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Dad's Own Housekeeping Book: 137 Bright Ideas

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The Orlando Sentinel tipped me off to this guide. They described it as, "a funny but practical guide for men on vacuuming, cooking, cleaning, spot-removal, decluttering and more."
This would make a great gift for the single guys you know or any stay-at-home dads. It ranks jobs by how important they are and how frequently they should be tackled. It aims to streamline housekeeping so it fits with the male style of management.
The author points out that women learn housekeeping gradually as they grow up, but men might need a crash course (like this book). He gives many chores in five minute or ten minute clean ups, so it fits with the minimalist approach that suits most men. They want a system.

The idea of a housekeeping book written just for dads may seem unnecessary or even condescending, yet David Bowers has written an extremely useful guide that speaks directly to dad sensibilities. Bowers' main idea is that men - especially fathers - want to take a "no frills" approach to housekeeping, doing what's absolutely necessary in the quickest, easiest way possible. He says it best right in the first chapter of the book: "Spotless perfection can't be achieved in a house where kids live, and even if it can, it's not worth it. When your children grow up, they'll remember with fondness that you read to them, helped them with their math homework, and had time to play with them, rather that the beds were made with hospital corners or the laundry folded with military precision."

Bowers devotes almost an entire introductory chapter, "A Man Around the House: Getting Psyched Up", to negotiating expectations and managing responsibilities between men and their spouses. It has helpful sidebars such as What We Want Women to Know About Our Housekeeping including, for example, "We don't expect you to do things our way. Don't expect us to do things the way you do". In addition, each individual chapter also includes additional advice on how to handle "the changing of the guard" for various household chores. This is useful advice for any household no matter what your family looks like, and one of the features that distinguishes this book from the many other housekeeping books out there.

The book is broken down into chapters which cover every aspect of keeping house, from cooking meals to cleaning to doing laundry. Bowers gives advice on how to manage each room at three general cleaning levels: Lick-and-a-Promise Clean, Average-Guy Clean, and Felix-Unger Clean. There are also additional chapters devoted to spaces such as the home office and the attic and basement. While the many helpful tricks and tips (on such topics as stain removal and the many uses of baking soda) alone are worth the price of this book, it is in speaking directly to fathers and our ways of thinking that Bowers really shines. Dad's Own Housekeeping Book shows that a father can run a home without having to turn into Mr. Mom.

If I could give this book 10 stars, I would! This is a down and dirty guide to how to keep house. I love Cheryl Mendelson's Home Comforts, Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House and Martha Stewart's Homekeeping Handbook, Martha Stewart's Homekeeping Handbook: The Essential Guide to Caring for Everything in Your Home but for realistic housekeeping routines and how to keep your house tidy, I highly recommend this book. It's odd shape makes it a little hard to hold. I might take it to my local fast copy shop and have it spiral bound. Then it would be perfect!

It's an easy read from cover to cover or you can easily look up your task and find a quick and efficient way to go about it. I bought a second copy for another male who needs some explicit, to the point directions. This book is worth its weight in gold!

I initially bought this for my boyfriend but got to thinking - if there is a fast & easy way to do something they don't like, a man will find it. Women are more inclined to overdo - men stick to basic needs. So I ended up getting one for myself. I have to confess I haven't had a chance to read much & haven't gotten any feedback from my boyfriend so that is all I can offer for a review. I have to believe there has to be some good stuff in there tho.