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51 of 59 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Out of the mouth of babes....., October 22, 2006
In this book, Nancy Levant extends a compassionate rebuke to the American mother and career woman. Drawing upon her experience as a daycare professional, she offers insight into the thoughts, feelings, and diets of America's children in daycare -- all of which have suffered because of the woman's repudiation of the traditional role of motherhood.
"Mommy says Daddy is a idiot."
"Dad says mommy should cook dinner for us."
"Dad is never home."
"Daddy says mommy is never home."
"When's mom coming?"
"When's dad coming?"
"Why are they always late?"
"Did mommy forget to get me?"
"If they don't come, can I stay with you?"
Repeatedly quoting her daycare children, Levant opens a window into the family life of the contemporary household, and the contemporary woman who makes it. The perspective provided is unique and rare, as it is one that is seen through the eyes of the child.
Humbly acknowledging her own failures as wife and parent, the author frankly speaks very directly to the women of America. She asserts women have largely rebelled against the traditional roles of mother and housewife, as these roles have been redefined by society and the media as repressive. While extolling the virtues of female liberation, she asserts, "The empowerment of women did come at a cost..."
Levant lambastes the modern "entitlement" attitude that is so prevalent today and that is heavily promoted by Hollywood and television entertainment news shows. It is this attitude, she believes, that has become a staple of the American female psyche, to the detriment of her family. "The difference between the upper and middle-class, is that the former spends other people's money to create wealth for themselves. We spend our money to mimic them."
Though this book will be a bitter pill for many women to swallow, its compassionate medicine is meant to heal women who are stressed to the breaking point by societal pressures. After outlining the problem, Levant extends a loving hand to these victimized women, and exhorts them to face reality.
"I think these women long for peace and safety... and are simply caught up in what may be the dumbest worldliness ever known... I believe that the self-inflicted burdens and mental pressures can be removed with truth."
In "The Cultural Devastation of American Women", Nancy Levant fingers a problem that this reader wasn't aware existed. The influence of mass media entertainment shows, which promote the notion that average, middle-class women can look and live like stars, has had a highly damaging effect on the family. And while men and fathers are to blame for society's ills as well, Levant makes her focus those who have primarily and historically been the nurturers of the children.
While reading the book, I found myself laughing even as I wanted to cry.
I laughed at the absurdity and irony of the excesses, and inconsistencies of the daycare mothers with which the author has had experiences. And I was filled with nostalgic sadness as I pondered, with the author, the loss of the great female role models, which have shaped society throughout history.
Every woman will likely see a little of herself within these pages. Indeed, the author begins with humility. "I am the person who could be despised because of this book. I am the person who has made every single mistake that there is to make... I am the worst of the worst."
An easy, compelling, and often humorous read, Nancy's book is one that I hope will be well-received and taken to heart. I hope all will enjoy it as much as this reader has.
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20 of 27 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Quite the wake-up call! A must read!, January 15, 2007
Nancy speaks the plain truth: American Women are killing themselves and their families over their complete selfishness. We wonder why our community's children act out as they do and we can clearly see that the root of their demise is due to their mothers' (and fathers') self-interests. Being a feminist doesn't mean that we need to ignore and destroy our children's lives.
All women AND men should read this book, to get a clear understanding of the past and how they can change their lives. We worry about the world's environment; yet we neglect our human and cultural environment. Such neglect will damage the human race beyond compare. It would be a travesty to have a beautiful world but have incompetent human relations.
Nancy, thank you for clearly demonstrating how we as American women need to wake-up and take back our feminine power while strengthening our children. I bought your book for my Grandfather who, at age 88, has seen a lot. He completely agrees with your words...American women need to look at the past and re-plant themselves so that they have strong roots for America's future.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Needs polishing, but truthful subject matter, April 5, 2008
Nancy Levant has done a good job of examining the problems with socialist feminism and the destruction of the family unit. Unlike many other authors, she does so in a non-religious fashion, while being realistic about today's economic realities. She also recognizes the tremendous value women have in the world and that their work should be rewarding and recognized. She speaks the truth about the future of the world, when children are devalued, and that devaluing children has nothing to do with recognizing the worth of women. I'm positive most readers of this book personally know women like the ones portrayed in this book. In spite of the author's admonitions to the reader to examine herself to see if she is a women like the ones described in this book, these types of women (the ones who most need to read this book), won't be the ones reading the book. Hopefully as the topics in this book become part of the public discourse, the unhappy women described in this book will start to learn that there is another way of living--a way of life that produces peace and harmony, rathern than unhappiness and disintegration of the family. The typographical errors in the book did produce a minor destraction--hopefully the author will use better proofreader for future editions. I also, would have preferred a traditional book lay out (ie with numbered chapters), rather than the unnumbered essay type layout. The content of the book alone is worth 5 stars, but I'm giving an overall rating of 4 stars, due to the distraction of the typographical errors & book layout.
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