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Conscious Living: Finding Joy in the Real World [Paperback]

PhD Hendricks Gay
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Book Description

April 21, 2009

In his bestselling book Conscious Living, pioneering therapist Gay Hendricks taught couples how to find balance and happiness in relationships.Now he gives us Conscious Living, a practical guide for the individual that brings new insights into a fundamental truth of daily truth of daily life. Five simple lessons of "conscious living", rooted in the ancient traditions of Stoicism and Taoism, help us overcome obstacles and fears and awaken our own creativity.

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“Gay Hendricks is a master of intimate relationships.” (John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus)

About the Author

Gay Hendricks is the author and coauthor of more than twenty books that deal with personal growth, including the New York Times bestseller Five Wishes and Conscious Living.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 278 pages
  • Publisher: Harper; 1 Reprint edition (April 21, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0062514873
  • ISBN-13: 978-0062514875
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (19 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #109,501 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Gay Hendricks has served for more than thirty years as one of the major contributors to the fields of relationship transformation and body-mind therapies. Throughout his career, Dr. Hendricks has coached more than eight hundred executives, including the top management at firms such as Dell, Hewlett-Packard, Motorola, and KLM. Along with his wife, Dr. Kathlyn Hendricks, he has coauthored many books including Conscious Loving, The Corporate Mystic, and his latest, the New York Times bestseller Five Wishes, which has been translated into seventeen languages. Dr. Hendricks received his Ph.D. in counseling psychology from Stanford University. After a twenty-one-year career as a professor at the University of Colorado, he founded the Hendricks Institute, which offers seminars in North America, Asia, and Europe. He is also a founder of The Spiritual Cinema Circle. In recent years his passion has been writing a new series of mystery novels featuring the Tibetan Buddhist private detective, Tenzing Norbu. Ten's first adventure was The First Rule Of Ten, followed by The Second Rule Of Ten and more to come.

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56 of 56 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Conscious Applause September 26, 2005
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Life is an ongoing, neverending process of self-improvement and enlightenment. While we can be given the best advice and offered the most valuable lessons over and over again, it takes a readiness in ourselves, an open heart and mind and a willing spirit, to be receptive to those lessons. And, to be truly effective, we need be not only ready... but conscious of the lesson learned and applied.

A good friend who has earned my respect with her ability to maneuver through her life with serenity and acceptance, even while learning the toughest lessons, recently recommended Hendricks' books to me. I value her advice, and so I approached the Hendricks' bookshelf with high expectations. I found many books on the shelf, written by both Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks, and with this volume as my introduction, I expect to be reading several more.

Hendricks has probably not told me anything in this book I don't already know. We must love ourselves before we can truly love another. Anger denied does not go away. Moving through life and its choices by default rather than thoughtful and considered decision is guaranteed to end in disaster. Choosing love partners by chemistry alone can only mean heartbreak. We get what we expect. Negativity in attitude and expectations magnetically draws to us more negativity. If your life is not what you want it to be, guess what, it's you who is at the wheel. Yes, I knew all of this.

