Did I Ever Tell You About the Time: How to Develop and Deliver a Speech Using Stories that Get Your Message Across [Paperback]

Grady Jim Robinson (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: February 16, 2000 | ISBN-10: 0071342141 | ISBN-13: 978-0071342148

Robinson tells how to develop and deliver stories that will create an immediate bond and get the message across with maximum impact. In this masterful guide, he explains how to:

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"Grady Jim Robinson is probably the best personal storyteller in all of professional speaking...this book will be an invaluable resource for anyone who must stand before an audience and speak."--Mark Victor Hansen, coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Soul. "Grady Jim Robinson is not only the premier storyteller in the speaking industry, he is a master teacher of how stories work. Every speaker, teacher, trainer, and preacher will achieve higher impact as a speaker by reading this book."--Dan Burrus, Technotrends. "It is one thing to tell a story masterfully, which Grady Jim does. When that can be extended to teaching others the skills so they can turn theirs into art, it is genius in action...Long after audiences have forgotten concepts shared, they write to tell me how a story shared helped them transform their lives."--Rosita Perez, speaker and winner of the NSA Cavett Award, and National Management Association Speaker-of-the-Year. A complete guide to dynamic storytelling...Whether you're a professional speaker, teacher, salesperson, corporate trainer, or someone who just wants to be more effective at getting a message across to an audience, good storytelling can make the difference. But it's how you tell the story that matters. Did I Ever Tell You About the Time...shows you how to develop and deliver a speech using stories that will persuade and captivate any audience. Written by nationally known speaker Grady Jim Robinson, this entertaining and informative guide helps create an immediate bond with your audience and gets the message across with maximum impact. Among the many techniques Robinson covers, you'll discover how to: use personal experiences to discover your "signature story"; integrate humor and action into the story; tie the story to a universal message or "happy ending'. Connect with your audience on a deeper level. Entertain your listeners as you inform. Use the power of storytelling to turn your next speech into an absorbing message your audience will enjoy from beginning to end.

Product Details

• Paperback: 241 pages
• Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies (February 16, 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0071342141
• ISBN-13: 978-0071342148
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,291,174 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars In the Presence of the Divine, April 1, 2000

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Voiceguy (Los Angeles, CA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Did I Ever Tell You About the Time: How to Develop and Deliver a Speech Using Stories that Get Your Message Across (Paperback)

Mythology expert Joseph Campbell wrote, "It would not be too much to say that myth is the secret opening through which the inexhaustible energies of the cosmos pour into human cultural manifestation." Veteran speaker and storyteller Grady Jim Robinson adds, "Science can teach us the empirical truths and laws of the universe, but it is another domain that reveals the meaning behind those laws. Through the symbols and archetypes of story or myth, human beings connect at the deepest levels. Storytelling -- like painting, music, literature, poetry, or dance -- is an art form. And art in its purest state brings the viewer or listener into the very presence of the divine."

For years, Robinson has shared with audiences stories of his early life in small-town Arkansas: a sensitive boy, growing up in the shadow of an older brother who excelled in sports and schoolwork, and the even greater shadow of a gruff father who towered over the area as a highly successful sports coach. The stories paint vivid and unforgettable pictures of a young boy confronting his first Little League at-bat against a menacing pitcher nicknamed "Fishhook," or being pushed out unexpectedly on to the court by his father as the unwilling fifth player at a B-team basketball game so his team would not forfeit.

Robinson discovered that these stories resonated at a profound level with audiences from Harlem to Hollywood. Why? Most of them had no actual experience of life in rural Arkansas. In one case an African American woman who grew up in Harlem told Robinson that in listening to his stories about his father, she felt he was talking about her own father. Robinson sought to understand how this could be.

He discovered Joseph Campbell.

Campbell showed that in cultures around the world and throughout the centuries, universal symbols and themes have emerged in story and legend to which human beings instinctively respond. And the most basic ingredient of all is the "hero's journey," in which the subject leaves his familiar life and embarks on a quest, facing archetypal foes and challenges one after another until confronted with the Supreme Ordeal which will change him forever. He then returns, so changed, to the world he left, bringing the result with him. It is the stuff of "Beowulf" and it is the stuff of "Star Wars." It is the stuff of a young boy in Arkansas determined not to duck when Fishhook's first pitch comes rocketing toward the plate.

It is the stuff, believes Robinson, of which life-changing and memorable speeches are made.

In this book, Robinson examines the nature of human stories in detail, exploring their power, the elements that make a good story, and the trance-like state that audiences fall into while a story is being told. He presents several of his best-known stories and analyzes what he has done to make them most effective. And he presents a number of ideas to get readers started on identifying and shaping the powerful stories from their own lives, because he believes everyone has faced trials and tribulations that will strike universal chords with audiences.

"The human story is life-giving, uplifting, tender, inspiring, and funny, filled with wonder and awe," writes Robinson. "It is deeply painful at times, challenging, requiring courage, faith, and hope. Your story is life-shaping, hilarious, and it is *your* story. Tell it."

If you can find a way to hear Grady Jim live, don't miss the opportunity. If not, get this book!

5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars The Ethos or Spiritual Content of Story Explained, August 19, 2002

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Excellent book to read on public speaking. I have read and reviewed on Amazon 37 public speaking books. This book is in the top five that I would recommend. The book is very easy to read yet the author is aggressively analytical about what makes a good story that would be effective in a speech. He traces his early thoughts on what makes a good story to his more recent fleshed out analysis. What makes some stories grab you and others boring? Read this book. Stories of mythology are very old and still make connections deep in the soul. Robinson explains the ingredients of what makes these stories great. In his view, there is a universal theme or structure to the good stories. The hero has separation from his group, initiation and then return or integration. You might think of it as a template for making your own classical story for modern times. He does a stellar job on helping the reader search for and develop what might become your signature stories. The book one of those word of mouth success stories as the Amazon sales rank keeps climbing.

4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great advice and great stories!, March 9, 2000

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This review is from: Did I Ever Tell You About the Time: How to Develop and Deliver a Speech Using Stories that Get Your Message Across (Paperback)

I enjoyed this book on two levels -- one the practical side of telling stories in public settings for effect and the other for the author's sense of humor and his own stories. I don't speak often myself, but do in fact work with stories. I think speakers (teachers, preachers, seminar leaders) will get even more great advice from this book.