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Cue Cards for Life: Thoughtful Tips for Better Relationships [Paperback]

Christina Steinorth
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Book Description

January 8, 2013
With almost 7 billion people on the planet, we're bound to run into communication problems sometime. And though we know healthy relationships and a sense of community are essential for a healthy, happy, and successful life, some of us are not equipped or quite prepared to deal with the situations and the life transitions we sometimes face. Cue Cards for Life is a handy, intuitive "how to" guide that can be easily applied in real life situations.

In her private practice as a psychotherapist, Christina Steinorth noticed that many of her patients came in with the same communication problems. Couples would neglect their love relationships, parents would talk at their teens instead of talking to them, and adults found few guidelines for interacting well with their aging parents. In fact, most people seemed to put more thought into deciding what to have for dinner than they did in choosing what they said and how they behaved in important situations. As a result, something seemed to go wrong -- but they were unsure of exactly what. Steinorth made Cue Cards for her patients to help them with these recurring problems.

Cue Cards are deceptively simple reminders and remedies that anyone can use to immediately improve just about any relationship. Each card is accompanied by a clear and encouraging explanation of the psychological principles that make the cue card work. These straightforward tips are so practical and down-to-earth that anyone can use them to communicate effectively with others, minimize conflict, and handle life transitions with greater ease.

The book starts with an overview of communication basics, such as the importance of listening and eye contact, boundaries and personal space, and nonverbal communication (body language). Steinorth then offers prompts that highlight what to say and do in a variety of situations. The book includes Cue Cards for improving communication/relationships in the areas of love, parent/teen interaction, caring for aging parents, getting along with in-laws and in the workplace. There are also Cue Cards for weddings, parties and major social events.

The book can be read cover to cover or readers can easily flip to sections relevant to their needs. The  "Cue Cards" can also be used daily as an overall commitment to improved relationships in one's life, or to creatively foster more harmonious relationships in a group or between individuals. Each card reminds the reader about some interpersonal basic, such as taking responsibility, earning respect, being honest, asking for help, being kind, being a good role model - even grooming!

Cue Cards for Life can help people improve their daily interactions. Most of us underestimate the power common courtesy and kindness have to improve all relationships, and all of us encounter situations in life where we stumble a little. Sometimes we need a gentle reminder -- a cue card, a clue card -- to steer us back in the right direction.

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"A very helpful book and a very easy read."
— Susan Forward, Ph.D., New York Times best-selling author of Toxic Parents and Emotional Blackmail

About the Author

Christina Steinorth is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Board Certified Diplomate in Professional Counseling. She holds a Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and graduated from the fully accredited Phillips Graduate Institute of California. With over a decade of experience in private practice as a psychotherapist who specializes in relationship issues, Christina has helped hundreds of people improve and heal their relationships. In addition to her work as a therapist, Christina has written and published numerous articles about relationships and various other self-help subjects in regional as well as international magazines and newspapers. Christina lives in a small seaside community near Santa Barbara, California, with Matthew, her husband of eleven years.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 168 pages
  • Publisher: Hunter House; Original edition (January 8, 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0897936167
  • ISBN-13: 978-0897936163
  • Product Dimensions: 6.5 x 5.3 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #478,337 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Christina Steinorth is the author of Cue Cards for Life: Thoughtful Tips for Better Relationships. She is a Psychotherapist in Private Practice and a Board Certified Diplomate of professional counseling (IAMBCP). With an office in beautiful downtown Santa Barbara, she holds a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and graduated in the top three of her class from the fully accredited Phillips Graduate Institute of California.

As a sought after relationship expert, Christina appears regularly in the media. She is a frequent radio guest and has been a featured relationship expert on The John Tesh Network, KARN, WNRI, KTALK, WDVR, WTTB as well as countless other web and podcast. In print, her advice is often quoted in regional and international magazines and newspapers such as The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, The Huffington Post, Woman's Day, NBC News, Fox News Magazine, Playboy, Shape, Celebrity Parents, Canadian Living and Inland Empire Magazine. Online, Christina's advice has appeared on numerous websites including WebMD, Askmen, SheKnows, Lifetime Moms and Made Men.

When Christina isn't writing or working with clients, she enjoys boating, bicycling, hiking, cooking and creating mosaic art. One of her most passionate causes in life is helping those in less-than-fortunate situations and when time permits, she travels to volunteer in orphanages in Mexico. Locally, she assists in helping to feed the homeless in her city and she volunteers at a local Basset Hound Rescue. An avid traveler, Christina enjoys learning of other cultures visiting distant lands. At home on the Central Coast of California, Christina and her husband share their residence with their black Pug, Sigmund, and their Basset Hound Winston.