I knew it, but I have too often failed to apply these sound, common sense lessons to my own life. I suppose there is something in all of us that feels the irresistible impulse to put our hand in the fire even when we have been told, over and over again, it will burn. Unfortunately, nothing is so effective a teacher as pain.
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69 of 74 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A New Level of Clarity April 11, 2000
Over the last few years, I have read an assortment of relationship books with loads of great strategies that combat a wide array of issues. When I encountered the book "Conscious Loving" by Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks, I was amazed by how different the book was. Gay and Kathlyn were communicating at a more fundamental level that bridged the gap between examples and strategies.
When "Conscious Living" came out, I eagerly pounced on it to see how much more I could piece together. On my first pass through the book, I was deeply moved by the quantity and depth of "aha, that's why" connections I was making with my life and my prior readings. This book did not disappoint me since it was working at the fundamental building block level that I first encountered with "Conscious Loving". After reading the book for the third time, I'm still in awe at how much clarity Gay brings to the journey of life. If I had to sum it up, I would have to say that I was left smiling at the profound beauty of life. I was also pleasantly surprised and deeply moved by the spiritual connections I made through reading the book.
The book follows a natural progression where Gay takes you from a great personal and historic introduction through the five required lessons followed by the inner shifts and outer moves that create a conscious life. The second half of the book deals with conscious solutions to some of the most crucial areas of real world life. I found the book to be chock-full of interesting examples and inspiring snippets of wisdom. One of my favorite snippets was "We argue for our limitations, and, sure enough, we get to keep them."
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31 of 36 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An Aha! Experience March 31, 2000
I have read several of Gay Hendricks books and each is a masterpiece. He surprises me every time by having so much to offer. Reading 'Conscious Living' is an enlightening experience. What touched me deeply is its simple profundity.
Its evident that Gay writes from a depth of authentic experience. He blends the sublime with the practical, the mystical with the earthy, the miraculous with the ordinary. I am confident that this book will become a landmark in the human evolution to embrace its own divinity in ways that are magical.
As I read it, I was in an inspired space to act out of integrity in ways that create enduring change towards greater inner joy & success in the outer world.
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20 of 23 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The Wonder Of It All February 27, 2003
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In his book "Conscious Living" Gay Hendricks masterfully takes the reader to a profound realization of the most basic lessons in living. With so many self help books available it is sometimes difficult to know where to focus one's attention and how to proceed along the path of self transformation. Gay Hendricks has an uncanny ability to light the way and often in a humorous and inspiring manner. His insights and practical applications do not leave the reader stranded in an intellectual quagmire with nothing solid to stand on. Instead, he offers solid information that will take, those of us inspired to do so, deep into the realities of our own existence. Gay repeatedly offers opportunities for the reader to commit to an empowered and exciting life where relationships can flourish, creativity abounds and self exploration becomes an adventure spawned by curiosity encased in wonder and vitality.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book is worth every penny and then some December 7, 2008
This is a life-changing book. It's a book that helped me assess my life and determine what I want for myself. On top of that I would be willing to say that it helped me to know how to attain what I want. Not in a "how-to" kind of way; more in a creative visualization kind of way. This is a book that I will keep forever, and one that I see myself referencing from time to time throughout my life.
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5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT BOOK VERY GOOD
Enjoyed the enlightenment very much.
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Published 2 months ago by LjFenn
5.0 out of 5 stars Changed my life
The simple notion that I am responsible for my happiness has brought much joy into my life.
The notion that I get what I'm committed to, has removed much unhappiness from my... Read more
Published 6 months ago by J. R. Catoe
4.0 out of 5 stars Good Read. Really.
I really enjoyed this book personally. It is really useful in the sense that it makes you more aware of how you think about yourself. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
I started by listening to his "Big Leap" Audible Book and fell in love with his style and authenticity. I highly recommend this book to everybody. Read more
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I recently endeavored upon a project that took me wwwaaaayyyy OUTSIDE my comfort zone. I knew there was a way through it. Read more
Published 15 months ago by Kathe S. Perez
5.0 out of 5 stars Real!
After having read Conscious Loving, Conscious Living is a welcome continuation of the way to be more present in the world. Read more
Published 20 months ago by IndianaJack
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, Effective, All-Encompasing....THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING
I have read a zillion books on the subjects covered in this book. Somehow, I especially loved this one! It is clear, concise, all-encompassing, POWERFUL. Read more
Published 21 months ago by Carol Romero
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books
I highly consider purchasing this book. Great content and truly one of the best books I've ever read. Read more
Published 21 months ago by Tara
5.0 out of 5 stars terrific review
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Published on January 3, 2012 by RetroRules1963
3.0 out of 5 stars A little too conscious perhaps
Gay Hendricks writes a wonderful book about overcoming the incidental stains of life to transform into something greater, and in doing so he learns to love himself and to become... Read more
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