27 of 29 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars
Shallow and scattered, February 22, 2010
I have a tension with Christmas. I absolutely love it, and yet sometimes feel like we're missing the point. Tradition is not bad, but even well-intentioned and meaningful traditions can also become idols.
So, when I received 25 Days, 26 Ways to Make This Your Best Christmas Ever to review, I was skeptical but hoping for the best. The book is written in short chapters that are intended to be read one at a time from December 1st through the 25th. This is not a devotional, but rather a light "reflective reading" book from a Christian perspective.
I have to say, as I began reading this little book my hopes were lifting. I really enjoyed reading Ace Collins' accounts of the historical "Good King Wenceslas" [I never knew he was a real person!], the church's historical observance of advent, the way Christian missionaries in years long ago used mistletoe and evergreen trees to share the gospel, the roots of some of our most beloved Christmas carols, and Martin Luther being the first to add candles to the Christmas tree to symbolize Jesus as the Light of the World. Collins' historical tidbits really did add a new layer of understanding and appreciation to Christmas traditions for me. I also appreciated the emphasis he rightly placed on giving and generosity, and that we should be seeking to emulate the love and heart of Christ.
BUT. I found Collins' approach to refocusing on the meaning of the season to be shallow and scattered. His approach to lessening stress during the holidays seems to be "do more and be happy about it." I felt like my hand was being slapped [albeit jovially] for not being a person who typically sends Christmas cards - and in fact, that I should be picking out individual cards that reflect the tastes of each friend and family member I send them to. I should pick out more gifts more thoughtfully. I should put up more lights more carefully. I should bake more cookies and give them away. I should take more pictures. Oh, and if I'm finding myself too rushed I should slow down and ride my bike. If I feel stressed about these things I should hum a Christmas carol and "turn my frown upside down."
No matter how meaningful the roots of our Christmas traditions, I still contend that those very traditions can become idols that can overtake our focus on Christ. They aren't bad - Christmas cards, lights, decorations, music, shopping, baking... all are enjoyable and fun and can create lovely memories. But perhaps instead of doing more and feeling guilty about not embracing a Clever-family Christmas, we should consider doing less. Perhaps we need to free ourselves a bit from the guilt of all of the "must-do" items on our agendas this time of year that really don't matter in the lens of eternity.
In short, if you're looking for a light and mildly interesting read about Christmas traditions, this might be what you're looking for. Just please take it with a grain of salt and banish the guilt of feeling that you must do more.
Consider learning about traditions, carefully choose what you will do, and do less... with more purpose. :)
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14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Yes, my BEST Christmas Ever, November 30, 2009
I packed this book to take on a business trip with me mid November. As I sat in my hotel room with no distractions I opened the book and instantly became thankful it had been written. The hotel I was staying in was already decked for Christmas as well as the shopping malls I had visited earlier in the day. That bothered me a bit until I read the first few pages and learned that during World War II, President Franklin D. Roosevels asked folks to shop and mail their gifts early to ensure loved ones overseas received their packages. I thought of all of our soldiers and sailors serving right now during wartime and became filled with emotions of thankfulness to them.
I am a Christian. I go to church each Sunday. Our church recognizes Advent each Christmas. I never understood the real meaning of Advent until I read this book.
The history of the Christmas Tree, Mistle toe, etc have all been revealed to me now.
Most important of all though is how this book has given me the desire to serve others, share my joy with others, give of myself in ways I never thought of all in the Spirit of Christmas, the True Spirit in Which Christmas was intended. Please read this book. It will change your life.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Full of history and suggestions, December 17, 2009
This is a well-researched and thoughtful book. Collins goes into interesting detail as to the origins of many Christmas songs, decorations and traditions. One of my favorite chapters was where he describes the meaning of "The Twelve Days of Christmas". The book is jam packed with ways to make this holiday season your best ever. Much of the focus is on doing Christmas related activities as a family and serving others. He even includes recipes for Christmas treats.
Collins also writes about slowing down, not getting stressed and enjoying the season. However, if one were to put all the suggestions into place, I don't see how it would be possible to slow down! Also, many of his suggestions seemed to assume that family members would be willing participants in all these activities. I can picture larger and more hectic families where it would be very difficult to get everyone on the same page.
In summary, the book is full of history and ideas as to how to put a lot into the season so you'll get the most out of it. While it is probably unrealistic to follow all of his suggestions, there are a great amount to pick and choose from. They are also many great reminders as to what a special time of the year this can be.
This book was provided for review by Zondervan.
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