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Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: VICE Books; 1st Trade Pbk. Ed edition (August 7, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1576874400
  • ISBN-13: 978-1576874400
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 7.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (36 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #987,157 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Lesley Arfin was born in Long Island, NY in 1979. She graduated with a BA from Hampshire College in 2001. Besides writing the “Dear Diary” column in Vice, she has written a number of other articles for the magazine, including “The Vice Guide to Guilty Pleasure” and “The Vice Guide to Finding Yourself,” both of which appeared in The Vice Guide to Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll. Her work has also appeared in Jane, i-D, Nylon, Paper, and Fashion Now 2 (Taschen, 2005). She lives in New York City.

Customer Reviews

I felt this book just scratched the surface and it made for ok reading to boring.
A. Baker
Though some of the subject matters were tough like later in the book with heroin it was still a very pleasant and light read for me.
Aubrey
I mean, I know it's not meant to make everyone go "Omg, that was totally me!" but it was just too far gone.
Cristina Vistian

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34 of 36 people found the following review helpful By Stephanie Cake on August 7, 2007
Format: Hardcover Verified Purchase
I can't say I hated Dear Diary but I'm not a total convert like all the other reviewers here.

There are definitely some sections - particularly her middle and high school entries - where I felt like "OMG, that's EXACTLY how I was feeling at that age." And her updated commentary on some of those passages is really spot on and, in some cases, very funny. I also thought her description of her first time in rehab had some bittersweet, and in one case, hilarious, moments.

But on the other hand, as another reviewer mentions, I have a really hard time with her claim that she published the book to let girls know they aren't alone in what they might be going through. Nothing in her "update" commentary is particularly dissuading about drug use... or even tormenting your friends, for that matter. She seems to have taken thinly veiled delight in the fact that, although her middle school friends tormented and ousted her, they were also tormented and ousted by each other.

While she is a decent writer, and the entries aren't quite as boring as one reviewer would have you believe, I was ultimately left with the feeling that I really don't like or care about Leslie that much. She may be sober now and she may have gone through the school of hard knocks like a real champ but she still comes across like an immature, spoiled upper middle class Gen-Xer. Ironically, she pretty much admits this.
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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful By Kenneth Simon on November 1, 2008
Format: Paperback
When I first picked up Dear Diary from a stack of vacation reading, I thought it was going to be a funny read. The idea/gimmick is that the author goes through the diary she kept through her teen years, comments on the entries, and tries to track down the people she knew at the time to get their perspective on things.

Once I got a better look at the book, I realized that it was not just for laughs or nostalgia: the author descended into heroin addiction during her teen years, and she uses the diary entries to track her journey into drug use.

The book was a disappointment. The author tries to juxtapose her adult self with her teen self, but she actually comes off as as self-absorbed adult who thinks she's much more interesting than she is. When she tracks down childhood friends (and enemies), she doesn't get much out of them -- nothing you can't experience firsthand by finding your old classmates online and asking them what they remember about you.

It's hard to form a solid criticism of Dear Diary, because there's not enough substance there to critique. It tries to be funny, deep, even a cautionary tale, but it really doesn't hit the mark on any of these things. I was left feeling glad that Arfin got her drug addiction under control, but not so glad that I'd spent time reading her book.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By L. Patton on December 25, 2007
Format: Hardcover
I enjoyed reading this book and it does have its very honest, brave and hilarious moments. But I didn't feel like I could identify with a lot of the book and I agree with another reviewer-- nothing about this book particularly strikes me as, "These were my mistakes; don't make them too." I found the style of writing to be refreshingly conversational, but sometimes a little self-centered or self-righteous. Still, I enjoyed reading this book and will probably read it again in a few years.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Cristina Vistian on December 20, 2008
Format: Paperback
I couldn't relate to this book at all. I mean, I know it's not meant to make everyone go "Omg, that was totally me!" but it was just too far gone. The only thing that made it bearable to read 'til the end -- were the commentaries. And that's not good enough. The drug usage was too much and too prevalent in everything. There was far too little information and detail to patch all the stories together throughout the book, as well.
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15 of 20 people found the following review helpful By Lori Eisenkraft on March 25, 2008
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author is shallow and full of herself...basically, she's the person who just wants to go on and on and on because she likes hearing herself speak.

there is nothing useful or helpful here, the writing is weak, undeveloped, and juvenile; the author seems very proud of herself for what she was involved in--and what info there is of that is very sketchy...even as i was reading this 5-minute story, i found myself wondering why this book was published at all.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Lolly on July 13, 2012
Format: Hardcover
I really loved this book...and I'm 42! Lesly Arfin got on my radar when I saw her in an episode of Girls. She was quirky and interesting to watch...and when I tried to find out more about who she was I came across this book. Every time I expected her to get corny and trite, she didn't. I found her writing to be really fresh and honest, and with feelings that any girl (or grown woman) could relate to having felt. And I loved the clever device of her reconnecting with these people from her past to find out their take of what had gone down (why did that mean girl treat her crappy in 8th grade...why didn't that one guy ever call her again, etc.). I was a big fan of her writing style and voice and look forward to tracking down more of Lesley Arfin to read.
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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Merri Oakley on January 29, 2009
Format: Paperback
I found this book appalling. Like another reviewer I picked this up thinking it would be a good beach book.

The writing is juvenile, the writer self absorbed. Rather than a cautionary tale, I thought it came off more as a teen guide to how much fun it is to abuse drugs and alcohol. Her advice to teen girls on first time sex - make sure you are really, really drunk. The descriptions of herion use were contradictory. At times she said it was bad, but mostly she talked about how great it feels.

I am pretty liberal, but I certainly wouldn't want my teen daughter reading this.
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