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Dear Cary: My Life with Cary Grant [Kindle Edition]

Dyan Cannon
4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (694 customer reviews)

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Withhonesty and heart-rending emotion, actress and filmmaker DyanCannon tells the story of her topsy-turvy relationship with Hollywood legendCary Grant. Cannon’s captivating narrative takes the reader behind the scenesof Hollywood’s Golden Age, inside America’s high court of glamour and notorietyin which Cary Grant was king. In his private life alongside Cannon, however, astory that began with all the romance of his famous films—Charade, ToCatch a Thief, An Affair to Remember or The Philadelphia Story—wouldend up taking a series of tragic and unpredictable twists and turns. Insharing Grant’s inside story for the first time, Dear Cary is exactlywhat Hollywood is always looking for . . . the next blockbuster, and a storyfor romance lovers of all ages.  


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He was the most charming, handsome, romantic, and famous leading man in the world... what could possibly go wrong?

With unparalleled honesty, Dyan Cannon shares the heartwarming and heartbreaking story of her magical romance and stormy marriage to screen legend Cary Grant. He was the ultimate star, defining Hollywood glamour as well as cinematic achievement. She was a bright new actress, beautiful and funny, who would one day prove her talent by being the first woman to receive Academy Award nominations for her work on-screen and behind the camera.

When he asked to meet Dyan, she assumed it was for an acting part, but he had a different role in mind for her...and so began a storybook romance that brought her to dizzying heights. On his arm, she found herself traveling in the inner circles of power and glamour in which Cary Grant was king, with friends such as Jimmy Stewart, Frank Sinatra, Audrey Hepburn, and so many others considered Hollywood royalty.

Behind closed doors, she discovered a Cary no one knew. A thoughtful, caring, and private person, with dark family secrets that weighed heavily on him. He was a man contending with the swan song of an astonishing film career while her career was just beginning. Despite the age difference, they fell in love, got married, and had a beautiful daughter together. Happily Ever After still proved elusive, and their relationship was beset with tragic twists and turns. It took a tremendous toll on Dyan as she struggled to keep her heart and mind intact.

With rare photos and never-before-seen letters and notes from Cary Grant, Dear Cary is told with poignancy and hard-won wisdom. For anyone who has ever loved and lost, Dyan Cannon’s memoir is an exploration of what love means, and an inspirational story of surviving life’s slings and arrows.

A Look Inside Dear Cary
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Aloha! A snap from a Hawaiian-themed party Cary and I attended during our first year of dating. You may kiss the bride! Cary’s attorney Stanley Fox stands at left. Addie Gould, my agent and best friend, right. One thing we always agreed on: Our baby was the most beautiful baby in the world! (Philippe Halsman/Magnum Photos) Frank Sinatra’s weekend soirée for Rosalind Russell. $25,000 is still a lot of money for a party, but the same affair today could have cost as much as a quarter-million dollars. What more can a girl ask for than to have Cary Grant as her driver?


Review

“Dyan Cannon has written a complex and captivating memoir…an unqualified success.” (New York Journal of Books )

“A revealing look at Cannon’s relationship with her first husband, who happened to be a Hollywood legend. (USA Today )

“Cannon writes of her time with one of Hollywood’s most glamorous and charming men and of her own life, pre- and post-Grant...with refreshing humor.. For those who enjoy memoirs of gutsy survivors.” (Library Journal )

“Candid.” (Los Angeles Times )

“[Cannon’s] candid memoir chronicles the near fairy tale May-December romance between the ingénue and the legendary star.” (Los Angeles Times )

Product Details

  • File Size: 3659 KB
  • Print Length: 352 pages
  • Publisher: It Books; Reprint edition (September 20, 2011)
  • Sold by: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004T4LQMY
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #31,679 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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242 of 251 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Great Airport Book September 24, 2011
Format:Hardcover
I am probably not the target demographic for this book, and in fact grabbed it only because I was rushed and it was the first thing I saw that looked halfway interesting. I'm a middle-aged guy and usually read "serious" fiction but I'm also a movie buff, and who doesn't like Cary Grant? For that matter, what guy doesn't want to BE Cary Grant? For that matter, there's not a guy my age who didnt have a thing for Dyan Cannon back in the day. Well, what a nice surprise that "Dear Cary" is a damn fine read. It got me from Seattle to Miami, and halfway back, and I was sorry when I reached the end, with nothing but crappy in-flight magazines to carry me through the rest of the trip. It reads like good fiction, really well-written, but it also struck me as really as completely sincere. Grant was a pretty complex dude, really brilliant, and Madame Cannon who's one smart chick herself really probes into his mind and his dark side. She really took some emotionally rough treatment but what sets this book apart from most of its ilk is that she never falls into self-pity or whines about being a victim. And even many of the darker parts are funny. This book is very charming, but underneath it all is a quite serious point about the nature of romantic relationships. Good goin, Dyan.
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139 of 148 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover|Verified Purchase
The title of this book refers to a letter written by Dyan Cannon to Cary Grant. The letter appears at the end of the book,summing up Cannon's take on her turbulent relationship and marriage to Grant...as well as her journey to self- realization.

