61 of 63 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
BRILLIANT and Truly, Deeply POWERFUL!!, October 10, 2009
This review is from: Defy Gravity 4CD: Healing Beyond the Bounds of Reason (Audio CD)
First of all, Don 'alchemist' doesn't know what he's talking about! This is one of the most profound and powerful CD sets ever produced!
It's not for sissies or people who want their ego's coddled. It is for real seekers of Truth and those that are willing to face their most limiting interior, invisible boundaries and do the real inner work of healing and transformation! For Caroline, the conventional, superficial ways of the land that are categorized as 'healing' don't cut it. Her work requires that you bring more of yourself to the table and dare to look at the delicate lie of the ego and acknowledge how it rules you. On the other side of this vigorous pursuit is the ineffable clarity and upliftment of the soul--the ultimate of human experiences. You'll learn how to go beyond the mind and open yourself to Grace. "Complete healing," she says, "is a mystical experience, not a rational one." THIS is a program like no other...Caroline is a teacher like no other! Wake up, listen and be transformed from living out the pain of the ego to living in the freedom and bliss of the Spirit.
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38 of 39 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
She's awesome--for those mature enough to hear her, November 26, 2009
This review is from: Defy Gravity 4CD: Healing Beyond the Bounds of Reason (Audio CD)
I've been an armchair student of Carolyn Myss for about 3 or 4 years. When I got my first CD of her material I was taken by her at first because I could hear her--I am hard of hearing. I didn't have to rewind her CDs to catch something I could not hear, but I do replay her CDs a lot for the material. Some reviewers indicate she is egocentric. To me, the soft-spoken people living out in the ethers to promote materials are the ones who are egocentric. They float along as if they are uplifted by a cloud and they want everyone to see that--it's just not real.
This CD, as well as a lot of her other words, upsets the occasional overly-sensitive customer. To those people I say you are fighting the wrong battles. You don't have to listen to Carolyn, and I like that she never prostitutes who she really is to please overly-sensitive people. Hint: Over-sensitivity is egocentric. I understand this--I used to be overly-sensitive. I overcame mine. Try it sometime.
Where Carolyn comes across as "harsh" to some people is actually her respect and belief that people really can handle the Truth; that they really can make the mystic's journey. She believes in people and refuses to allow you to continue with not believing in yourself. She takes a bucket of water and tosses it on that bad witch sitting on your shoulder to help you get rid of false beliefs about yourself. Her style is to wake people up to their own strengths, not hold people's hand with a soft voice, validating your intention of remaining a victim--or a prostitute. She doesn't believe in your being entitled, either.
Defy Gravity is one of her best pieces. I say that reluctantly because I think all of her work is excellent, and I say excellent because what I have learned from her has actually helped me in my life. I know the dark night of the soul as so many people do. She helped me make sense out of mine; and once I made sense out of mine, I could help others in similar situations. You can be yourself, live fearlessly, and feel profoundly connected to all the universe.
I suggest for those listening to this one also get her program on "Spiritual Madness". That pairs nicely with this one, makes a good introduction to the discussion of the Dark Night of the Soul in Defy Gravity, but DG stands alone well.
Carolyn takes us through the meaning of spiritual crises and some situations that can take us there. No, we are not crazy, nor is it some "ordinary" depression (although most depression is really based in the spiritual crisis). She gives those crises deeper meaning. I love how she also weaves history into her work to show how connected we human beings are across time. Sometimes I feel as if through Carolyn I am receiving spiritual direction from Teresa of Avila or John of the Cross. I feel a kinship with Newton. Whenever she brings in history I feel as if they are my people, my spiritual kin--human beings as imperfect as I am who have found their ways. Her approach through history makes me realize that my life matters, too on this caravan of time.
Carolyn takes us once again back through the chakra system (for more understanding of this for newcomers, I suggest "Spiritual Alchemy" or "Sacred Contracts"), but this time through the seven shadow passions (also known as the seven deadly sins) and the seven graces that heal them. These are rooted in Christian/Catholic theology, however she doesn't approach them through religion but through the mystical journey accessible to all human beings. Sometimes her approach through the eyes of her Catholic background offends the occasional anti-Christian bigot, and I am so glad to hear her say she doesn't by into so-called "political correctness" (which is really another form of lying, by the way). I am not Christian; I'm agnostic, and I've never, ever found her quips or use of Christian ideas offensive, but very helpful. I respect Carolyn for respecting herself enough to stay true to herself in spite of the occasional infantilized criticism.
You will find in this CD set real practical applications. She helps you identify the seven passion and how they can work in your life, how they stand against you. She takes each passion and goes much deeper and further than we usually think of them. For example, she takes greed way past money--you can be intellectually greedy, greedy about acquiring stuff, greedy for attention (sometimes we call those "attention whores", but I think a lot of people suffering from personality disorders will see themselves in this one--and they would greatly benefit from this particular work). In fact, money is a very small part of greed. She makes each passion so profound that I certainly understood myself a lot better--and understand others as well.
Gluttony was presented as not really being about eating or drinking too much but things like being a glutton for punishment, or in my case, I am a book glutton (any of you, too?) At any rate, we all experience the seven passions and she helps us identify just how they show up in our individual lives, how they make us ill, how they stand in the way of our lives. This actually gets to be pretty fun.
We all have the seven graces in our lives, It is a relief to me to know that wherever there is a struggle with one of the passions, there is a grace immediately offered. Carolyn says the graces don't show up as answers, but as questions--always taking us back to our power of choice (hear Spiritual Alchemy for more on the power of Choice).
The bottom line is that no matter what is going on in your life, you can access who you truly are and live it. You don't have to be anyone but you. You can live fearlessly--something we all want.
Carolyn does this for herself, I can tell. While most reviewers are wildly appreciative of her works, there are a few who are extreme in their negative reactions to her. Carolyn is not a codependent hand-holder, helping seekers to remain stuck in the past, or entitled to their pain. I agree with her--this is nonsense. You don't need to blame the past or the people in it. You really can forgive the past and choose to move forward. You really can learn to feel your own profound nature. There are dysfunctional behaviors we've been hanging onto that we really can release.
I take back what I said in the beginning--if you are childish and get upset at a certain tone of voice or an approach that seems harsh, Carolyn is exactly the right teacher for you, for you've got some stuff you don't need to carry forward anymore; you will learn the courage in being true to yourself and take ownership of yourself, ride out serious changes in your life, become fearless, and you will release the need to be overly-sensitive. You will have the chance to take yourself on the real mystic's journey you have always yearned for.
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