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Dialogue: The Art Of Thinking Together [Kindle Edition]

William Isaacs
4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)

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Dialogue provides practical guidelines for one of the essential elements of true partnership--learning how to talk together in honest and effective ways. Reveals how problems between managers and employees, and between companies or divisions within a larger corporation, stem from an inability to conduct a successful dialogue.


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Modern conversation is a lot like nuclear physics, argues William Isaacs. Lots of atoms zoom around, many of which just rush past each other. But others collide, creating friction. Even if our atomic conversations don't turn contentious, they often just serve to establish each participant's place in the cosmos. One guy shares a statistic he's privy to, another shares another fact, and on and on. Each person fires off a tidbit, pauses to reload while someone else talks, then fires off another. In Dialogue and the Art of Thinking Together, Isaacs explains how we can do better than that.

Isaacs, who is Director of the Dialogue Project at MIT and a consultant to major corporations, including AT&T and Intel, believes that corporate, political, and personal communication can be a process of thinking together--as opposed to thinking alone, and then trying to convince others of our positions by refusing to consider other opinions, withholding information, and ultimately getting angry and defensive. This is not pie-in-the-sky, let's-all-hold-hands-and-sing stuff. He offers concrete ideas for both listening and speaking; for avoiding the forces that undermine meaningful conversation; for changing the physical setting of the dialogue to change its quality. The outcome, he says, can be quite different from the traditional winner-loser structure of arguments and debates. Businesses can make more reasoned decisions, and thus earn more money. Governments can create peaceful resolutions to seemingly intractable problems. (For example, Isaacs cites secret conversations between Nelson Mandela and F.W. de Klerk in South Africa, which occurred over a number of years, while Mandela was still under arrest and led to a new framework for their country.) And, although this is a book primarily geared toward managers, even married couples can learn a few new ways to communicate. --Lou Schuler

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Isaacs is a colleague of organizational learning guru Peter Senge and one of the founders of MIT's Organizational Learning Center. He also directs MIT's Dialogue Project, on which this book is based. Isaacs argues that organizational learning cannot take place without successful dialogue. Dialogue is conversation that encourages collective observation and thought, enabling groups to think beyond their members' individual limitations. Isaacs posits an "ecology of thought," which is typically constrained by habits that are known and felt but never discussed. Those habits can be revealed only through dialogue that permits inquiry, confrontation, and clarification. Only then can habits be changed and new possibilities explored. Isaacs examines the processes that constitute dialogue and shows what encourages and what discourages dialogue, what happens when dialogue is introduced into difficult settings, and how to manage the changes within oneself that are necessary to become an effective participant in dialogue. David Rouse

