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31 Days to Great Sex [Kindle Edition]

Sheila Wray Gregoire
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (47 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Do you yearn to feel truly intimate with your spouse? Do you wish that you enjoyed a sex life that was ALIVE, rather than one that was rather dull? Do you have this overwhelming feeling like you're missing out on something, but you can't quite figure out how to get there?

31 Days to Great Sex is for you!

These 31 days of readings and challenges will help married couples rebuild intimacy, rediscover fun, and achieve great fireworks.

The first few days are devoted to seeing sex in a positive way, and talking through your baggage and insecurities. Then we spend a few days on building emotional intimacy (your friendship), a few days on building physical intimacy (the fireworks, making sex feel wonderful!), a few days on spiritual intimacy (the oneness), and a few days putting habits in place so that you can keep the momentum going once you're done.

Sex is so important in a marriage, and yet often we lose hope. It becomes blah. We wonder if we can ever recapture that spark--or if we can ever light that spark in the first place.

This series takes you step by step in the process of building a fun and intimate sex life. It doesn't only focus on the mechanics of sex--though there certainly are posts that will help you in that department. It also focuses on building friendship, experiencing real intimacy, and learning to have fun again, just the way God intended.

Any two bodies can work together sexually. When we have problems in the bedroom, it's often not because of our bodies. It's usually because we aren't communicating well, or we feel distant from each other, or we're just nervous. The big benefit of this 31 days is that you'll actually TALK and communicate about this important part of your life. Talking about it is difficult to do, but the prompts and the posts make it much easier. That's often when breakthroughs happen!

Who will benefit from this book?

Newlyweds who want to start off well!
Couples for whom life has become blah and too routine
Couples who have almost given up hope that sex can become great
Couples in conflict because one spouse wants sex more frequently than the other

In other words--just about every married couple. It doesn't matter where you are in your marriage, the 31 Days to Great Sex will help you talk about sex more, think about intimacy more, and feel much closer together.

How does it work?

Each day has a topic, like "Embracing the Skin She's In", "Hitting the Reset Button on your Sex Life", or "How Do You Decide Your Sexual Boundaries?" There's a short write-up you read together, and then there's a challenge for you to do, often containing some conversation prompts. And yes--there's plenty in there about how to make sex feel great, too.

We're meant to have an abundant marriage--so don't settle for mediocre. Make this the most fun project you'll ever do together as a couple.

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  • File Size: 344 KB
  • Print Length: 160 pages
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #25,887 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read for Every Couple! December 2, 2012
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I LOVED this e-book! Sheila has written a sensitive and compassionate how-to guide for attaining the sexual intimacy you've always wanted. She covers the basics of why sex is so important to a healthy marriage and then builds on that foundation with in-depth discussions and tools for emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy. As a therapist, I appreciate that this book also speaks to women with a history of sexual abuse. Sheila sensitively addresses their potential fears and/or concerns and provides some helpful suggestions. I would recommend this book to any couple - from the newly married to those who have been married for decades and wish to spice things up in the bedroom. A terrific resource!
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9 of 11 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Torn... July 23, 2013
By E. C.
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This is a great book. It has wonderful suggestions. However, it contains almost all of the same info that her 29 days to great sex blog series does. It also contains a few sentences that seem to be word for word from her other book about good girls (not sure if it will blank out full names). For only 4 dollars, its not a bad buy. And if you are too lazy to scroll through the blog post and dont own her other book, than its possible everything will be fresh and new and you will get a lot from this book. However, I had read the series and own her other book, so this was a disappointment to me. It does offer a little bit extra information, but not enough to justify 1. buying it, and 2. writing it in the first place.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Challenging book! April 24, 2013
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I would recommend this to any couple that is willing to put time and energy into your marriage. The second most important decision in your life - marriage (after the first being salvation by Jesus), we need it to remain first on our list - meaning BEFORE our kids, BEFORE our job, BEFORE our family and friendships. If we give our spouse the last of our energy we will become like the majority of our misguided culture and dispose of them for something newer and deceptively better. Read it and start communicating with your spouse!
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Challenge for the Holiday Season November 14, 2012
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Sheila Wray Gregoire is very frank when it comes to her discussion of great sex inside marriage, which is how God intended. That's a good thing! She offers practical advice to all women on how to spice things up in the bedroom!
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Great read November 25, 2012
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I enjoyed how the author mentioned that sex is not only for intimacy but also emotional connection. As a man I have learn ed that my wives desires are not only physical like mine.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Thank you Sheila! July 9, 2013
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We are working through the book and it is really helping us to reconnect...we are busy and do not take the time for each other. Some of the lessons are very challenging for us because we have let so many things slip. I would recommend this book for couples. Remember though, you get out of it what you put into it. "We" are responsible for keeping the "love" alive in our marriage, Sheila gives us tools to do that.
Thank you Sheila for helping us with this touchy and tough subject!
Teri : )
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Well worth your time and money! January 7, 2013
By Wade
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This eBook is well thought out and full of quality information. No filler here. An insightful look into how we think about sex and practical ways to become closer as a couple emotionally, spiritually and physically. The "challenges" at the end of each chapter will leave you thinking, have you talking with your spouse, or give you a ideas on how to apply the chapter. A refreshing read after all the rubbish that is pushed on us by the media. I recommend it highly.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome! August 7, 2013
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This book really helped us a lot. It seemed to cover every thing we were struggling with and with a God centered, Christian perspective and I really didn't want a book just about "good sex" without involving that aspect of it. The author is really open and honest and the style was perfect! I didn't really think a book would help, but it has!!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome information
Great common sense advise for marriages.
I will recommend this book to my Christian sisters.
God bless
Keep it pure
Published 8 days ago by Tess Shipp
3.0 out of 5 stars Three Stars
It's a devotional for couples.
Published 1 month ago by malea young
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
This came really fast & I am excited to delve into this book.
Published 1 month ago by Tracy Cox
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a book I should have read years ago, thanks Sheila Wray...
Every married couple should get this and every other book written by Sheila Wray Gregoire. She corrects the thinking of far too many Christians.
Published 1 month ago by GRay2Hairs
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Always a good read!
Published 2 months ago by DS
3.0 out of 5 stars Three Stars
Not an easy book to just sit and read
Published 2 months ago by Kendra Brown
4.0 out of 5 stars Four Stars
Good so far, but still working on it. It's a good process for couples.
Published 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars christians and especially Christian wives need to understand the power...
Great book with a nice attitude towards the gift of God for a married couple. However, the book is a help but never replaces the committed covenant keepers that choose love and... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Capn Jack
5.0 out of 5 stars Informational
My husband and I are both reading it. I has been good for our relationship and has given us the opportunity to open the lines of communication between us. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Jean
3.0 out of 5 stars different...
Worth a try....
Published 7 months ago by Chandra =)
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More About the Author

Sheila Wray Gregoire is a Christian speaker, columnist, and author. She's written five books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. She loves speaking about marriage, parenting, and keeping our eyes on Jesus. She lives in Ontario, Canada, with her husband of 20 years and her two daughters, whom she homeschools.

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