38 of 39 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
just the facts ma'am, January 28, 2006
This review is from: Deliberate Orgasm - Expanding Female Orgasm. Volume I (DVD)
This video is a no-nonsense show of how to massage a woman to orgasm. It starts by showing the anatomy of a real women's sex organs, then continues to show how a man can manually stimulate a woman to orgasm. The 40 minute show is mostly a man massaging a woman in full view of the camera and in front of several audience members. There are plenty of detailed views of the vulva, labia and clitoris, and how the man moves his fingers across the clitoris. The audience members sometimes ask the man and the woman (as well as two women who sit nearby) questions about technique and other matters.
One question from me would have been "why is the '1 o'clock' position on the clitoris the most sensitive"?
The video is best for men and women who do not know what the female sex organs look like, who are unwilling or unable to communicate to their partners about what feels good during sex, who do not know where to put their hands and index finger during stimulation, and who do not know what manual stimulation feels like.
The theme of the video is like a medical documentary: a matter-of-fact description of anatomy and techniques. The woman in orgasm was not screaming and tearing the sheets; she was quietly moaning in pleasure for several minutes. The video is certainly not like a pornographic film or a steamy sex drama.
A final note: the video was produced in 1996 on VHS, but today's DVD version has poor sound quality sometimes. For this reason, I gave the DVD 4 stars instead of 5.
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36 of 38 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Good stuff, but a bit dry, February 24, 2006
This review is from: Deliberate Orgasm - Expanding Female Orgasm. Volume I (DVD)
This is a dry, "instructional" display of how to touch a woman's clitoris. In fact, it doesn't appear that anyone is all that excited/aroused while the man strokes the woman, except for the woman that is. She's enjoying everything. It was pretty informative, and I'm looking forward to trying it out. This is a very good purchase if a visual example of how to stroke a clit is what you are looking for; but if you want something arousing or erotic, this isn't for you. Oh, and they are VERY comfortable with showing the female genitalia.
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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
The technique of DOing places the emphasis firmly on a woman..., March 23, 2007
This review is from: Deliberate Orgasm - Expanding Female Orgasm. Volume I (DVD)
The video begins with a brief introduction of the concept of DOing
(Deliberate Orgasm) and warns the viewer that the language used in this production is at times explicit. Next we are provided with a practical demonstration of the DOing technique in front of a live audience. You never actually get to see the audience but they are invited to ask questions before, during and after the demonstration.
The technique of DOing places the emphasis firmly on a woman and, as explained by the instructors, is a deliberate and focused sex act in itself. When asked if it was foreplay the reply was a resounding no, this was a sex act in and of itself and after I'd watched the video I began to see why.
After some audience questions, the demonstration of the technique begins, but not before we are treated to a female anatomy lesson. It's one thing to look at pictures of a females anatomy, but it's quite another to actually watch as they touched and explained each part of her vulva and anus as you see each piece of the puzzle slowly react and fall into place. As the woman lies back, the man begins to apply the DOing technique but not before he's applied plenty of lubrication and explained why. They also point out how the woman looks before the session, a little flushed from anticipation, etc.
Before long the man is busy putting into practice what he teaches as he manipulates her clitoris with deliberate and controlled movements. The close up shots show you the reactions of her genitals, something that as a woman is hard to see without a mirror or being a contortionist. The man explains each movement and responded to questions from the audience. The most important of which I felt was what he was getting out of the whole experience. He stated that we live in a society where intercourse is considered the ultimate goal of sex, and we often forget to just enjoy the sensations that we can create in another's body just by simply touching. One guy in the audience appeared to have some difficulty understanding that just by feeling your partner's reaction can be just as sexually satisfying as having full on intercourse.
It was obvious that either of them had any difficulty understanding that concept as they carried on with the demo while answering questions.
The man is obviously skilled in this technique and she is soon relaxed. He does explain that there was a lot of communication between the two of them when they first began to explore DOing. Many of the terms used do require a little thinking out of the box at times. If fact, the whole DOing concept would for many I suspect.
It was both interesting and erotic to watch the woaman's reactions to his gentle manipulation of her clitoris. The way he could get her to almost peak and fall over the edge of orgasm and yet never quite let her get there, building and then gently bringing her down, allowing her to take breaks if she wanted too. It was pretty obvious that he was paying attention to not only what he was doing but also to what she was experiencing in her body.
The whole demonstration was drawn to a close and her entire demeanor, complexion and look have changed since the beginning of the 30 minute demonstration. This is then followed by a textual reminder of what the concept of Deliberate Orgasm as a technique is about.
This was a great video and one that I enjoyed watching. Although it was amateur in appearance at times, it was real. The woman's reactions to the man were real as were his to her. The interaction with the audience was a wonderful way to bring in questions and answers without it becoming boring or contrived as many technique video's can be.
The technique of DOing does require some rethinking of the way many of us view sex or the actual act of sex itself, but I'm sure there are few women that wouldn't want their partner to at least give this technique a try after watching this video. Ladies, if you want to give your partner a new perspective on sex, this video is a great place to start.
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