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Dear God, Why Can't I Have a Baby?: A Companion Guide for Couples on the Infertility Journey [Paperback]

Janet Thompson
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Book Description

April 15, 2011
Dear God, Why Can't I Have a Baby? provides women and ''couples-in-waiting'' with tools, direction, guidance, hope, and encouragement not to lose faith in God, or in each other, as they strive to share their love with a child.

Rachel's cry of barrenness in Genesis 31:1, ''Give me children, or I'll die!'' is a wail that still echoes around the world, as one in six couples experience infertility. Infertility statistics are staggering: nearly 6.1 million women and 2.1 million married couples in the United States will experience difficulty having a child.

Onlookers, and sadly even churches, often treat these ''empty arms'' couples with indifference, platitudes, criticism, or minimize the pain of miscarriages and stillborn babies. Couples struggling with infertility say they often feel alone and ostracized in their own churches and families. As a result, many infertile couples grow desperate, and some like Rachel, even feel suicidal when denied the one dream they have had since childhood-having a baby.

This book seeks to ease readers' pain and accompany them on their infertility journey by offering: companionship, a place to cry, a way to journal and keep records, and most importantly, the strengthening of their faith in God.


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About the Author

Janet Thompson has a heart for this topic because of her own infertility scare as a young newlywed and from watching two of her daughters try to fulfill their heart's desire to become mothers. She is the founder and director of About His Work Ministries, and an author and speaker on topics relevant to today's Christian. In 1995 she founded and led the Woman to Woman Mentoring Ministry at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, California.She holds an MA in Christian Leadership from Fuller Theological Seminary, and is the author of numerous books, including Face-to-Face Bible Study Series, (New Hope, 2009), Praying for Your Prodigal Daughter (Howard, 2008), and Dear God, They Say It's Cancer (Howard, 2006). She lives in Orange County, California.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Leafwood Publishers (April 15, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0891122745
  • ISBN-13: 978-0891122746
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #791,378 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The Best Companion for Your Infertility Journey! March 28, 2011
By kkbates
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I love the way this book is written in 21 chapters that follow infertility as it actually happened to us and unfortunately, to many of our friends. From Chapter One where we decided "It's time to have a baby", through to Chapter Four - "Paralyzing Shock" of the diagnosis, to other roads of "Starting Treatments", "Making it Through the Bad Days" & "Grieving the Losses". You'll laugh, cry, and more importantly, know you are not alone on this amazingly difficult journey!
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I just purchased two more copies of "Dear God, Why Can't I Have a Baby?" --one to replace my library copy that I gave away and one for a new friend trying to become pregnant.

Some books are meant to be read and then assigned a place in your library. Janet Thompson's two "Dear God..." books are meant to be Companion Guides--invaluable books you (1) read together with your mate, (2) take with you to the doctor's office, or (3) share with your best friend. Or better, you buy it for a girl friend, guy friend, or a couple going through the process of becoming pregnant--the honesty of the stories shared from several men was especially moving. Guys, this book is for you too.

"Dear God..." provides real-life input from women, men, and couples already on this sometimes emotionally painful experience. Yes, this book has a spiritual focus--but creating life has a spiritual component to it and whether or not you (or the friend you buy it for) have a spiritual bent, this book will be a valuable and meaningful asset to anyone on this "I Want A Baby" journey.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
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If you have ever whispered in prayer, "Dear God, why can't I have a baby?" you have found a friend for this emotional detour in Janet Thompson. Her book, aptly titled, "Dear God, Why Can't I Have a Baby?" is the book I wish I'd had in the 90s during my own struggles to become a mother. Somehow, Thompson covers it all in this book! The heartache and disappointment of course, but also the quiet talks we have with God and the prayers we send up through a shower of tears; the reactions to the advice from those around us, to finding joy despite our circumstances. Thompson even calls the forms and charts in the book's index "Sanity Tools."

Throughout the book she offers scriptures that comes to life; mentoring moments with wise yet sensitive advice; journal entries to remind the reader that she is not alone; God's love letter to the reader, and a place for the reader to write a note back to God. There is even a couple's prayer in each section, a much-needed yet rare resource. Far too many couples find themselves growing farther apart through infertility when they could be using the experience to become closer. "Daddy-in-waiting" reflections also provide validation of the mixed feelings men may carry silently.

There is not a book that can cure infertility, but this book can end the bitterness, frustrations, loss of joy, and even resentment. When we are suffering, loves ones are quick to say, "Be sure to grow closer to God during this time, not farther away," but when you are deep in the pit of grief, you need a helping hand to do this. Thompson's "Dear God, Why Can't I Have a Baby?" helps the spiritual and emotional struggle seem to be one that is able to be conquered.
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5.0 out of 5 stars God is listening! June 18, 2011
By G.B.
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Infertility is such an isolating disease and brings up tons of "why me" questions. I ordered this book at the right time and found huge solace in it's words and guidance. Hearing about other women's struggles with infertility made it much less isolating. The bible passages help guide you through the myriad of emotions that go along with infertility and show that one true constant that God has a wonderful plan for each and every one of us. As another reviewer commented you will laugh and cry through this book and not be able to put it down!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book for those dealing with infertility! February 1, 2012
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I found this book to be so comforting, when I first received it I was skeptical It would be very generic like the other books I have read. This book is very real and has real accounts from many different couples on their specific infertility journeys. I like that the book is truly meant to be a companion for you, bring it to your appointments and counseling sessions; it has sections for documenting your questions and your feelings. It is much more interactive and really helps you to feel like you are on a path and have a direction. Even my husband has liked what he has read so far, and we are able to discuss the scenarios in the book even before the doctor brings them up, so we aren't so blind going into this process. I could not put this book down once I received it, though I haven't finished it though as it has sections for whatever stage you are in your infertility and some don't yet apply to us.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Powerful and Touching... June 8, 2011
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Wow! What a beautiful, compassionate, wonderful resource for women who are struggling with infertility and secondary infertility. Janet's godly wisdom and compassionate advice shine through the pages. I poured over it (having struggled with secondary infertility, myself) and am now recommending it as a resource for many women I know who are struggling with these issues.
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