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Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse (AACC Library)

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Dr. Langberg presented every dimension of sexual abuse-its mental and physical aftereffects on the victim, and how the abuse impacts one's spiritual well being by hindering the individual from coming to Christ. Dr. Langberg has been working with sexual abuse victims for nearly twenty-five years. She included one woman's graphic story of abuse, which brought tears to my eyes. I felt pain and sorrow for the little girl in the story. Anger welled up inside of me as the woman depicted an escalation of abuse as she grew older, in which her father prostituted her to other men. This woman, Meeka, was denied love, protection, and a childhood.

Dr. Langberg listed several "indicators" which manifests as chronic symptoms (migraine headaches, muscular tension, TMJ, gastrointestinal problems, anger difficulties and deep grief) or "somatic effects" (though she warns that these are not proof that abuse had actually happened) (88). Emotional aftereffects of sexual abuse include a mistrust of others, fear of intimacy, and a feeling of being "different" (89). Dr. Langberg described child sexual abuse as "tentacles that reach throughout the adult life of the victim" (92). I believe any abuse is detrimental to the person as it is to ministry because it can prevent people from ever being close to others at church. Dr. Langberg recognized that abuse forced people to "live with a split identity...to pretend she was not abused" in order to maintain "even an appearance of a relationship" (128).

I found Dr. Langberg's detailed list of "survivor's needs" very helpful. She tapped into the core of practical ways someone could help a survivor, such as not simply offering help but following up with phone calls, notes of encouragement, and invitations of fellowship (278). Then she listed "hindrances" to helping. For example, Dr. Langberg expressed that counseling survivors is a long process so one should not counsel with the unrealistic assumption that the person will be healed after a few sessions. She also recommended that only trained women ought to "walk alongside" survivors since a male's intervention would probably elicit fear and other negative responses. Dr. Langberg's graphic description of sexual abuse enlightens the reader of the magnitude of evil that is committed upon a child. It is no wonder that the survivor must face many "truths," namely, "I was not the abuser," "I was not protected," "I was a victim," and hardest of all truth- "I am capable of abusing others" (146).

One of Dr. Langberg's treatment methods is to have survivors rewrite Isaiah 53 as a way to draw closer to God by recognizing that Jesus also suffered (150). She included one survivor's gripping reinterpretation, which seemed to incorporate personal hurts of the writer. This exercise allows survivors to realize that they are not alone and have not been abandoned by God despite the emotional and physical torture they had encountered.

In the second treatment exercise, Dr. Langberg uses scripture to restructure the survivor's image of "self." By rewriting a passage in the book of Ephesians as if to herself, the survivor thwarts the untruths about herself-- such as what abusers have said "she was" or what her feelings say "she is" (153). Dr. Langberg relies on scripture as a means of healing survivors and though she understands that the "results" are not "instantaneous," she believes it is a powerful practice because "they involve the eternal Word of God" (155).

I highly recommend this book to anyone who is working with survivors of sexual abuse. Langberg has great insight and experience in working with survivors and this book has helped me tremendously in helping women overcome and heal from the horrible effects of childhood sexual abuse.

This book is very helpful for counseling those surviving childhood sexual abuse. It gives hope in the darkness of this tragic epidemic.

PART ONE: FOUNDATIONS TO THE TREATMENT OF SEXUAL ABUSE--Chap 1: Why I Write-Chap 2: Meeka's Story---Chap 3: Understanding the Nature of Personhood--Chap 4: Understanding the Nature of Therapy--Chap 5: Understanding the Nature of Trauma-Chap 6: Understanding the Nature of Child Development--Chap 7: Definitions, Frequency, and Family Dynamics--Chap 8: Symptoms and Aftereffects of Childhood Sexual Abuse--Chap 9: Meeka's Story Continued--PART TWO: TREATMENT: PHASE ONE--Chap 10: Helping Clients Feel Safe--Chap 11: Symptom Relief--Chap 12: Memory Retrieval--PART THREE: TREATMENT: PHASE TWO--Chap 13: Facing Truths about the Past--Chap 14: Facing Truths about the Present--Chap 15: Major Issues of Phase Two--PART FOUR: TREATMENT: PHASE THREE--Chap 16: Relationships--Chap 17: Reclaiming the body--Chap 18: Re-creating Life--Chap 19: Treatment Termination--PART FIVE: SPECIAL CONSIDERATIONS--Chap 20: Dissociative Disorders--Chap 21: False Memory Syndrome--Chap 22: Male Survivors--PART SIX: THE THERAPIST'S PERSON--Chap 23: The Impact of Trauma on Therapist--Chap 24: Strategies that Foster Endurance--Chap 25: The Spiritual Life of the Therapist--PART SEVEN: PROFILES OF A COMPASSIONATE CHURCH--Chap 26: The Church Community--Chap 27: How Can the Church Help Survivors of Sexual Abuse?

This book is a must for anyone who is struggling with this area or has a loved one who is. This book equips anyone who wants to learn more and become more sensitive to help those through the life-altering affects of sex abuse.
While written for counselors, this book makes adapting the practical suggestions applicable for everyone. Professional, caring friend or relative. I am very grateful to have found this, it has made all the difference.
Ms. Langberg has tremendous compassion and wisdom to share on this difficult topic. I highly recommend it.

I am amazed and delighted by her incorporation of Christian theology in the practice of psychology. Her quote of therapy being both incarnational and redemptive puts Holy Light into the work of counseling. Amen!

This book is truly awesome! It really gave me the tools I needed to effectively lead the Sexual Abuse Ministry that I started at my church. Must Read!
Love it!

ORDERED AND RECVD QUICKLY - HAD SOME FRIENDS ORDER FOR CLASS AT THE SAME TIME AND RECVD THEIRS MAYBE A WEEK LATER THAN I DID - MUCH HAPPINESS FOR ME!!!

THIS BOOK TURNED OUT TO BE A RELIGIOUS/CHRISTIAN OUTLOOK ON COUNSELING, ONE THAT I WILL NOT USE. NOT BECAUSE I DON'T BELIEVE IN GOD, BECAUSE I DO, BUT I NEED MORE CLINICAL APPLICATIONS THAT CAN BE USED TO HELP THOSE AFFECTED BY SEXUAL ABUSE. I CANNOT USE THE BOOK AT ALL, AND IT HAD ABSOLUTELY NO COVER ON IT. BAD MOVE FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!