Conspiracy of Kindness: A Refreshing New Approach to Sharing the Love of Jesus with Others [Paperback]

Steve Sjogren (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: February 2003

Ten years ago, Steve Sjogren published this groundbreaking book that has helped thousands of Christians win others to Jesus and the Church by performing simple, unexpected services. Conspiracy of Kindness enables every Christian to become an effective evangelist by demonstrating with teaching, example and testimony how unassuming acts of kindness convince people of the love of God more persuasively than words. This tenth-anniversary edition contains the author's epilogue, in which he describes the impact kindness evangelism has had on Christianity throughout the world.

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Ten years ago, Steve Sjogren published this groundbreaking book that has helped thousands of Christians win others to Jesus and the Church by performing simple, unexpected services. Conspiracy of Kindness enables every Christian to become an effective evangelist by demonstrating with teaching, example, and testimony how unassuming acts of kindness convince people of the love of God more persuasively than words. This tenth-anniversary edition contains the author’s epilogue, in which he describes the impact kindness evangelism has had on Christianity throughout the world. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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God is seeking to enter the heart of every person on this planet. Yet, for those who are not gifted evangelists, the task of communicating the Gospel can seem daunting. What if there was another way? There is, and it’s called the conspiracy of kindness. Operating on a simple premise, this exciting form of servant evangelism enables every follower of Christ, from brand-new to mature believer, to become an effective evangelist through unassuming acts of kindness.  In this book, Steve Sjogren offers a proven vision, simple strategy and real-life stories that show the amazing impact servant evangelism has had throughout the world. Here’s how to communicate the love of God more persuasively through actions than with words. Learn how churches, groups and individuals have used washing windows, cleaning toilets, handing out sodas and more to impact their communities with the life-changing love of Christ. Although a simple premise, the conspiracy of kindness principle affects both those serving and those being served.  Are you ready to roll up your sleeves?

--This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 245 pages
• Publisher: Vine Books; 10 Anv edition (February 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0830734074
• ISBN-13: 978-0830734078
• Product Dimensions: 7.7 x 5.2 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (26 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,086,052 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Steve Sjogren is the best-selling author of numerous books on creative generosity, outwardness, leadership and discovering your life focus. He is a prolific writer who coaches and writes ebooks as well as hard copy versions.

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40 of 47 people found the following review helpful:

3.0 out of 5 stars Must be thoughtfully tempered and implemented, November 28, 2002

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Daniel L Edelen (Mt. Orab, OH USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Conspiracy of Kindness: A Refreshing New Approach to Sharing the Love of Jesus With Others (Paperback)

"Servant evangelism" is transforming the Church's understanding of how to evangelize. Sjogren's ideas as encapsulated in "Conspiracy of Kindness" involve reaching out to a community through acts of kindness. These simple acts allow people in the church who may never have witnessed to anyone before (via the Four Spiritual Laws, The Bridge or one of Evangelism Explosion's techniques) to impact others via guiltless, stressless, low-risk, high grace actions instead of words. God's love is shown to someone in a practical way. For the storeowner, a group might clean his toilets. A neighborhood might be canvassed with offers of free batteries for smoke alarms. Free car washes and even having the church pay for a large part of someone's gasoline bill at a fuel stop are other ways to reach people with the message that God loves them deeply. Cards explaining the reason for this gift are handed out along with the gift, and information about the church is included on the back of the card. No pressure is exerted, no money taken, and for those who are so moved by the gift, people are on hand to share the Gospel more completely.

In light of a recent George Barna survey that put evangelical Christians right below prostitutes in terms of credibility and public opinion, Sjogren's radical revisioning of how to evangelize also carries with it the opportunity for churches to makes amends for perceptions. As a member of Sjogren's church for many years, I've personally seen how effective these methods are. People sometimes break down weeping when someone hands them a free can of soda with no other expectation than the receiver be blessed by it. The church has grown at light speed as a result.

"Conspiracy of Kindness" addresses the depth of these ideas in a far greater way than any review can. The book examines the failures of modern evangelism, why this method is superior, it's biblical basis, the idea of scattering seed constantly, how to implement servant evangelism in a church, and how using these ideas can transform individuals and small groups in their ministries.

But "Conspiracy of Kindness" is not without issues.

The Bible states that the reason people came into the Church was not so much that the Church was kind to outsiders but that it was kind to insiders. It was the love that early Christians had for each other that caused the world to wonder. Sjogren states that how we "treat [the unchurched] is the litmus test of our spiritual health." In fact, he has it reversed: everything starts in the House of God. If we do not sacrificially love our brethren, we cannot hope to ever reach outsiders.

