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Q. Were you always aware that you were different?
A. Yes, though when I was young, I thought maybe it was just because I was smarter than everyone else. I saw things that other children did not see, was aware of the adult world in a way that even my smart siblings were not—awkward interactions from the end of an affair, why my grandpa treated my dad differently from his other children (he was adopted), and so on. I knew other people did not see these things because I would reference them and get blank stares in return. I learned to keep things to myself, even to pretend I didn’t see them. Those were probably some of my first attempts to wear a mask of normalcy.
Q. What are the common characteristics/behaviors shared by most sociopaths? Do they describe you, too?
A. Lack of remorse or concern for hurting or stealing; being deceitful, manipulative, impulsive, irritable, aggressive, and consistently irresponsible; failure to conform to social norms; and being unconcerned about people’s safety, including their own. You need to have at least three of these to be a sociopath. I have them all, to varying degrees.
Q. You believe that sociopaths have a natural competitive advantage. Why?
A. Sociopaths have several skills that lend themselves to success in areas such as politics and business: charm, an ability to see and exploit weaknesses/flaws (which in politics is called “power-broking” and in business, “arbitrage”), confidence, unflagging optimism, an ability to think outside the box and come up with original ideas, and a lack of squeamishness about doing what it takes to get ahead.
Q. If you don’t have a sense of morality, or feel the emotions that most people do, how are you able to operate in the world without being detected?
A. I think everyone learns to lie about his or her emotions to a certain extent; I just take it a step farther. People ask, “How are you?” and you respond, “fine,” even though you had a fight with your spouse that morning, have a sick child, or any multitude of things that make it hard for you to feel fine about almost anything in your life. You could honestly answer the question, but you don’t because overt displays of strong emotion in ordinary social interactions are not accepted. Most of the time I don’t need to show any emotion at all, and I try to limit the times that I do by begging off attending funerals, weddings, etc. When I do show up to these functions, I try to mimic the other attendees. If I’m dealing with a person one-on-one, I just try to reflect their emotions; usually they’re distracted enough by their own overflowing emotions not to notice my lack of them.
Q. Research shows that one in twenty-five people is a sociopath, yet most of us believe we’ve never met one. Are we just kidding ourselves? Are you able to spot them?
A. Statistically, everyone has met at least one sociopath; in fact, most people will have a close encounter with a sociopath at some point in their lives, either as a friend, family member, or lover. Sometimes I can tell who they are. I find that many successful sociopaths will leave deliberate clues as to what they are, the thought being that only other sociopaths would recognize them. I think sociopaths, like serial killers, often have a yearning to be acknowledged for who they are. They want people to admire their exploits, and that is hard to get when they are completely hidden, so they make small compromises.
If you are interested in learning what makes a sociopath's mind tick, this is a great book to read.
If she isn't, it would explain why the whole book just feels like the author trying just a little too hard to be convincing.
As much as we all would like to think we `would know', few see the sociopath for what they really are until it is too late.
Before reading this book, I knew little to nothing about sociopathy. The little things I thought I knew, turned out to be wrong. M. E. Read morePublished 3 days ago by Andrea Bermudez
She's not a sociopath. She is a compulsive liar with a desperate need for attention. But really -- does she think she is scaring us when she describes how she wants to attack... Read morePublished 5 days ago by Iamwelshyouknow
I don't actually believe this book was written by a sociopath at all. She describes the act of "ruining people" and what it comes down to is some mild annoyances. Read morePublished 8 days ago by Mehdi K. Ashtari
Short Review of Confessions of a Sociopath by M.E. Thomas: Read It. It’s a fascinating and cogently written look inside the machinations of a certified non-violent sociopath. Read morePublished 11 days ago by Ashley Garrett
This is unlike anything I've ever read before. Definitely an interesting read for you will learn a lot with this book.Published 19 days ago by Ms. C
Entertaining to read.....but felt the author was really writing this for narcissistic, self aggrandizing purposes. Read morePublished 22 days ago by jon w petersen
this woman is nauseating pathetic and immature. check out her dr. phil interview at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8t7fnvjKbo0. even dr. Read morePublished 1 month ago by jessica zim
I appreciate author's courage. All people are on a spectrum on every human ability, and social grace and empathy are not exceptions. Read morePublished 1 month ago by IRINA Y YAKOVENKO