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  • File Size: 1694 KB
  • Print Length: 450 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: B009I8HPWQ
  • Publisher: Crown Business; 1 edition (December 30, 2008)
  • Sold by: Random House LLC
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B001OXCELA
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48 of 48 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Interactive Humanity February 15, 2000
Format:Hardcover
Dialogue
According to the subtitle, Isaacs provides "a pioneering approach to communicating in business and in life." This he does with insight and eloquence. There is a great need for what this book provides, especially now as organizations are (finally) beginning to appreciate the importance of supporting (indeed nourishing) the personal as well as the professional development of their "human capital" The word "dialogue" denotes conversation between two or more persons. Moreover, the original meaning of the word "conversation" is to turn around, to transform; later, the word's meaning evolved to "living, dwelling, and associating with others." Today, most of us think of conversation as "talk." Some of us think of it as a "lost art." Isaacs obviously has both words clearly in mind as he introduces his "pioneering approach." His purpose is to explain HOW effective dialogue, dialogue which is "about a shared inquiry, a way of thinking and reflecting together", can increase and enhance human dignity and understanding. How important is face-to-face communication? My own opinion is that it is more important now than ever before. However, again my opinion, the quality of face-to-face communication has rapidly deteriorated in this age of high-speed electronic "connectivity."
Isaacs' book is organized into five "Parts": What Is Dialogue; Building Capacity for New Behavior (ie listening, respecting, suspending, and voicing); Predictive Intuition; Architecture of the Invisible; and Widening the Circle. several For me, one of the most important of Isaacs' themes is so obvious, so simple: Show your respect for others by listening carefully to what they say. Dialogue worthy of the name is based on mutual respect. Hence the importance of attitude.
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35 of 37 people found the following review helpful
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Format:Hardcover|Verified Purchase
When this book arrived on my doorstep, I tore into it as I usually do with nonfiction books of great interest: I read the first and last chapters, dove by intuition into various middle points, eyeballed the diagrams, and sighed. No quick read, here. This was going to require full attention, and a willingness on my part to 'walk' with the author through his description of that most familiar and elusive phenomenon, dialogue.
It has been well worth the walk.
Isaacs both knows his stuff and has done his homework. He participated with David Bohm and others in the early dialogue sessions, and remais quite true to the spirit and intent of Bohm's work. He also brings depth of experience with subsequent dialogue work, and breadth of supporting ideas from eclectic sources to his description of the practice of deepened and enriched conversation. Few have experimented with dialogue in as many settings, and few have linked this current practice with as many related disciplines as Isaacs has.
To me, Isaacs presents dialogue as a world view, moreso than a set of conversational skills and techniques, remarkable moments in communication, group pain relief, or organizational change practice (as I feel other authors have done). Yet dialogue may play an important role in all of the above, and he does offer practical examples and approaches to try.
As practitioner, researcher, and occasional critic of dialogue, I appreciated revisiting its deeper roots. I particularly liked the discussion of dialogue and the senses of seeing and hearing. I hadn't thought of listening as geographic, before! Nor had I thought of 'participation' in quite the way he describes. At several points, I found it helpful to stop, put the book down, and think through the implications.
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21 of 21 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Communications is so much more than words... June 22, 2001
Format:Hardcover
Dialogue; traced to its Greek roots is a flow of meaning, an ability to take many different issues and opinions to a table and create something completely new out of the process. Communication is the center of our culture as human beings, yet we rarely make time for true communication in our society today. As a person that feels as if there is something missing in the conversations I hold in my life and in my career I found this book to be very insightful. I gained an understanding of my frustrations, some skills to apply, and a look at the direction in which I want to go in the future. As it is a complex book that applies to every part of my life (and yours!) I have chosen to simply include a few of my favorite quotes.
"Respect also means honoring people's boundries to the point of protecting them. If you respect someone, you do not intrude. At the same time, if you respect someone, you do not withhold yourself or distance yourself from them. I have heard many people claim they were respecting someone by leaving them alone, when in fact they were simpley distancing themselves from something they did not want to deal with. When we respect someone, we accept that they have thinks to teach us."..."Treat the person next to you as a teacher. What is it that they have to teach you that you do not now know? Listening to them in this way, you discover things that might surprise you."..."Respect is, in this sense, looking for what is highest and best in a person and treating them as a mystery that you can never fully comprehend. They are a part of the whole, and, in a very particular sense, a part of us." - PP 114-117
"Every conversation has its own acoustics.
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5.0 out of 5 stars An Art Written By A Scientist
This is a scientist who wrote an art book. Insightful and grounded. The only thing I wish it could be better is: could have been compressed and made more succinct.
Published 2 months ago by heartofshepherd
2.0 out of 5 stars Disappointed with Used Book Vendor--
The used book vendor left a used sticker on this book without the book jacket. When I removed the sticker it damaged the cover.

Otherwise, the book was fine.
Published 5 months ago by C. Piotrowski
5.0 out of 5 stars Organizational Leadership: The Importance of Dialogue!
This book grew out of MIT's Dialogue Project. In the forward, Peter Senge noted about dialogue: "Once people rediscover the art of talking together, they do not go back. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars A true road into togetherness
Isaacs capture the essence of understanding each other and creating our common human future of possibilities using the 'analog heart' as compass to beauty, truthfulness and... Read more
Published 8 months ago by Jose Casari
4.0 out of 5 stars Clear and well written.
I have not finished the book so I am waiting for suggestions on how to utilize the concepts, but it is clear and well written. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Marcia Flagg
5.0 out of 5 stars Diaogue the art of thinking together
This is an amazing book that I've reread many times and each time I do, I come into a new enlightenment, new understanding about myself and dialogue, the art of shared inquiry. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Duke Rohe
5.0 out of 5 stars Superb
Old like I am I've read a lot. I have a maximum: if I read twenty pages and the book says nothing or little to me, I don't read it anymore. Read more
Published on July 20, 2012 by Tiago M. Bevilaqua
2.0 out of 5 stars Not a practical tool
Perhaps my expectation of this being a practical tool was inaccurate. It is a verbose set of ramblings about dialog (or dialogue if you prefer). Read more
Published on January 24, 2012 by E. J.
5.0 out of 5 stars Dialogue: The Art of Thinking Together
Really beautiful book. Whether it's your job, your marriage, your family, your church, your club -- you can use the information and practices in this book.
Published on September 18, 2011 by Valorie Zimmerman
5.0 out of 5 stars The Premier Book on Dialogue Theory
This is an important book for understanding dialogue theory. Here is an excerpt of what I wrote in a book review for "ETC: A Review of General Semantics":

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Published on July 1, 2011 by Philip Vassallo
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