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Deal with It! A Whole New Approach to Your Body, Brain, and Life as a gURL [Paperback]

Esther Drill , Rebecca Odes , Heather McDonald
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (94 customer reviews)


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Book Description

September 1, 1999
Deal With It! offers a whole new approach for dealing with your life as a girl. It's a resource to help you learn about, laugh about, and figure out the stuff you go through on your way through life. It won't tell you what to do, because you'll need to decide that for yourself. But whether you're wondering about your body, your feelings or your changing relationships with the people around you, this book provides accurate information and outlines your options. Hilarious illustrations point out the humor in even the sorriest situations. And with hundreds of excerpts from real-girl conversations on the gURL.com website, you can see for real that whatever you're going through, you're not alone.

This book is for anyone who needs to know what it means to be a girl -- from those on the edge of their teens to those who are way past them but still reeling from the trauma.



Editorial Reviews

Amazon.com Review

The birds and bees have never been so hip, thanks to Esther Drill, Heather McDonald, and Rebecca Odes, creators of gURL.com and authors of Deal with It! A Whole New Approach to Your Body, Brain and Life as a gURL. As their Web site blossomed in popularity, the gURLs noticed that today's teens have the same questions about sex, love, and growing up that they had as teens. "Hearing what they had to say convinced us that there was a need for a new kind of book about being a girl, one that's smart, funny, approachable, and tuned in to the things girls really want to know." With chapters such as "Boobs," "What's Up Down There," "To Do It or Not to Do It," and "Those Sucky Emotions," the gURLs have got everything covered--with the frankness, humor, and style frustratingly absent from the majority of similarly themed books. All topics are fair game: zit remedies; a dazzling array of hair removal techniques; masturbation methods; sexual positions and orientations; what to do if you are raped; how to deal with anger, depression, and anxiety; the physical effects of different drugs; how to get along with friends and family; and more. In addition to a cooler-than-cool, color-drenched layout and loads of detailed info, Deal with It includes a ton of questions, comments, and personal advice from teenage girls who frequent gURL.com. Reading page after page of these earnest, confused, and curious young voices drives home the need for a book like Deal with It and makes clear that the women of gURL.com have met that challenge with resounding success. (Ages 12 and older) --Brangien Davis

From Publishers Weekly

Following a recent trend, Web gurus Drill, McDonald and Odes have translated their highly popular Web site, gURL.com, into print, taking a holistic approach to those perennial teen concerns: changing bodies, emotions, desires and lives. In a frank, nonjudgmental tone, they discuss topics and details that more conservative guides might skip: lesbianism and bisexuality receive respectful and thorough treatment that is remarkably well-integrated into the broader discussion of sex in this happily nonphallocentric book; the section on illegal drugs is evenhanded; and the discussion of treatments of eating disorders, other mental illnesses and suicide are honest and informative. Each section ends with a comprehensive list of topical resources: Web sites, hot lines, books and organizations. In addition to the authors' valuable commentary, a good deal of the text is made up of outtakes from girls' online dialogues culled from the site, revealing a thoughtful and supportive cybercommunity able to respond unflinchingly to the many issues covered. Young readers, liberal parents and educators will welcome the authors' openness and lack of boosterism . Full-color illustrations throughout. Agent, Julie Merberg, Roundtable Press, Inc.; 5-city author tour. (Sept.)
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Gallery Books; Original edition (September 1, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0671041576
  • ISBN-13: 978-0671041571
  • Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 0.7 x 8.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.8 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (94 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #285,146 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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112 of 115 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Informative! To bad it wasn't out when I was 12 February 20, 2000
By Sophia
Format:Paperback
I work at a bookstore and I noticed that a lot of young middle school girls were buying this book. So out of curiosity I bought one for myself and took it home. Let me say that it tells you EVERYTHING....Every single question you have about being a teen girl is answered in that book. From your body (and even the yucky parts about it) to your brain (emotional problems) and this isn't a little corny valley girl book. And now that I am 17 I thought I knew it all, I thought it was almost over because when I turned 18 being a teen girl would turn into a legal adult girl. But even my stubborn self learned a great deal. It has a lot of pictures and descriptions and comments from other teen girls. If your a parent I suggest you buy this for your young preteen (even 10 year olds!) we all need to be prepared for this time in our lives and there are some things you just can't talk about with your parents... In a nutshell this is one of the best books I've ever read.
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35 of 38 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT! (for younger girls, that is) December 29, 1999
Format:Paperback
I bought the Gurl book after knowing about the Gurl website for quite some time. Luckily, this book fills it all in. I was impressed by all the information on everything a girl needs to know, all about sex, pregnancy, depression, parents, etc. etc. I think I'm maybe a little too old for the book now (I'm 18) but I'd totally recommend it for 12-16 year-olds. Some parents might not like the content (it discusses oral sex, etc.) but a girl's gonna learn about it some time, so it might as well be in a healthy, factual way. Definitely worth the money.
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20 of 21 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars For ages 13 and up, I'd say June 16, 2004
Format:Paperback
Keep in mind that this book is not something to read cover-to-cover like a novel - it is much more of a reference book. Basically, it talks about sex, puberty, and changes in the body, as well as drugs, a bit of peer pressure, and certain kinds of mental illnesses. Still, parents need to know what they are buying their girls. My mom bought it for me while I was away at camp and for whatever reason, shipped it to me while I was residing up in the Pocono Mountains. The girls in my bunk went crazy and laughed hysterically over the pictures. Then, they proceeded to pass it around the bunk and read passages out loud. Every once in awhile, a counselor would find the book wide open on her pillow, flipped to a page with some diagram on it.