Unfortunately, servant evangelism techniques can be adopted without a truly Christian message. Without a unique message, this method of evangelism is a hook with no meat on it. Other non-Christian religious organizations are adopting these methods and are using them to effectively bring in people in similar amounts. We have to be poised to offer Christ relentlessly or else we will end up looking no different from the others who are using these ideas but without Christ.

Servant evangelism by its very nature can appeal to a consumer mentality. It creates an expectation in people that Christ exists to fulfill one's wishes. That this mentality is becoming increasingly common in evangelical Christianity is to our shame, and even brings to question just what kind of salvation people may have come to. The literature given with servant evangelism gifts states the gift comes "with no strings attached". The truth is, if followed to its natural end, that gift is meant to help eventually bring someone to a point of dying to self and surrendering his or her whole being to Christ. Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote, "When Christ bids a man, He bids him come and die." That's a pretty big string and becomes more so if avoided early on. Shouldn't we be setting this expectation immediately when we are doing servant evangelism?

Because so little is asked of people who participate in servant evangelism projects other than to show up, it tends to let people doing it off the hook theologically. The average person handing out a soda doesn't truly need to know how to communicate a Biblical pathway of salvation to someone who might ask. Certainly someone asking can be referred to a more knowledgeable person on the team, but shouldn't we be spending time with everyone showing them how to communicate the Gospel verbally? Faith does come from hearing the Word of God, does it not?

One key point of the book sounds like a Nike ad: "Just Do It". Sjogren calls this "Ready, Fire, Aim" - tune the outreach over time rather than simply keeping it stuck in a committee, always discussing, but never doing. Steve is right in saying that the biggest problem lies in even getting started, but the Bible clearly states that we must consider leaders and plans of action thoughtfully through the Spirit - and that takes time sometimes. Anything else becomes spiritually lazy and can cause situations where good people get "shot" accidentally because time was not taken to "aim" at the target.

As with any new idea that comes across the Body of Christ today we have a tendency to go rushing over to see how it works, abandoning whatever we were doing where we were. Still, if you are part of a church that has never tried servant evangelism, then by all means do so. But be very careful to make sure that you incorporate old evangelism techniques with the new. Work to overcome inherent weaknesses in this model. Find a way to think about other radical ways to not only reach the lost, but your own comrades in the pews. If a middle ground is kept and the focus on Christ is not lost, you will surely meet success in winning others to Christ.

19 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Another Sacred Cow Goes By the Wayside, December 26, 1999

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Suzie (Detroit, MI USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Conspiracy of Kindness: A Refreshing New Approach to Sharing the Love of Jesus With Others (Paperback)

We are making Sjogreen's book required reading for our Evangelism Team 2000. It debunks all old theories of the E-word and makes it exciting and down-to-earth with wonderful, tangible easy-to-reach goals. Kudos to the author for sharing his perceptive insights with everyone and not just his Vineyard Church. These concepts will help all denominations grow in witnessing. It probes deeper, too, than just servant evangelism. Conspiracy of Kindness speaks of becoming true spiritual lighthouses. One of the best books I've read in the past 5 years.

18 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great rationale and how-to manual for kindness outreaches!, February 14, 1999

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This review is from: Conspiracy of Kindness: A Refreshing New Approach to Sharing the Love of Jesus With Others (Paperback)

It seems that with each decade, certain books become so important to me that I return to them again and again. Richard Foster's 'Celebration of Discipline' was one such book in my past. During this decade, it's been Steve Sjogren's 'Conspiracy of Kindness.' In it, Sjogren, senior pastor of Vineyard Community Church in Cincinnati, gives a thorough overview of the Biblical, theological, and socioilogical underpinnings of the exciting kindness outreach ministry of his congregation. He also gives examples of his congregation's many experiences with kindness outreaches and in the appendices, helpful information on possible outreach projects and how and when to do them. From cold Cokes given to thirsty motorists to cleaning the toilets of mall stores, kindness outreaches afford Christians the opportunity to share the love of God in practical ways. Especially helpful in explaining kindness outreaches to the skeptical is Sjogren's explanation of how they combine what he calls, "high grace" and "low risk." Even those squeamish about "stepping out in faith" can do and actually enjoy, kindness outreaches! As a result of this book, the congregation I serve as pastor has committed itself to regular kindness outreaches. We designate 5% of our weekly offerings to this program. Although small, our church has been able to reach over 11,600 since we began doing them in June, 1997. Some people ask me, "Have you had a lot of people come to your church because of the outreaches?" Frankly, we haven't. But I can tell you that in the doing of the outreaches, we have been changed. We think more in terms of being open to God and our neighbor. As more than fifty of our members have participated in the outreaches at least once, we've grown in the love of Christ...and that's an awesome thing! To solidify people's thinking about the outreaches, I also have used this book with our Church Council.