone is worth the cost of the bookPublished 23 months ago by Amazon Customer