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Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick (Author)
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June 9, 2000
When she begins therapy for depression after breast cancer treatment, the author brings with her an extraordinarily open and critical mind, but also shyness about revealing herself. Resisting easy responses to issues of dependence, desire, and mortality, she warily commits to a male therapist who shares little of her cultural and intellectual world.

Although not without pain, their improvised relationship is as unexpectedly pleasurable as her writing is unconventional: Sedgwick combines dialogue, verse, and even her therapist's notes to explore her interior life--and delivers and delicate and tender account of how we arrive at love.

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Queer studies owes its status as an academic discipline in large part to the literary criticism and theoretical writings of Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick (including, most famously, Epistemology of the Closet). In A Dialogue on Love, she applies her skills to the analysis of a far more personal text: herself. This stunningly intimate memoir is an exploration of Sedgwick's journey through therapy for depression, beginning 18 months after a diagnosis of breast cancer. She places her therapist's notes in dialogue with her own words, which take the 17-century Japanese form of haibun, traditionally reserved for travel narratives; a description of another work structured in this way applies equally to her own writing: "Spangled with haiku is more what it feels like, [the] very sentences fraying

into implosions
of starlike density or
radiance, then out

into a prose that's never quite not the poetry." A Dialogue on Love is an engaging, brilliantly constructed portrait of the unique intimacy between therapist and patient, exploring the intricate relationships between childhood precocity, positioning within the family, fantasy, sex, the body, depression, and attitudes toward death. Through these issues, Sedgwick comes to a highly personal, yet expansive, definition of sexuality inclusive of fantasy, autoeroticism, and cultural intimacy. --Julia Steinmetz --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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As a founder of the academic discipline of "queer studies," Sedgwick's bailiwick is postmodern discourse on sexuality, though she has previously avoided disclosing much about her personal life. Having embarked on therapy for depression while recovering from breast cancer, Sedgwick (Epistemology of the Closet, etc.) finally confronts the connection between her own sexual nature and her life's work, while also facing her feelings about death and family. In a narrative structured around her sessions with a heterosexual male therapist, she spends a good deal of time questioning whether he can appreciate her intellect or ever understand her worldview, particularly her deep infatuations with gay men and her complex sadomasochistic fantasies. The sessions lead her to several realizations: that she has an attraction to the dying and the dead; that she is in love with her mother, who, according to a running family joke, is a latent lesbian; that, although she has been married for 25 years, she does have authentic links to "queer" experience; and that she is worthy of acceptance by othersAas well as by her therapist. Including excerpts from her therapist's notes on their sessions and snippets of her own poetry, in addition to lots of chatty commentary, Sedgwick's reflections can come across as tediously self-indulgent. Although it strives to reveal depths of intimacy, her memoir reads more like an intellectual exercise than a straightforward account of psychic painAand often leaves the reader at arm's length with a disquieting feeling of voyeurism that is likely to limit this memoir's appeal to Sedgwick's loyal following. (July)
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press (June 9, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807029238
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807029237
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #522,528 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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13 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Moving portrait of psychoanalysis, February 14, 2000
This review is from: A Dialogue on Love (Hardcover)
Sedgwick, the doyenne of the queer studies movement in literary studies, avoids the sentimentality and sensational voyeurism that mar many recountings of psychotherapy. Her intimate narrative-written during therapy after cancer treatment-provides a moving and honest account of what it means to discuss with a stranger one's deepest anxieties about illness, mortality, dependence, and vulnerability. Sedgwick's aim is to capture the transformative possibilities of seemingly banal interactions with a paid companion.

The book uses the literary forms of Platonic dialogue and haibun, a 17th-Century Japanese prose-and-haiku travel narrative. The interlocutors are Sedgwick and her therapist; the dialogue consists of Sedgwick's retelling of therapeutic interactions, excerpts from her therapist's notes, and numerous mediating haiku glosses. Although some poems fall flat, Sedgwick's use of haibun produces an intricate map of the frustrations, ambivalences, and paradoxes that marked her therapeutic journey. These nuances make compelling her portrait of the life-changing potential of good therapy.

Although they dominate the narrative, the specific issues of Sedgwick's therapy-her attraction to death, masochistic fantasies of coerced consent, and uncertain sexual identity-stand only as particular examples for her universalist vision of the good in therapy. Sedgwick avoids the shallowness of both abstract clinical case studies and of uncritical gushes from the contemporary 'culture of therapy'. What results is appealing indeed: a deeply personal account of psychoanalysis that conveys genuine emotional depth.

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11 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspiring and thought-provoking memoir, November 22, 1999
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This review is from: A Dialogue on Love (Hardcover)
This may be one of those rare occasions where the publisher's blurbs are actually accurate, reflecting (as do the author's comments above) the simple but profound pleasures to be found here. Sedgwick is famous (or infamous, depending on your politics) for her ground-breaking work in literary and cultural theory, especially her role in forging the vital and influential field of Queer Studies. The merits of this book, however, should transcend the expectations of anyone who comes to it looking for "more of the same". Sedgwick makes no claims about her "specialness" or the inherent titillation of her personal fantasy life in the book. What she does is share with her reader the insights into life, death, and the day-to-day struggles and pleasures of a person who is at the same time very special and quite ordinary, realized through a marvelously rich collaborative dialogue with a therapist who comes to learn as much about himself as about his patient in this process. For anyone who thinks or feels deeply, this should be a moving and valuable reading experience--one which we can be grateful did not stay in the author's closet.
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20 of 37 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Some things are better left in one's own closets, July 16, 1999
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Let me begin by expressing sorrow for Sedgwick's illness and admiration for her contributions to queer theory (which are real). Having said that, I nonetheless thought this book somewhat of an embarrassment and surely it only has been published because of Sedgwick's currency as a hot scholar. Her insights are no more remarkable than those gained by just about everyone I know who goes into therapy and she exhibits a predictable grandiosity and delusion when she muses on the fact that she must be brighter than her therapist and that she must be his most interesting patient: who among has not had that--it's called transference! Similarly, I am less put off by her sexual fantasies than bored by them. Hers seems to me to have been a very ordinary and predictable therapy--nothing wrong with that, obviously--it just doesn't warrant this kind of narcissistic public attention. And it does make me wonder what real insights Sedgwick does have about lived human existence, outside her well-maintained ivory tower. She speaks of those she "loves"--but her account is so self-centered that it seems hard to think of her actually experiencing "love" as most of us mere mortals (who have not deconstructed it) have. Perhaps most revealing is her obssession with masturbation--that and thinking about sex/sexuality seem to have been substitutes for much real human sexual interaction. Is this a new genre--the sessions and fantasies of great academics? At least Diane Middlebrook's analytically-based biography of Anne Sexton had some real sense of that patient's passions--for life, love, and, inevitably, death.
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