This memoir is an easy read and gives a basic chronology of Grant's life with Cannon. For me, the most interesting sections described Grant's early and often painful life - as he related it to Dyan, along with her own recollections of meeting Grant's mother.

I'd hoped for detailed descriptions of conversations between Cannon and Grant. What did they discuss? But such details are lacking, a point Dyan herself acknowledges when she writes that she simply can't have perfect recall of their conversations.

Instead she attempts to remain faithful, as she puts it, to "the way we talked". Her honesty is appreciated. Just don't expect to find much depth in the sections focusing on the couple's conversations.

On the Kindle edition of this book,there is a disclaimer that the book is a "work of fiction." This sentence appears under the word "copyright" which is printed in blue. From other reader comments, it seems that the disclaimer may be in another part of the book - or perhaps not at all. I can only vouch for the Kindle edition.

There are some solid reasons to recommend this book to fans of Cary Grant and/or Dyan Cannon. Grant's fascination with LSD
as a path to spiritual growth is not glossed over. He pushes Dyan to take the drug and I'll leave it to potential readers to learn about her experiences with acid. No spoilers about that.

Cannon's analysis of Grant's flaws seemed very credible to me and can be supported by other biographies of the actor.
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63 of 70 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars It starts with a bang but leaves unanswered questions September 28, 2011
By Bubsy
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
I simply could not put this book down while reading about Cary and Dyan's courtship. Imagine a 20-something aspiring starlet catching the eye of Cary Grant one of the most distinguished, sophisticated and drop dead handsome men to have ever graced the silver screen. He pursued her and she ran the other way. Riveting reading and the stuff of movies. Details of their travels, the famous people she met etc etc enhanced the story even further. I was amazed that after nearly 40 years she could recall so much detail. Then, they get married and the party's over. That's where I began to ask myself questions: how could this ardent lover suddenly and completely lose interest in Dyan! It just didn't completely add up and she didn't provide very satisfying explanations. Yes he'd come from a dysfunctional family and yes he took LSD regularly which was terrifying for Dyan who indulged a few times to keep him happy but I finished the book wishing I could have gotten his side of the story. And I understand it was a very nasty divorce though that is not in the memoir. I feel much has been left out and that's where the memoir fails to satisfy. Otherwise I liked it and enjoyed the photos and Cary's love notes written on stationery from some of the ritziest hotels in the world.
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38 of 44 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Hollywood Memoir I've ever Read September 21, 2011
By Mary
Format:Hardcover
I couldn't put this book down. It's funny, captivating and breezy and poignant all at the same time. I don't know if she had a ghost writer help her, but the writing is really good. It's really from the heart. I'm a big Cary Grant fan, and this is definitely the most intimate thing ever written about him. I felt like I really got to know him, and anyone can see how Dyan Cannon loved him so much, flaws and all. This is a really first rate, classy book. Now my husband's reading it and he can't put it down either.
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39 of 47 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant and inspired September 21, 2011
Format:Hardcover
What a pleasure to read a celebrity's book that isn't a tell-all and ego booster! In a gripping page turner, Dyan Cannon gives us the unvarnished truth of her experience of disappointment and forgiveness, acting out and healing that all can relate to while learning from her emotional journey where to turn for our own healing. Though our experiences may not have been on such an exotic level - we can't all have been married to Cary Grant and flown to London to watch a tennis match - Miss Cannon lets us see that we are all human and face the same challenges in this schoolhouse of our souls that is this earthly life. A unique book that will help so many.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
1.0 out of 5 stars Was disappointed. Wasn't what I expected
Was disappointed. Wasn't what I expected.
Published 21 hours ago by Soups
4.0 out of 5 stars A Healed Heart's Depiction of a Romance and Nasty Divorce
Dyan Cannon was a young actress, just starting to make a name for herself, when Cary Grant glimpsed her in a guest starring role on a television show and requested to meet her. Read more
Published 1 day ago by Jil Christiansen
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book.
This was very interesting and informative. I've always adored Cary Grant, and quite frankly, disliked Dyan Cannon for divorcing him. Read more
Published 1 day ago by Margie Schwartz
4.0 out of 5 stars I did enjoy Dyan's writing and the way she told her story
Not sure I wanted to know this much about Cary Grant, the husband. I did enjoy Dyan's writing and the way she told her story. Read more
Published 2 days ago by erbjorum
4.0 out of 5 stars What an unexpected happy ending! A grandchild with the same...
What an unexpected happy ending! A grandchild with the same traits--Nancy Iden, Forsyth, Mo.
Published 2 days ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
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Published 2 days ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars great book
great book
Published 4 days ago by M. Bowes
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Loved it !!!
Published 5 days ago by Kathie L. Chamberlain
4.0 out of 5 stars I enjoyed the book
I enjoyed the book, being a teenager in the 60's. Cary Grant was an idol of mine. I think Dyan Cannon shared her story with respect for him, yet being very honest.
Published 5 days ago by sajquilter
4.0 out of 5 stars Four Stars
Very interesting
Published 6 days ago by elaura garcia
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