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Control your Submissive Boy: 150 Ways for the New Domme to Master Her Man

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The book is the kind I would like to flip through in a dentist's waiting room. It is mildly titillating and offers a few ideas, but on the whole I found it to be quite superficial (which one could gather from the title, so that is not a valid criticism) and not very inspiring, original or insightful. I read through it very rapidly (it is not very substantial) and felt disappointed. I don't feel I've wasted my time reading through it, but I would not recommend spending the money; there are many other books of better value. I am also dismayed that this book should be available on Kindle when so many others of more interest are not.

Not erotica so much as a list of how to have fun. RML gives short scenarios that are perfect launching points for exploring his submissive side. Ideally, you could develop 5-6 months of fun out of this short book. Best part is, it's an ebook, so no one has to know where you get your ideas from.

Don't buy this manure, it's just fluff -- nothing you cannot find on the internet if you google around. I'm sad that people are writing such rubbish and passing it off as a "book". What a scam!

This book with it's paragraph-sized ideas is ideal for a bathroom read. Some ideas are good. Some are amusing. Some are just plain mean. The author repeats a few ideas at the end, so there aren't truly 150 points. All in all, it was a quick intriguing and amusing read. While it's not meant to be taken too seriously, some ideas could come in handy under the right circumstances.

as a female dominant myself I found almost every entry in this entire book to be degrading to the concept of BDSM, and written from such a pure "feminist" point of view that "If I am going to be marriage to a 'man' then I might as well be the biggest b**** in the world to him". to any person who buys this book and attempts to adapt the ideas to their relationship a few pointers:

if your S.O. has any understanding of legal actions within a marriage (or even between any two people for that matter) then you are looking at possible jail time;

the author talks about taking on another "lover" in several entries: in many state(US)/countries the mear thought that your spouse is cheating on you can be grounds for divorce if not worse (with or without proof).

in one passage the author says 'get a strap-on, and show him how powerful he really is in "your" relationship': if this is non-consensual rape, is rape, is rape (even in a relationship) and there is no excuse.

the author also talks about the male is beneath you and should never think of himself, or you think of him as an equal: this undermines the very notion of safe, sane, consensual, and is just stupidity on the part of the author for even mentioning it.

I would hope that you would fist start with The Loving Dominant, or at least SM 101: A Realistic Introduction rather then this waist of energy and money.

but if anything is going to be done from this book "negotiate first" before perpetuating "feminist sexism" which I didn't think was possible until reading this.

The person who wrote this book obviously has zero morals. Who could possibly think it would be ok and even a good decision to make the most horrendous decision to ruin your marriage by treating the person you are supposed to love the most in the entire world like crap. Bringing and encouraging lovers on the side??? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!! Apparently wedding vows mean nothing to you. I am apalled that a book such as this can even be written. It is beyond offensive.

In addition, BUYER BEWARE, as the foreword of the book is decietful. It says nothing even cloesly resembling the contents of this book. Author - you should be ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!!!!