Yes, THOSE kind of diagrams. Body parts.

This is info every girl ought to know about, however. Nothing really ought to be deemed controversial here. This book basically talks about life, or something like it. What goes on in this book is happening, as I speak, to girls everywhere. If you've got qualms about graphic CARTOON pictures, then do not by this book. And for mothers reading this, I suggest your girl be in the eighth grade. Or if she's 12 and mature...what the hell. They'll find out everything here sooner or later!

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5.0 out of 5 stars The best book for adolescent girls
This was the book I read when I was 14 and learning about all the changes that came along with puberty, including sex, body, life, and mental health. Read more
Published 3 months ago by stynen
5.0 out of 5 stars The Reason I'm Not On Drugs
I am in no way being facetious when I state that this book is the reason I have never tried drugs. It has an extensive section on all sorts of uppers, downers, psychedelics, and... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Jess H
5.0 out of 5 stars Very helpful
I am now 24 years old and I read this book in middle school. I haven't forgotten it. As a budding girl, it was so so so important to know what was happening to me and that it was... Read more
Published 6 months ago by Addy
1.0 out of 5 stars Disgusting
This book is not appropriate for girls it is more of a book for adults than it is for children. The vulgar slang words shouldn't be taught to young girls. Read more
Published 13 months ago by neatjenny
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Resource
I have recommended this book for adolescent girls middle school - high school. I've also bought for others and allowed for it to be borrowed! Read more
Published 16 months ago by Sharifah
5.0 out of 5 stars HUGE FAN of this book!
I was given this book (the first addition) when I was in 8th grade by a caring older cousin who knew our family was a bit on the conservative side and didn't talk about sensitive... Read more
Published 16 months ago by paigeinflipflops
2.0 out of 5 stars Condition: NEW----or NOT
I ordered this book because a friend of mine has it for her daughter. I LOVE this book, I think it is written very well for a teen-age audience and is a great read for all those... Read more
Published on May 25, 2010 by katiep
5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely AMAZING, covers everything you're too embarrassed to ask!
I bought this book for myself when I was 12, and to me it was like the bible of girlhood. It covers absolutely EVERYTHING you've every wanted/needed to know when growing up. Read more
Published on November 12, 2009 by Wyndham S. Juneau
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for Everybody
My wife and I bought this for our 13 year old daughter, but now our younger daughter (age 9) and son (age 5) have looked through it, picking out the parts that only interest them -... Read more
Published on July 26, 2009 by Marco Polo "Bruce"
5.0 out of 5 stars Answering the questions female teens may not want to ask!
I got this book when I was around 12 years old and remember it being a book I turned to for answers to questions I was too embarrassed to ask about and at the time I couldn't just... Read more
Published on July 4, 2009 by Girl Next Door
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