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a wonderful read that draws your attention even when you don't have it open, January 21, 2010
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This riveting book writes on a micro-scale about the day-to-day lives of 4 Mexican-American women that are involved in a Folkloric dance company in Los Angeles. Although the book focuses on their daily lives and not with suspense or action, the characters are so well portrayed that the reader is drawn in. And there WILL be at least one character if not more that you can relate to. They all have their flaws, and their charms, and are fully three-dimensional. Each chapter is labelled by the voice it will be written in, and to the author's credit, each voice is authentic. It is easy to forget that these are not true stories but fiction.
I was immediately drawn into Yesennia's story. I'm a dancer myself and if you replaced Folklorico with Bellydance, there are many similar feelings. You do it for the love of it, not money, and you come to love and care for the dance, the music, the culture. Yesennia was living my dream, running her own studio and company. But, like me, she has a knee injury. Her knee injury however is bad enough that she is forced to give up dancing. I can't imagine how difficult that would be. She turns to plastic surgery, focusing on her appearance as a way to regain the joy in her life that she lost with dancing - dancing had made her feel forever youthful.
Adriana is an interesting character. She suffered a lot of abuse from her family, and as a result, she is drawn to abusive men. Although she has a kind Gringo neighbor who would love to treat her well, she keeps returning to the same relationship that she had with her father. The experiences written here perfectly capture the experiences and feelings of a battered woman, and it's so visceral that I remember physically clenching up my whole body as I read certain passages. It shows how Adriana can want the abuse, can keep returning to it, even though it's clearly not good for her. This portrayal is so real you can taste it.
Then there's Elena. She has a troubled marriage after her miscarriage, and the sadness from that has also caused her to give up dancing. One of my good friends lost her soulmate and likewise was not able to dance again. So I, again, saw echoes of real people and real lives here.
Finally, one of the most eye-opening segments of the book focuses on Soledad. Soledad is the seamstress for the group, an illegal. She goes back to Mexico to see her grandmother on her deathbed, knowing she may never be able to return. She sacrifices everything she has for her family. She's a very compelling character, and I haven't read too many narratives of this nature. This story within a story - of all of them - really brings in some issues of the day - immigration - and raises awareness without seeming like it was intended to do that.
I only wished we had learned more about Ruben/Ruby's story. She was introduced as such an interesting character, but turned out to be only a foil for Soledad as well as a way to reflect upon cosmetic surgeries in comparison with Yesennia. True, the book chose to focus primarily on four women, with other women and men in their life only seen through the eyes of these women. However, it seemed like Ruben/Ruby completely disappeared from the story after serving her part. That said, the author did well in portraying a transgendered person sensitively, although I cringed reading that Ruby was out of the hospital and drinking so soon after surgery. Likewise, the surgical adventures of Yesennia also made me uncomfortable. I can tell you one thing - I will not be having plastic surgery after reading this book (not that I was planning on it anyway).
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Dancing with Butterflies is not just a one note..., January 19, 2010
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Like another reviewer has stated before me, I too do not believe in revealing everything in my current review because then there is nothing left to say/read.
I thoroughly enjoyed this novel! Originally I was pulled in by the title and short summary; once I began the novel I found myself immersed in the character's lives and tribulations. The novel revolves around 4 women (Yesenia, Soledad, Elena & Adriana), their trials and association with the Alegria Folklorico Dance Group. Folklorico is a Mexican dance and before this I never gave it a second thought. After reading this book, I have a better understanding of the costumes and traditions that painstakingly go into each "folklorico" dance.
In true chic lit form, you have your girlfriend and spousal drama that will leave you being able to relate with these sometimes unrelatable characters. The author has a way of painting wonderful imagery of the Folklorico costumes and dances. I have never been interested in the Mexican dances nor will I walk away recommending this book because of it. For me, the Folklorico was the tie that bound them and weaved/intertwined the women to one another. My recommendation for this novel will stand alone on the beautifully developed characters that Ms. Grande was able to mold from her own life experiences; especially immigration.
My favorite character would have to be Soledad because she is the character that in every story just suffers all the way through yet never lets life beat her down. She is the understated heroine and has you rooting for her. Some of the women just make me cringe and wonder how they themselves can deal.
Highly recommend to all readers for custom filled novel that will immerse you into a world of immigration, love, friendship, incest, abuse, passion and all that life has to offer. ENJOY!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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complex, lyrical..., January 10, 2010
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At times, I think Amazon book reviewers get carried away, and take away all of the fun of reading a book. I have absolutely nothing to add after the first review as it's so completely outlined in detail. While this type of review (which gives away all of the details, including last chapter info) is appropriate for textbooks, how-to manuals, Thomas Bros. maps, etc....it is totally inappropriate for novels. Take away the mystery and there's little point in reading the book. All I can say is that I'm now a fan of Ms. Grande's work and am seeking out her other writings. Her style of writing reminds me (alot!) of Barbara Kingsolver (albeit a hispanic version), and I now find myself hooked :)
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