The Dad in the Mirror: How to See Your Heart for God Reflected in Your Children (Man in the Mirror Library) [Paperback]

Patrick Morley (Author), David Delk (Author)

Book Description

Series: Man in the Mirror Library | Publication Date: September 30, 2003

A blueprint for men who want to instill their love for God in the hearts of their children. Who is that guy in the mirror? To your son or daughter, he's 'Dad'---the most important man in the world. Men's leaders, speakers, and authors Patrick Morley and David Delk share with you the secrets of grace-filled dads who understand that their most important work is to help shape the attitudes and beliefs of the next generation. This book shows you how to father from your heart to your child's heart. Rather than only seeking the right performance from them, you can move into a dynamic relationship with your children that models what it means to love God and others truly and passionately. Start by asking the right question---not 'What is my child doing?' but 'Why is my child doing this?' Practical guidelines show you simple ways to help your children thrive, to build a firm foundation of faith for your family, and to empower your children by giving them both roots and wings. Currently, only sixty percent of children raised in church follow Jesus as adults. Will your son or daughter be one of them? We believe God will use this book to help you disciple your children to love God for a lifetime.

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From the Back Cover

A blueprint for men who want to instill their love for God in the hearts of their children.

Who is that guy in the mirror? To your son or daughter, he’s "Dad"—the most important man in the world. Men’s leaders, speakers, and authors Patrick Morley and David Delk share with you the secrets of grace-filled dads who understand that their most important work is to help shape the attitudes and beliefs of the next generation.

This book shows you how to father from your heart to your child’s heart. Rather than only seeking the right performance from them, you can move into a dynamic relationship with your children that models what it means to love God and others truly and passionately. Start by asking the right question—not "What is my child doing?" but "Why is my child doing this?" Practical guidelines show you simple ways to help your children thrive, to build a firm foundation of faith for your family, and to empower your children by giving them both roots and wings.

Currently, only sixty percent of children raised in church follow Jesus as adults. Will your son or daughter be one of them? We believe God will use this book to help you disciple your children to love God for a lifetime.

About the Author

Patrick Morley (www.maninthemirror.org) is a business leader, speaker, and the best-selling author of twelve books, including The Man in the Mirror, Ten Secrets for the Man in the Mirror, The Seven Seasons of the Man in the Mirror, and Devotions for the Man in the Mirror. He lives with his wife in Orlando, Florida. SPANISH BIO: Durante tres decadas, Patrick Morley ha sido considerado una de las autoridades mas respetadas con respecto a los retos y oportunidades que afectan distintivamente a los hombres. En 1989 el escribio El hombre frente al espejo, un libro historico que surgio a raiz de su propia busqueda de significado, proposito, y de una relacion con Dios mas profunda. Se vendieron mas de tres millones de copias y fue elegido uno de los cien libros cristianos mas influyentes del siglo veinte. En 1991, Patrick fundo 'El hombre en el espejo', una organizacion que ha impactado las vidas de diez millones de hombres en todo el mundo, ha distribuido ocho millones de libros, y el ano pasado colaboro con mas de cuarenta mil lideres laicos para realizar un discipulado mas eficaz de los hombres. Cinco de sus 16 libros han recibido una calurosa acogida entre los criticos. Patrick Morley recibio su titulo con honores de la Universidad Central de Florida, institucion que en 1984 le otorgo el Premio al 'Graduado ?

David Delk is president of Man in the Mirror. He is the author of Twists of Fate and speaks at churches and men's groups across America. In 2000, David was named Emerging Young Leader of the Year by the National Coalition of Men's Ministries. He lives in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and three children. SPANISH BIO: David Delk es presidente de El hombre frente al espejo. Delk es autor del libro Twists of Fate y habla en iglesias y en grupos de hombres por todos los Estados Unidos. En el ano 2000, David fue nombrado 'Lider Joven Emergente del Ano', por la Coalicion Nacional de Ministerios de Hombres. el reside en Orlando, Florida, con su esposa y sus tres hijos.

Product Details

• Reading level: Ages 18 and up
  
• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Zondervan (September 30, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0310250730
• ISBN-13: 978-0310250739
• Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.2 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #939,917 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Finally, a book for Dads that doesn't insult the masculine!, October 21, 2004

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Edward A. Blonski "reved" (Mayville, WI USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Dad in the Mirror: How to See Your Heart for God Reflected in Your Children (Man in the Mirror Library) (Paperback)

On Father's Day, I received the Dad in the Mirror and quickly decided it would be the basis for my men's study at my church throughout the summer.

About a dozen of us went through each chapter each week and it was truly amazing. Here's a book that doesn't reinforce the hollywood stereo-type of "dad." That is, the "stupid guy" with the amazingly beautiful and smart wife (you know the shows I mean).

As a father, we have a tremendous responsibility with our children. Like it or not, believe it or not, our kids are watching and learning from us.

What can we do to make sure our kids don't grow up to be the guy in the clock-tower with a high-powered rifle? Listen to the ultimate dad - God.

The Dad in the Mirror takes us back to God and His Word. But it isn't a Sunday morning sermon. This is a book for dads by dads. 30 years from now your kids will thank you for the kind of dad you were as you follow the guide put forth in this book.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Finally! A book on fathering that I get!, March 15, 2004

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Kevin (Kirkland, Quebec Canada) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Dad in the Mirror: How to See Your Heart for God Reflected in Your Children (Man in the Mirror Library) (Paperback)

Since my wife and I first learned that we were expecting over 3 years ago, I've gone through several different books on how to be a great dad.

Unfortunately, most of the books just freaked me out and got me all panicked that my kid would end up the school bully or worse!

The Dad in the Mirror is the book that I was looking for all these years! Finally! This is a book written for the dad who's looking at the heart of his kids... not just the A's on the report card. It actually felt while reading it that this book was specifically written for me!

I found this book to be a great read and lots of the topics covered can easily be incorporate into my fathering skills.

I would strongly recommend this book to any dad, grand-dad, or soon-to-be-dad!

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great book for all dads!, January 4, 2004

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Mark W Doan (The Colony, TX United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Dad in the Mirror: How to See Your Heart for God Reflected in Your Children (Man in the Mirror Library) (Paperback)

This book has had a tremendous impact on me as a dad! Patrick and David have done a superb job in describing the difference between 'fathering for performance' and 'fathering the heart'. I especially like the "Straight to the Heart" section at the end of each chapter. I highly recommend this book for all dads, soon-to-be-dads, and grand-dads.