Stay tuned! Christina will be going on a multi-city book tour so be sure to check out her Facebook Author page as well as her personal website for updates and sign up for her mailing list: www.christinasteinorth.com

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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Gentle Cue Cards For Sure! December 22, 2012
Format:Paperback
The night after I received this book I laid in bed and read through it with an open heart and an open mind. I've been struggling with some relationships lately and this book reminded me with it's "cue cards" of some very important concepts and taught me several new things I didn't even bother to consider. The book is written "gently" and it is easy to consider the warmth behind each reminder. Thank you for the lovely book!
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Sometimes Relationships need Cue Cards! February 3, 2013
Format:Paperback
Every time you walk out the door, pick up the phone, or log on to your computer, relationships happen; at the store, on Facebook, at work, at home. People seem enamored of dysfunctional fictional characters--Sherlock Holmes (VERY popular on TV and the movies these days), Monk, House etc. This may be because we doubt ourselves, and our abilities to create and sustain viable, honest relationships with the people who matter the most in our lives.

Marriage and family therapist Dr. Christina Steinorth believes that "...it is time to bring grace, consideration and thoughtfulness back into our family and social relationships..." Her small but powerful book, Cue Cards for Life, creates written "sound bytes" for paying attention to your relationships, and developing logical, comforting guidelines to keep them healthy. Her book has nine far-reaching chapters: The Basics, Cue Cards for Love Relationships, Marriages, Babies, In-Laws and All Things Family, Cue Cards for Parents with Teens, Cue Cards for Interacting with Aging Parents, Cue Cards for the Workplace, Cue Cards for Friendships, Parties and Social Events, Cue Cards for Effective Apologies, and an excellent chapter of checklists, references and resources.

Many of the things that Steinorth discusses may seem to be the kind of thing you say, "Well, Duh," about, and yet how often do we just not think to do these common sense things? I recently had a falling out with a much-older sibling, over something totally ridiculous. I wrote three emails and threw them all away. Reading Steinorth's chapter on saying sorry, made me realize I didn't need to be wordy, or defensive. I wrote an email that was 3 sentences long!

I admitted I was wrong, I said I was sorry to hurt my sister, I asked her to forgive me for my thoughtless behavior and told her I would be more careful in the future. When a relationship is important, the he-said-she-said stuff doesn't matter. What matters is opening the relationship up to its future possibilities.

The chapter on aging parents is very vital in today's world of sandwich families--having kids at home, and "parental units" in need of care, either long term or short term. I think every young adult should be aware of the reality of aging parents. It is uncomfortable and often emotional, yet Steinorth takes you through it with her cue cards. (The cue cards are tucked in the midst of the meat of the chapters, small graphics that highlight the important cue points,) This one, for example, gets to the pith of the issue, "Check in with your parents when you can, and just chat."

Wherever you are on life's journey, your relationships define you, and help you through the good and the bad times. It is about communication, understanding, appreciation, honesty and self-knowledge. It may seem to be a no-brainer, but reading this book, you can find all kinds of tidbits of help that you can use over and over again. We can all take a cue here, to present ourselves with kindness and create the relationships that are good for everyone involved.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Must have book for all humans April 17, 2013
Format:Paperback
This book is a must have for all human beings! It contains gentle reminders of common sense practices, as well as points out things that we might not be aware of about ourselves. For example, I always try to finish people's sentences... well, that can be very rude. After reading this book, I am a lot more aware of how I act around people. I find myself much more conscious of my actions and how I converse with others. It's and easy read and great for rereading often. I recommend it to everyone!
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3.0 out of 5 stars decent tidbits of advice
Pros: This book was handy because it does not require the reader to go through the entire book just to get the advice you are seek; it is easy to read and compact (in size); points... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Marissa Ibara
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Cue Cards for Life is perfect for the times we live in today when we change and interchange relationships like we change clothes! Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Texting out, manners back in
I was just talking about how rude people are now days with the advent of texting and how they don't talk anymore except in short cryptic sentences while still looking down at their... Read more
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1.0 out of 5 stars Meh is right
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I was curious about this small book and thought that its breakdown would simplify concepts that... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Rob S.
5.0 out of 5 stars Clever title for book with great concepts
The book, Cue Cards for Life, does well at providing a fresh perspective on many of the social basics we all should know. Would recommend.
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