Cry Until You Laugh: Comforting Guide to Coping With Grief [Paperback]

Richard J. Obershaw (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: January 13, 1998

This book mixes humor with solid practical advice for coping with grief in a down-to-earth, meet-you-where-you-live approach.

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About the Author

Richard Obershaw is the founder and director of The Grief Center and Burnsville Counseling Clinic in Burnsville, Minnesota, where he has a full-time private psychotherapy practice. He presents lectures and seminars on grief and death for professional, corporate, and lay groups across the United States and Canada. --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Paperback: 192 pages
• Publisher: Fairview Press (January 13, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1577490630
• ISBN-13: 978-1577490630
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,003,446 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful validation of various grief feelings!, December 10, 2000

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This review is from: Cry Until You Laugh: Comforting Guide to Coping With Grief (Paperback)

I didn't discover this book until 4-5 months after my mother died earlier this year, but it was definitely a Godsend. It's the first grief book I've read that made perfect sense to me from the moment I began reading it and believe me I've read or skimmed through many grief books since my family began dying around me in 1991. I was raised to be aware that I would be faced with the death of people I cared about during the course of my life and I've believed coping with death or loss was just as natural as rejoicing for a marriage or the birth of a baby, but until I read this book I didn't feel my beliefs were really validated. I also learned early in life that humor is 'a friend' and allowing it to help us cope with life's tragedies is a positive thing. Richard Obershaw presents the process of grieving as a natural life event and acknowledges that we grieve for many things in our life--not only the death of a person! These are valuable life lessons and I'll be forever grateful that I found this particular book when I did. He also takes a little more light-hearted approach than some authors which was very refreshing for me and made me feel better about embracing my own humor as I worked through my grief. For me, the MOST important point he makes is that each of us has the power to move forward "through" our pain as long as we face it head on, and "Do The Necessary Work" -- and he makes it clear that it IS work!! I've recommended his book highly to several others who are coping with a death, or any other kind of loss or change in their lives. As a matter of fact, I will be giving it as a gift this Christmas (2000) to a friend whose Mother died recently. I do think it's a must read for anyone who has accepted the reality of loss or change in their lives, and wants to find a way to work "through" their pain to get to the other side where they can reinvent themselves to start a different life. Maybe I should offer one word of caution and suggest that if a person is not 'truly' ready to accept the death (or loss) in their life, then this book may not be as helpful to them at that point. But who knows, it might just help give them a different outlook.

5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars I was disappointed with this book., September 3, 1999

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This review is from: Cry Until You Laugh: Comforting Guide to Coping With Grief (Paperback)

My father died suddenly last October and I purchased this book to help me understand the grieving process. I found the humor irreverant and unsympathetic. I thought the book lacked guidance and had little more to say than the obvious, "Guess what? Death happens." I wouldn't recommend it to people looking for step-by-step information about grief.

5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Comforting, informative and insightful..., August 21, 1998

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G. J. Cohen "joyful frog" (Tucson, AZ) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Cry Until You Laugh: Comforting Guide to Coping With Grief (Paperback)

After my mother's death 7 years ago I started reading books on grief and grieving. I stumbled across "Cry Until You Laugh" and so far it is my favorite. It was easy to read, very insightful and it took me another step further in processing my grief. The book also gave me some tools to help others with their grief work. Thank you Mr. Obershaw.