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Considering Swinging

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We've been swinging for about two years and have read pretty much every popular book on the subject We considered writing a book ourselves to introduce newcomers to the lifestyle. But, after reading Considering Swinging, we decided that as a concise and informative introduction to the lifestyle, it just can't be improved upon. It is short, really a booklet, and can be read easily in a couple of hours. Hence, it doesn't go nearly as deep in exploring the culture as Terry Gould's Lifestyle, which is also very well written. But for those simply wanting a peek into the culture for a minimal investment, we think it's perfect.

The writing is thoughtful, honest and informative without being preachy. They obviously write from the heart. They touch on about every issue that can come up for those approaching the lifestyle, from jealosy to communication to many of the emotional issues that are so deeply interwined with human sexuality.

Don't let the cheap price scare you away. It will be obvious upon reading that the book was created by the authors as an offering to serve others in their own sexual exploration, rather than simply as a way to exploit the growing interest in swinging, which does seem to be the case with some of the other materials available on the subject. If you are considering swinging, this probably won't be the last publication you buy on the subject, but as the first, you really can't do better.

...This book covers all of the basics, is well-written, well-organized, and makes swinging seem like a lot of fun and something that could really help a marriage. It is also very frank when it needs to be.

I bought two books at the same time, this...jewell, and [another]book of the same length called "The Ultimate Swingers Guide." If you are looking for a short book which is easy and fun to read and will let you know if your friend or spouse is interested, buy this book. Some times you do not get what you pay for. The Ultimate Swingers Guide is a...poorly-written and organized, especially compared to "Considering Swinging."

"Considering Swinging" is an easy read for both beginner and pro alike. Whether you are new to the topic or been involved in the 'lifestyle' for some time, this booklet is a tremendous wealth of knowledge. As my boyfriend and I are new to the 'lifestyle' we both needed to be more informed about the "Do's and Don'ts" and how to handle ourselves. He and I are both very pleased with the information offered and enjoy that the authors enthusiasm on the subject is informative, fun and mature.

This book is more like an essay on swinging. Considering that it only [was fairly inexpensive] and only has 56 pages, I didn't expect much. However, it was even lower than my expectations. I felt it lacked content and the authors provided little factual information to support the lifestyle they were trying to promote. The ten reasons they give to consider swinging is pathetic. The real stories they provide are oddly placed throughout the book and hardly worth reading. Even as an introductory book on swinging I would barely consider it acceptable. I think this book was intended to be a precursor for the other book they wrote. Honestly I would recomend someone skipping this one for another book with more content.

While there are several good books about swinging (the best being Terry Gould's The Lifestyle) and for swingers (the best being Together Sex and Receational Sex), I don't think that any others are anywhere near as good for giving to another couple to introduce them to swinging. Considering Swinging is small and cheap but looks nice so the new people you give it to won't be ashamed to read it on the subway. And it works!

We are a bit curious about that lifestyle, so we have been looking at various sources of information. This short booklet really got us into the idea, especially my wife! We're not committed yet, but it gave us some degree of comfort that we were not alone, and not wrong for being curious.

If you are looking for a really quick guide to swinging, this is it. It is a quick read - I blew threw it in about 10 minutes - It gets right to the point and will give you the perfect things to discuss with your partner if you are trying to get him or her interested in the idea of swinging. The short stories that describe swinging situations could have been hotter, much much hotter, but I can tell that they we're doing their best to stay honest and not get too graphic with the details.

One of the things that was grossly missing from this book was the discussion of fantasy fulfillment what was far too briefly discussed on less than one page.

Of course it is only $5 and if you want something more in depth, pick up a copy of Ed and Dana's other book "Together Sex" of which this appears to be a Cliff Notes version of.

This VERY BRIEF booklet doesn't offer anything new or particularly insiteful. In my opinion, there are three pubs worth reading/seeing if you are thinking about the lifestyle: Recreational Sex by Patti Thomas, The Lifestyle by Terry Gould, and Dr. RObyn's video, Swing Lessons. Leave this turkey in the freezer.