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Dear Old Love: Anonymous Notes to Former Crushes, Sweethearts, Husbands, Wives, & Ones That Got Away [Hardcover]

Andy Selsberg
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Book Description

November 15, 2009
Call it wisdom of the heart. Or the broken heart.

A knowing, funny gift for everyone who's ever been in love and then out of love: the newly single, the lonely-hearted, and even the happily re-paired. Dear Old Love is a collection of anonymous love notes to the ones who got away—or were left behind. They're the notes that ex-lovers have written to set the record straight. Or crooked. They're concise, witty, melancholy, revealing, sweet, sentimental, outrageous, withering, indignant, sometimes all at the same time. And like a pitch-perfect little poem, each entry paints a complete picture with just a handful of apt words: "A current snapshot of you erased 25 years of fantasizing about what could have been." Or: "I don't care that you miss my dog. When you cheated on me, you cheated on him, too." Or: "I say 'I love you' to people all the time now, to make that time I said it to you mean less."

And for anyone wanting help to write their own love note, the book ends with clever fill-ins: "I wonder if we’d still be together if I had just admitted I was a ____, instead of saying you had a ____ so big it blocked out the _____."  Try it on someone you loved.

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Dear Old Love: Anonymous Notes to Former Crushes, Sweethearts, Husbands, Wives, &  Ones That Got Away + Other People's Love Letters: 150 Letters You Were Never Meant to See + PostSecret: Extraordinary Confessions from Ordinary Lives
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Editorial Reviews

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"I love this book. It’s inspired and funny and poignant. I plan to buy a copy for all my exes. And for all the women I've ever stared at wistfully across a room (sorry about that, by the way)."
—AJ Jacobs, author of The Year of Living Biblically


About the Author

Andy Selsberg has written for The Onion, GQ, Oxford American, Salon.com, and other publications. He is also a adjunct lecturer of English at John Jay College, CUNY, and a former stand-up comedian. He lives in New York City and his website is www.dearoldlove.com.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 180 pages
  • Publisher: Workman Publishing Company (November 15, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0761156054
  • ISBN-13: 978-0761156055
  • Product Dimensions: 4 x 0.8 x 6.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (18 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #111,492 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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13 of 15 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Something you can relate to November 28, 2009
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I read the web site long before the book came out, but bought the book anyway. The thing I love about it is that you can dip into it on any page and find something poignant that you can relate to it -- even if you can't relate to it. Things like "If I had known I was going to meet the woman you would leave me for when we stopped by your office, I would have put on makeup." You could do worse than read several hundred examples of what we did or didn't do for love...
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Im so miserable without you, its like youre still here January 27, 2010
Format:Hardcover
Humanity at its finest. I saw much of myself and exes in this book, and if you miss your ex, dont text that jerk, just highlight the parts in this book that remind you of them and keep it around to remind yourself why they are exactly that!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
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Dear Old Love managed to be simultaneously horrifically mean, utterly hysterical and heartbreakingly touching - all in the span of less than 200 pages comprised entirely of notes to exes and unrequited crushes. It is a read-out-loud book - I found myself unable to read many of the notes without commenting: "oh how sad!" or "can you BELIEVE anyone would SAY that?!" being the most common vocalizations - well, aside from maniacal laughter of course. I love the idea behind the project - the book derived from a website set up so that people could say the things they had always wanted to say but never had the nerve or the strength or the heart to actually tell another person. I don't know how much closure actually resulted from some of them, but they certainly were fabulously interesting to read!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Smaller then what I was expecting July 4, 2011
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More of a good coffee table book, then a good bed time read. The book was a lot smaller then what I would have thought it to be. Overall I liked the quotes, just wish it would have been more letter/note like then just a lot of small quotes.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Gift Item January 22, 2013
By Sophia
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
Bought this for a friend for her birthday. She's totally into this kind of stuff and loved it. Cute book to look back on and read through every once and awhile.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Reminders as to why we broke up... December 18, 2012
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Dear Old Love was an excellent purchase. It's written in quote form from past lovers, some ex's and some still very much in love. I found it heartwarming and beautiful. And I have to admit - it reminded me as to why I dated some of my ex's and why I broke up with others. Definitely what I needed - a chance to see how others feel about relationships and know that I wasn't alone.
Definitely worth the price and the read. I finished it in one quick night.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Unexpected July 26, 2012
By NMF
Format:Kindle Edition
I decided to read this book thinking it was a witty memoir of someone's old loves. It actually is a compilation of anonymous "Dear old love" letters that are no longer than a few lines. I wouldn't say it was amazing or horrible--it was just alright. I read the entire book in an hour or less and it was worthwhile.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Nostalgic February 20, 2012
Format:Hardcover
When Andy Selsberg got married, he reflected on commitment and old loves. He felt the need to reconcile past relationships, the joys and lessons of some and the pain or errors of others. He turned to the Internet and started this project as a website. It would be a place to leave messages to old or lost loves.

Being able to do so anonymously made it easy to say what may have otherwise been difficult or perhaps impossible. To be able to take a love story and condense it into one line is undeniably an art. This only adds to the importance and beauty of the message and of this book. There is quite a variety of messages and thoughts here. The final section of the book is a "fill-in" section, where you can actually create your own "Dear Old Love..." messages.

Quite often, it is the small book that has so much to say. This book is an excellent example as is says a lot very succinctly. Dear Old Love is for the ones who got away and the ones that were held onto, if only in our hearts. It honours them all by addressing them, "Dear Old Love".
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
Absolutely loved this book! This book is great for fans of the post secret series when you don't have any more to read!
Published 1 month ago by MrsMorgan
5.0 out of 5 stars This book
I love it. It is such a wonderful cute book that makes me smile, laugh, and think about my life some.
Published 1 month ago by KatieClassy
5.0 out of 5 stars A Good Reminder
Glad I read this book. Sure, it's anecdotal, but it has the truth in plain words. And it will make you smile... Read more
Published 2 months ago by K. A. Cardwell
3.0 out of 5 stars Quite a collection
This is a funny and quirky collection of little notes! Some are sweet, some are far from sweet, and some are just down right wrong! Read more
Published 3 months ago by Mica
5.0 out of 5 stars Cute.
This was a very cute, feel good set of published notes/poems/exerpts. I loved it so much that I went through the whole book without being able to set it down.
Published 20 months ago by NYCGirl
5.0 out of 5 stars Reminds me of my old flames
Its a great reminder of what you feel when you are in love and once it ends. Its nice to know others go through the same thing as you.
Published 21 months ago by briannel81
5.0 out of 5 stars great little book
I bought this book on the recommendation of a friend and I could not be happier. It is light-hearted and fun, perfect for anyone.
Published on May 3, 2011 by leizey49
3.0 out of 5 stars :l
Read it a quarter of the way when I received it. Honestly, these notes felt like they were written by teenagers and 20-year-old's who are not ready for serious relationships and/or... Read more
Published on April 19, 2011 by monster
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