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Different Children, Different Needs: Understanding the Unique Personality of Your Child [Paperback]

Charles F. Boyd , Robert A. Rohm
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Book Description

March 30, 2004
Biblical parenting involves encouraging, exhorting, and empathizing with children according to their unique needs and character. This re-release of Different Children, Different Needs clarifies what the Bible means when it commands us to "train up a child in the way he should go" (Proverbs 22:6). It teaches moms and dads how to understand the personality God has given each of their children and how to tailor their parenting styles to meet their children's needs. Pastor Charles Boyd uses the popular DISC personality assessment model to help parents better recognize, accept, and appreciate their kids' temperaments.

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About the Author

Dr. Charles F. Boyd is teaching pastor at Southside Fellowship in Greenville, South Carolina. He earned his doctorate in ministry from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and graduated with high honors from Dallas Theological Seminary, where he received a master's degree in theology. Dr. Boyd has pastored churches in Georgia, Texas, Arkansas, and South Carolina. He and his wife, Karen, have three children.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Multnomah Books (March 30, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1590523121
  • ISBN-13: 978-1590523124
  • Product Dimensions: 5.2 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #37,392 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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17 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Here's a key to a difficult child's heart! August 31, 2001
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This book will help you understand that different personalities aren't right or wrong, they are just different.
Using the DISC personality profile descriptions this easy to understand book can help you re-open closed communication lines with your child who is different than you in action, thought, and deed.
It's as simple as starting by asking yourself is he/she "slow-paced" or "fast-paced", "task-oriented" or "people-oriented"? I'm an associate pastor in a large church. Our children's minister is planning to use this book with teachers and parents. Her quote is, "Why should we wait until we are over 40 years old to understand this stuff?"
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book for Parents March 26, 2002
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I am really enjoying this book. I say enjoying instead of enjoyed because it is a great reference for me. I have four kids and each child is TOTALLY different. This book has been an eye-opener to help me cater to each on according to their individual needs. This book is an easy read and very spiritual. I've been recommending it to every parent that I know who has more than one child.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars LOVE IT! February 13, 2004
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I loved this book. It is very easy to read and understand and has helped me to see others differently, and recognize how personalities truly affect relationships. Knowledge is the key, and once I understand why someone behaves the way they do, I can recognize that they really aren't just trying to annoy me, and learn to adjust. I also see my own weaknesses and can work on those. No one is DEFINED by their personality type. We all have choices to make in life, but understanding your normal tendencies can help you to become a more balance person. And having a daughter that is so different from me, I really enjoyed the section in this book on how each personality type relates to the others- strengths, struggles, and strategies. Definitely recommend!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent resource to have in your family library! September 21, 1999
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Super book to read and discuss with other families. I covered this book in parenting seminars and have found it to be a great reference. The book contains easy surveys to complete that will enable you to understand what makes each family member tick. It gives numerous suggestions on curtailing you parenting techniques to each child's personality. I have found the way Charlie writes and explains in detail easy to understand and identify with as a parent and a professional.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
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Charles Boyd does a wonderful job of writing this book to help parents understand the need to parent children to their unique personalities.

I like how he uses the DISC Model that helps parents understand that their personality and their child's personality can work together even if at opposite ends of the spectrum. I have taught these principles in parenting classes using this book and found parents have a AHAA! moment when it dawns on them why their child follows them around all evening. The parents realized that their children just needed to be nurtured based on their personality styles.

I like how the book is written as a study book for parenting groups. It gives another way for parents to gather together, share ideas, and learn new strategies about children.

This is a must read for parents.

Jen Hegerty, School Counselor
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A book I can't stop talking about March 9, 2010
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I can honestly say that this book has changed my outlook on my parenting.

This book starts out by clarifying what the Bible means when it commands us to "train up a child in the way he should go" (Proverbs 22:6) by explaining that the Hebrew meaning behind "the way he should go" more accurately could be described to say "according to his bent". In other words, God has created each of us with a unique bent to our personality. We will do best to understand our child's bent and parent them with that in mind. Failing to do this results in children that are raised feeling that if they could change who they are (be more assertive, more calm, more creative, more like their brother, etc) we would love/accept them more. God has created each of us with our own set of strengths, gifts, weaknesses and tendencies. This book used the popular DISC personality assessment model to help me to not only understand the personality of my children, but to see how it is God given. It also helped my husband and I identify our personality types and understand the natural strengths and weaknesses with those personalities. Practically, this book also went into great detail providing ideas on how to tailor our parenting style to train our children according to their "bent" (even breaking down each specific parent/child personality combination). It also touched on how the differing personality types of you and your spouse can affect your marriage.

After reading this book I was able to better understand our oldest son's personality and appreciate his temperament rather than try to fight or change it.

As a few examples:

-Part of our son's personality is to have a strong desire to lead. This can be a strength; the world needs leaders, especially good ones.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A parenting coach's review June 23, 2014
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I'm a parenting coach to parents struggling with defiant tweens and or teens. I love that this book helps parents see both self and their children from a purely behavioral standpoint. Every parent should read this book!

Deaunna Evans, MCC
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5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Loved this book! Understand myself, my husband and my three children so much better after reading this.
Published 1 month ago by B. Wilson
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Glad I do not need to say I loved my kids the same.....I loved them as they needed to thanks to books like these
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I have recommended this book for years to any individual who wants to understand the different behavioral styles that children exhibit and how to recognize that all children do not... Read more
Published 10 months ago by Competitive Edge, Inc.
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book for Parents Who Want to Better Understand How Their...
It's a great book for understanding yourself and how your child is wired from a biblical worldview. Don't skip the self evaluation section.
Published 11 months ago by Dennis Meek
4.0 out of 5 stars Just received it but took two orders to get the book here.
Doesn't make sense to me the delay with the first order. It was returned and I had to reorder. Not a real fan of ordering online.
Published 23 months ago by Beth Harmening
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book
This book was easy to read and very informative. I enjoyed reading it and recommended it to friends, who are now reading it, too. Read more
Published 24 months ago by Darren
5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful, practical, specific without being rigid
This book has been a great, practical resource for our family, and the title is a perfect description of just what the book does: it has helped us to understand the different,... Read more
Published on May 24, 2009 by Mother of four
5.0 out of 5 stars Exceptional book for parents!
This is an exceptional book for parents, giving us the descriptions of different temperaments... both for our children and for ourselves. Read more
Published on November 29, 2007 by A. Miller
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