Many years ago when Dr. Black was a counselor in an alcohol and drug treatment program, she asked a six-year-old daughter of a man in treatment for his addiction if she knew why her father was in this program. The girl paused and then with confidence said, "My Dad loves me, but my Dad has a disease." In spite of her father's addiction she knew her father loved her.
This is a message all young people need to be able to believe. Unfortunately when people are addicted they often lose the ability to act in loving ways toward those they love.
Growing up in an addicted family usually means living by the rule: It is not all right to talk about the drinking or using in your family. Working through the loneliness, fear, and frustration by expressing feelings is what this book is all about. This workbook gives children the opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings and to better understand addiction.
My Dad Loves Me, My Dad Has a Disease was originaly written as a result of my work with young people who had a parent in treatment for their alcoholism. These children were learning at a very young age that is was not safe for them to openly talk about their family experiences. Art therapy was a wonderful tool in which to not only share feelings but to problem solve, lessen denial, and to put words to that which was so confusing.
After many years and thousands of children using this workbook, it has been revised to address the fact that today, if a child lives with addiction, it may very well be to other drugs, not just alcohol. I have rewritten some parts and added new pictures making it possible for more children of addiction to experience their own recovery process.
The basic premise of this book is that chemical dependency is a disease. The addict is a sick person, not a bad person. This disease affects not only the addicted person but those who love that person as well. Having been raised in an alcoholic family myself, by the age of six I shared the feelings of loneliness, fear and frustration of my family. This is a book that will help the "others" affected by chemical dependency to become well.
There is hope for the addicted person and those affected by their addiction. We, the children, do not have to remain confused and silent.See all Editorial Reviews
I never write reviews, but I have to say that this book was wonderful at helping me discuss addiction with my eight year old. Read morePublished 17 days ago by Alysia Garcia
I was looking for a story type book to explain addiction to an 8 year old. This book is more of a workbook and I felt it was a little too busy and didn't suit my purpose. Read morePublished 1 month ago by Cheryl Cantilli
This book has had a profound impact on recovering women. Nothing touches women more than to see how children are affected by the the disease of alcoholism. Read morePublished 3 months ago by Mary J. McGrail
This helps children to see that they are not alone, and that the problems in their family are the same as in others.Published 4 months ago by Ann Marie Suabedissen
Great book for parents who are at a loss for words to explain addiction to a younger child. I found this book to open the door to conversation with my kids 6&7 year olds. Read morePublished 5 months ago by antoinette cabral
This sis a great bookj for therapist tpo us ewith kids. You can change the dad to mom, when you read t okkids and explain it happens to mom's and dad's as well.Published 8 months ago by Michelle R.
This is a great workbook to use with children to explain addiction.Published 12 months ago by Eileen McLoughlin