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Daddies Do It Different Hardcover – April 17, 2012
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Readers are in for a predictable, stereotypical comparison of how this particular mother and father differ in how they interact with their winsome daughter. The text follows a strict pattern, stating what Mommy typically does and following with how "daddies do it different," even though there is only one daddy/mommy pair depicted. Mommy is usually pleasant and proper and gets things done: "When Mommy feeds me breakfast . I sit nicely at the table, munch a piece of toast ." Daddy indulges in somewhat foolish behavior: "We make a fort with waffles, get syrup on the dog, and eat cereal straight out of the box!" (Mommies sharing this with their children will wonder who gets to wash the dog.) Carter ably paints the contrasting scenes in what appears to be watercolor. Most of these dichotomies make logical sense. Mommy teaches her daughter to make sauces while Daddy gives a lesson on how to juggle eggs and so on. But some are less successful: "When Mommy gets her nails done, I sometimes get mine painted, too. When Daddy watches Sunday sports, I sometimes see him cry." But on the last spreads mom and dad each tuck their daughter in, give her a kiss and tell her how much she is loved in "the exact same way." Unfortunately, this does not salvage the tale. Better choices abound, such as Marjorie Blain Parker and R.W. Alley's When Dads Don't Grow Up (2012) and Stephen Cook's Day Out with Daddy (2006). (Picture book. 3-6) Kirkus"
A young girl shares the daily activities of her family, contrasting the way mommies handle various chores to the way "daddies do it." When Mommy dresses her, the girl says, "My blouse is clean, my shoes have style, and my socks always match my shirt." With Daddy, "Stripes collide with plaids, my barrettes are crazy crooked, and sometimes my head pops through the shirtsleeve!" At bath time, Daddy, the dog, and the whole bathroom get just as wet as the girl, and Daddy encourages rambunctious play and tickling to the point of "crazy-hyper-nuts!" Finally, at bedtime, Mommy gently tucks the girl in, and Daddy does it "the exact same way." Children may enjoy reading about this dad's antics; others may find his behavior annoying. However, both the narrator and her mom relish the chaos. Lightly colored cartoon watercolors are a good match to the text. Two books with a similar feel are Jamie Lee Curtis' My Mommy Hung the Moon (2010) and Kate Banks' That's Papa's Way (2009). - Randall Enos Booklist"
K-Gr 2 In Sitomer's exploration of the differences between the ways in which mothers and fathers relate to their children and care for their needs, mothers are conscientious caregivers who dress their offspring in perfectly matching outfits, cook nutritious food, shop with a careful eye on family finances, and provide calming bedtime rituals. Fathers, on the other hand, build forts with breakfast waffles, put bananas in their ears in the supermarket, can't find the car keys, and engage in bedtime shenanigans guaranteed to make kids "crazy-hyper-nuts." Carter's large watercolor cartoon paintings reinforce the humorous text and vividly illustrate the differences between the two parents. Mom's breakfast table is neatly set with important food groups in evidence; Dad's has cereal spilling onto the floor, flowing milk and syrup, open drawers, and a cup perched precariously on the table edge. Mom provides bath-tub toys and careful teeth brushing; Dad covers the bathroom floor and himself in bubbles and water. While Sitomer is surely writing tongue-in-cheek, his stereotypical picture of mothers who are incapable of a bit of playful fun and fathers who are merely irresponsible clowns does a disservice to both parents. Stay with Laura Numeroff's What Mommies Do Best/What Daddies Do Best (S & S, 1998), which provides a more balanced view of parents and their little ones. Marianne Saccardi, formerly at Norwalk Community College, CT SLJ"
About the Author
Abby Carter has illustrated many books for children, including My Hippie Grandmother by Reeve Lindbergh, The Best Seat in Second Grade by Katharine Kenah, and the Andy Shane chapter book series by Jennifer Richard Jacobson. Abby lives with her husband and two children in Connecticut.
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Top Customer Reviews
I will say there are times when I am the one who does things in a more fun way than my husband, or there's times he does things in a sillier way than me. That's okay, I love that we can balance out the way we parent and raise our children. I got why he showed the mom in the manner he did, because I sometimes find myself in that position, and I have to remind myself to step back and just play and have fun. I also appreciated the comical side to parenting that Alan included in his story. Being a parent is serious, and it's a huge responsibility, but with it also comes those fun moments when you can act silly and enjoy making memories with your kids. I felt some of Alan's message from his book was just that. The end of the story ends on a note that rings true about one of the things that Moms and Dads do the same.
If you are unclear whether this book will work for your family, do what we did - get if from the library first. We actually not only enjoyed the book, but found it very useful in engaging our daughter in conversations about the limitations of assigning personality traits to different genders, how mommies and daddies are people first and their "roles" second, etc.
If you can get past all of the above, it is actually a pretty fun book with a sweet ending.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
I read this with my daughter while looking for Father's Day gifts for my husband. I respect the silly plot line and fun, colorful illustrations. Read morePublished 6 days ago by Kathleen
My husband and kids loved it! I thought it was too true! Fun and light.Published 2 months ago by me
I picked this out thinking it would be fun for daddy to read without even looking at it. Well turns out this book is offensive, old-fashioned and sexist. Read morePublished 8 months ago by Anya California
My son in law who I bought book for was insulted, Made the Father look stupid and it even refers to father as stupid in bookPublished 8 months ago by Patrick Vincent
This is a super cute book! It describes my husband and I perfectly.Published 10 months ago by Spragana
If you have the "mom is the rock and dad is the goofball" family dynamic, its fantastic fun! Read morePublished 11 months ago by JRD261
If you want to enforce the idea that moms are dour, boring, uptight, and joyless -- while dads are fun, wacky, spontaneous, and happy -- buy this book. Read morePublished 11 months ago by M. Sanchez